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Did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms? Itâs true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.
Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she’ll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:
Start outside the bedroom
Want to increase the chances she’ll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a womanâs brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! 
Relax her
Itâs very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.
Ignore the vagina
Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, youâll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.
Change your focus
If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you’ll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you’ve finished first and decide to help her come, you won’t have the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed to keep her hot and turned on.
Tip to last longer
Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I’ve found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you’re about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the âlittle guysâ subside again. Now continue pleasuring. 
Don’t use lubricants
Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they’re turned on. By using a product substitute, you’re only fooling yourself. Without products, youâll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.
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Don’t use lube?! That is a terrible suggestion! Some of us women out here require it or feel intense pain. Instead of that lesson the big lesson should be LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER. That is the best way to ensure a woman will orgasm. The best way.
Hey Gina, great comment.
We completely agree that this should be on a case by case basis. Not all women are created equal and may or may not ‘get wet’ when they are excited, so while this can be an indicator that you’re doing it right, the best thing is to communicate with your partner and talk openly about what feels good and what feels great.
And by all means, if it feels better with lube, then apply liberally.
Best,
D&J
Reverse missionary? That’s a new term. More of a play on cowgirl really, but not a position I’ve ever had much fun with myself.
I thought the clit emerged from the hood when aroused? Does it go back in after stimulation?
Yeah I thought the “don’t use lube” tip was weird! I’m sorry I didn’t know about lube when I was younger - it could have made many awkward and painful encounters much better. Unless I’m getting oral sex, I need lube.
And I think a woman will best get off by using steady and consistent stiumation, so doubt tonguing the ABC’s would provide that. But it would be fun frisky foreplay!