Comments on: Hey, Are You Guys Swingers?

By: Krissy

Krissy — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 14:10:13 +0000

Not everyone enjoys non monogamy but swingers can be regular people and deserve to be out of the closet. It can be tough for kids who grow up in that lifestyle though, who feel that if they are monogamous they are prudes. Swingers need to keep their sex lives separate from their children otherwise they will be very resentful and need lots of therapy!

By: Ultimates

Ultimates — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:27:32 +0000

Absolutely share it with your kids and family. Not only will you help others understand that it’s a valid, enlightened choice, you will take away the misconception that swinging is a lurid, immoral behavior (see recent news regarding the Stone/Spitzer affair). Besides, don’t you want your children to grow up knowing that sexual freedom is a good thing?

By: The Beautiful Kind

The Beautiful Kind — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 17:53:02 +0000

Come out, come out, wherever you are!

Everyone should come clean with their kinky business, it’s better that way.

I write a sex blog and I know that my writing about super personal details about my sex life and what goes on in my head helps other people feel better about what they have going on (or WANT going on!)

Let’s make it hip to be open and honest.

(This said, I do feel bad for a swinger couple I know who live in a very small town and was outed by local teenagers messing around online posting fake swinger ads. I’m not sure how it all went down, but it would have been nice had they said, “Yeah we’re swingers, what’s it to you?” instead of feeling all ashamed. They weren’t doing anything wrong!)