I’m A Virgin - Will My Big Penis Hurt My Partner? (Video)
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This isn’t a common question because usually it’s the other way around with a man asking if his penis is too small. Though the questions are opposites, the answers share a common thread.
It’s really not the size of your penis, but how you use it. A lot of guys see this as a copout response, but it is the honest answer. It also depends on the woman and the size of her vagina. If you think your penis is to large for your woman then you should take it slow and see how she responds.
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
My penis is 7.5" long. I’m a virgin and I don’t want my first time to hurt whoever I intend to share my virginity with. Am I too big?
–Concerned, Florida
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Penis size really isn’t that important
What is more important than length of your penis is the width of it. If your penis is long and thick then your partner might be in for a little bit of trouble. There is no "correct" length, because we are all made differently but what really matters is if you and your partner enjoy sexual intercourse and that you’re not causing her discomfort. If it is your first time, then you should take it slow and see how she reacts.
You’ll find there are a lot of women out there who enjoy a large penis, so don’t worry too much if you think you’re too large. There are also plenty of lubricants to help ease the process of insertion to make it much gentler on the woman. Sex is to be enjoyable to both parties, but some men who have larger penises don’t stop to think if it might be uncomfortable for a woman.
You’ll find you will have a much better sex life if you do stop to consider your partner’s enjoyment as much as your own. You won’t hear as much praise from your partner if you are a "stick it in and hope for the best" kind of guy. Sex is as much about pleasing your partner as it is pleasing yourself.
A large penis is intimidating
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