Help - My Overactive Sex Drive is Killing My Marriage!

Many people hesitate to read books about sex because they feel like they should know all by now… "What will my friends say?", "How will my partner react?" These are just some of the questions that keep people from learning about sex.

We read as many books as we can get our hands on about all kinds of topics - especially sex. So, check out our Amazon store for some of our favorite books and start reading - when you stop learning, your brain dies - literally. Don’t let that happen to you.

Sex can be such a wonderful and joyous experience, and so many people worldwide wish they could experience it more fully. Here are some great books to help you both start enjoying sex to the fullest extent possible.

• Sexual Reflexology: Activating the Taoist Points of Love by Mantak Chia and William U. Wei
• The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by Mantak Chia
• The Tao of Love and Sex by Jolan Chang
• Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex by Dr. Judy Kuriansky
• The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Amazing Sex by Sari Locker

Remedies to lower your sex drive or increase your wife’s sex drive

If you’re not open to the option above, then you can talk to your doctor about medications or natural supplements that can help reduce your sex drive or increase your wife’s sex drive. I recommend the natural approach whenever possible.

Tread lightly when talking to your wife about taking actions to increase her sex drive - she may not want to. But if she is open to the idea, then that’s wonderful. Just remember to stay clear of the idea that she’s not pleasing you, because that is guaranteed to get emotional. 

Regardless, be sure to see your doctor before starting any medical or herbal treatment.

Bring someone else into your bedroom to satisfy your sexual needs

There is always the option of inviting another person in to your life just for the purpose of fulfilling your sexual desires. This of course, will depend of your relationship with your wife and you personal belief system.

This is an interesting option that may or may not be acceptable to your wife…