I read the article about more sex with your spouse, but my husband, after 5 years married, 8 together. when we first met, he was a wonderful lover. Now, about four years ago, he began to have issues with sex. The signs were, he would lose an erection after foreplay and before getting in me. He did not ejaculate prematurely, but he would lose his erection. It turns out he has hypothyroidism. We got medicine and he was on the go again, but things changed. he wasn’t as passionate as before. We did have some arguments before learning of his problem, making things short, he began to want sex now every single day. I didn’t. I got frustrated with our issue. Time is now and when we have time alone, he doesn’t initiate sex. He worries and I told him not to. We agreed. Well, its still there. He doesn’t get a hard on by just looking at me, he says he needs stimulation. Well, I kiss him and talk to him but it doesn’t work. when he does look at porn, or anything sexual, he does?? What can I do.(He says he still lust me, but doesn’t show it)

Thank you.