Comments on: Does Wanting to See My Wife Have Sex With Another Man Make Me Gay? (Video)

By: Rob Michaelson

Rob Michaelson — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 10:23:31 +0000

I don’t believe that finding the thought of your wife with another man hot is anyway necessarily gay. Although I’m more “hot-wife” hubby (she plays-I don’t/my preference)then swinger though. I LOVE sharing the wife sexually. It’s White hot. Whether I’m there to see(prefer), or hear details after. Once was even listening to play by play over the cell phone at work. Once I matured and got beyond the jealousy and ownership, and we got secure(about 2 years) into our marriage, my personal epiphany was that it was ok to enjoy the thought rather then having others (repressed society/religion) tell me what I should enjoy. It took her a bit longer to realize I didn’t have ulterior motives and was really cool with it. The fantasy had always been there before marriage , but took that long to share with her. I WANT her to grow as a person and have experiences including extra-marital sexuality. It actually amazes me sometimes what and who she finds attractive, and how-who she gives it up for. We for most part do things together and our communication is open and honest. A benchmark of the lifestyle. No secrets. No shame. No guilt.

By: Map to the G Spot

Map to the G Spot — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 19:06:09 +0000

I must admit the title of the post really drew me in because prior to seeing the headline I had never thought of the idea of actually watching my woman having sex with another man.

Personally, it is not something I would engage in.However it is definitely indicative of the infinite choices that exist today in the area of sexuality that there is a sub-category of the MFM 3some where the man just wants to watch and not participate.

My hope is that these activities ultimately bond the couple and deepen their relationship and great advice about communication. This type of thing can be extremely uncomfortable and destructive unless people are willing to talk out what makes them uncomfortable about the situation.

By: Dan

Dan — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 00:25:42 +0000

My lover and I have had numerous MFM threesomes and I assure you I as “straight as an arrow” I get much pleasure seeing my lover pleasured by more than one man. I see the pleasure she experiences with four hands two penises, four lips all pleasuring her at one time. We do have friends who join us and they know agendas will not work. The pleasure and the eroticism is all there is and this brings us both closer and the friendship with the other man is enhanced.

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 22:58:53 +0000

On to separate occasions I great the great pleasure of dating bisexual women. The first young lady and I used to play a game. When I had a party at my house I would make up an excuse to disappear. I would then slip back into the house through the back and hide in my bedroom closet. My girlfriend would then invite a guy, a girl, or both, from the party and take them to my bedroom for some fun while I stayed hidden.

It turned me on to know end to watch her with the other people. When she was with a man, I wasn’t so much watching him as I was her put on a show for me.

The other young lady and I had similar experiences but I wouldn’t hide. I would set back and watch her with other men (or women).

In both situations, the sex we had afterwards was unbelievably hot! It in no way means a man is gay because he likes to watch his woman get it on with another man. They way I see it, “Gay” is a lifestyle, not a sex act.

By: The Beautiful Kind

The Beautiful Kind — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 19:57:46 +0000

I’m a woman and I think it’s completely hot to watch my man get with another woman. Never once have I asked myself, “Does this make me a lesbian?”

Then again, I’m bisexual and am fine with that.

I WISH my guy got off at the thought of me being with another man. Ah well, maybe someday. Good for you!