Female Orgasm and Oral Sex? What’s a Girlfriend to do? (Video)

6 Responses to “Female Orgasm and Oral Sex? What’s a Girlfriend to do? (Video)”

1. Jeff Kee on May 12th, 2007 12:20 am

   OK, now to be serious - different girls have different hot spots. some girls are very sensitive with the clit and others are not, so it’s not necessarily your boyfriend’s fault - it may just not be your thing. Nerves can be positioned differently from individual to indiviaul.

   having said taht above comment about how talented I am with my tongue, there was 1 girl that did not enjoy it as much, so that says it - not everybody feels it the same way.

2. RR on June 20th, 2007 10:34 am

   Amy, I am very familiar with your problem. I’ve been married for 9 years now and my wife has had almost the exact same situation. She will orgasm from intercourse almost every time, and in all the years we’ve been married she’s only had about 12 or so orgasms from oral sex.
   Her, and I’m guessing your, body is better stimulated through vaginal (G spot) stimulation rather than clitoral stimulation. Even during her oral orgasms, there was G spot stimulation (fingers). One thing that might give you something to look forward to, she’s 30 years old now and we have a 2 1/2 year old. In the past 4 months or so, she’s learned to actually masturbate and orgasm. This is something she’s never been able to do. In this same timeframe, I’ve been able to bring her to 3 oral orgasms. I’ve also noticed it’s been a bit harder for her to orgasm from intercourse than before. I have a theory that her body is going through a change where she can orgasm easier from clitoral stimulation. I’m hoping it doesn’t make it too difficult for her to orgasm from intercourse. If it were up to me, I’d prefer that she orgasm from intercourse rather than oral. I love giving oral, but during intercourse, we can orgasm together.
   One thing I’ve learned from my partners and from other girls I know is that different women will orgasm from different acts. Some women can only really orgasm from oral sex and some can’t. Some will orgasm from certain positions during intercourse and not in other positions. It’s all about how you and your partner “fit” togehter. Men have different shapes and sizes of their “member”. Some are longer and some are fatter, some lean to the left or right and some curve upward or downward. This all determines what internal spots are stimulated during intercourse.
   You might want to just experiment with him and play around with different positions and stimulations. If you’re not opposed, try toys. Although, don’t use them too often as there is a theory that using vibrators too often can de-sensitize your clit, making it hard to orgasm without a vibrator. But they can be fun and help if not used all the time.
   Good luck!!

3. shrikumar on October 17th, 2007 10:56 am

   i perform oral sex on my wife & she enjoys it; but when i wish her to do oral for me, she refuses flat and i am totally disappointed yet i never force her. is there anyone else having the same problem ?

4. Peter on February 5th, 2008 11:10 am

   My wife and i have been married 15 years. In the beginning we had much intercorse, but due to my age, and have to eat tabletts against cholesterol and blood pressur my penis has shrinked. So she prefer to have oralsex from me and also giving it back to me. But to have really good intercourse she have a “married” friend who is making love to her one to two time a month. He is really big, and well endowed and she enjoys him very much. I get turned on of it, and she is happy to have something big to play with.

5. alex on February 25th, 2008 10:19 am

   im a lesbian,27 slim,sexy and talented.. i have girlfriend and weve been for 6 years already,, we been so far to each other for almost two years. i asked her not to go far from me.. but she didnt listen,, i do still love her..until theres someone notice im looking for an attention or firendship..she noticeim a lesbian and gave herself to love me and she knows i have girlfriend which i love so much.. She doesnt care,she said she loves me truly..til I my feelings to her grows and i learned to love her too. how can i handle two hearts that loves me ?

6. LadyKelien on March 29th, 2008 10:53 am

   Peter, I hate to tell you this but to me it sounds like your relationship has more problems than just your inablity to perform sexually. The mind is the greatest sex organ a woman has. If you can’t stimulate her mind enough that she can orgasim from you barly touching her then your not all that connected to her. Hard throbbing cock my eye tooth. Sex with women just doesn’t work that way. Thats why so many womens best friend is the removable showerhead married or not.

   Why can we do for ourselves in a couple of minutes most men cant accomplish in an hour? We know what makes us tick. We know exactly what to think about. Exactly what to imagine is happening in that situation that sends us over the edge. Its all about the mind even when the physical stimulation is so strong we would have no choice but to orgasim. You could make her come 40 times a day and if you didn’t have her mind connected she would still be making excuses to go find someone who would.

   Tell her a story, get into her head. make her squirm for your touch without ever touching her. Simply by talking to her. Find the primortial male energy within you and use it to awaken the primortial female in her. And if your really concerned about her needing actual intercourse then contact your doctor about viagra. But, If she can get the intercourse along with the mindfu** somewhere else, eventually she won’t come home. Thats just the way it is.