Comments on: How Long Can You Go Without Sex?

By: helga

helga — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 08:04:12 +0000

I think people can go without sex many years, because for the moment in the world it is a various sex toys which have sexual life more intensive.

By: katelynn

katelynn — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 00:52:57 +0000

barnschop, that doesn’t describe a good lover to me. it would actually creep me out.

By: barnschop

barnschop — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 07:01:44 +0000

Girls, so many men do not know what a woman wants in the bedroom, why not tell them?
If you just lay there and expect something magical you maybe lucky, chances are you will not be. Find out your own pleasure spots and tech him where they are.
If you are going online dating ask him to describe your first intimate encounter. See how romantic a lover he is……
If he is good then expect something like this:-

Our first intimate encounter would be where we could set aside two hours where we would not be interuppted. We stand and hold hands and allow our lips to make contact, our mouths moving together in unison. My hands gently masaging your back, stroking your hair and back of your neck. My hand would venture closer to the side of your breast and I would see if your arms came down to stop me or whether you are ready for me to move on.

Ok, better stop there, think you get the picture.

Guys if you are reading this then you will get far better results being a romantic lover…….I know!!!!!!

By: Sex Toys Can Help

Sex Toys Can Help — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 20:18:59 +0000

Well like the article says, “sex is a need”. And what a need! 3 times a week, every 15 minutes, whatever it be, sex is a craving and a desire that will totally drive you crazy! I definitely agree with that…

Well one thing people can try, and I know like Jeniminx said, it’s not for everyone, is good ol’ masturbation. Shameless self satisfaction. Whatever you call it, it is a great way of reliving yourself of sexual tension due to a lack of sex.

Whether it is a need to orgasm, or simply to feel really good for 20 minutes, masturbation can give you that much. And the very best way to please yourself sexual is by using sex toys. Adult toys can be big or small, or however you like them. So if you are nervous and shy, get a smaller discreet toy, and if you like em’ big and bulky, go that way.. Whatever you choose, definitely try it! This way you won’t have to bother your partner if you want sex twice a day and they don’t, or risk getting an STD by multiple partners.

Just a thought. As natural as sex itself, the need to add some spice to sex or masturbation is most always on peoples minds, really, it all come down to acting on it! Give it a go and see if it helps control those itching “needs”.

By: Nicole Andrews

Nicole Andrews — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 09:01:45 +0000

Well, me and my fiancee discuss this a lot since we have found in each other not only some to love, but a person with a matching sex drive! No small feat given we are both on the high side- 7 or 8 times a week. fyi: we have been together 20 months and are in our mid-forties. People’s sex drives really do differ. He and I have been like this our whole lives (i have been masturbating to orgasm since i was 7). It is divine to have someone who is as horny as me all the time and who likes the same things sexual-that’s another biggie, liking to do the same stuff. We plan to spend the next 40 years doing many wonderful things, including lots and lots more sex. Sometimes you just get lucky in life. To love and have a man like him – i am very, very lucky.

By: jeniminx

jeniminx — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 00:48:55 +0000

LOL

Well, I find that the 15 minute man problem is solved by either being a bit more selective or having more than one man involved. Of course, I find that the longer I have gone without a satisfying sexual experience, the lower my own standards go. At that point I become a bit predatory.

Overall, I’m pleased with the quality of sex I have experienced with the various men in my life. However, it is nice to have a boyfriend/lover since my needs (at least 3 times a week) are met regularly. Otherwise, it’s just a matter of being able to line up enough “friends” every week. Masturbation is helpful but doesn’t quite do the trick for me.

By: peace hope

peace hope — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 23:49:35 +0000

i’m a victim of reliong and sex,2day i’m 29 and not in a relationship coz i thougthi was not necessary a such.however much i want to be in ano 2day,its hard,the fact that my biological watch is tickling scares me most.Besides that ave gone thru’ Fgm.I believe that i will one day get married,my challeng is,having gone thru’ fgm how will i boast my orgasm.Many are the time fgm has been critisized,what do you tell those ladies who were exposed to it without their knowledge,any hope 4 them?i have not had sex 4 more than 10yrs 2day,can that affect my attitude toward sex?i believe in abstenance.when one has sexual desires and don’t fullfil them for such a long period of time,are there any side effect?

By: pasiphae

pasiphae — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 23:47:11 +0000

speaking as a Woman I find your take enlightening as for myself a healthy sex drive is in gear just finding a man that wii be there for more than 15 minutes…………ahhhhhhh that’s the problem