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Some couples have a truly amazing, exotic sex life that’s enough to make most anyone jealous.
But there’s more to a great sex life than endless sexual adventures and erotic games.
It’s not even about those amazing mind-shattering orgasms that many have heard about, but few have ever experienced.
The real secret lies in really playing together and being completely open with your lover, your playmate, your partner in crime. Open up and share your fantasies, and indulge your partner in theirs. That’s the well kept secret of those with the truly incredible sex lives.
Here’s a question from a woman who would love to enhance her and her husband’s sex life by having sex with some of their friends, but she’s terribly afraid of what others will think of her…
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
Hi this is a tough question for me because we were asked to do something with some friends of ours that I thought I would never do. They asked us to have sex with them!
Is it possible to have sex with this couple and still remain friends with each other? We do a lot together and I can see the sexual tension between all of us. We want to do it but we are not sure how to start it.
There are also kids. I don’t want to do anything with the kids around is that a smart idea. I really want to do this but I am nervous and scared and don’t know what to do. We all know that we love our spouses and that sex is as far as it will go.
Am I a bad person for wanting to have sex with someone else other than my husband? He is the only one I have had sex with. I have a lot of mixed emotions about this and I need some advice. We are all really good friends and don’t want to ruin our friendship either please help me.
What should I do?
– Heather, Iowa
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In expanding their sex lives, many couples come across that point where they consider a threesome - or even consider inviting another couple into their bedroom. Gasp!
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Swinging can be fun with the right people. Make sure it is what everyone wants and not just what everyone thinks they want. Things can go terribly wrong especially with close friends. Been there done that, don’t want the t-shirt. Almost destroyed two marriages and did destroy a friendship. Circumstances might have been a little different in our case. The husband who initiated the swinging decided after he had sex with my wife, he didn’t want me having sex with his. Did he think he would get away with that?
Does it make you a bad person? Um in a word….. yes.
You’re opening a pandora’s box. It’s wrong simply put. It’s an insult to the partner in the marriage. Saying in essence “well ya know, I love you but you aren’t enough for me, I think I need to go get some more people.” It’s infidelity whether or not both spouse’s are participating or not. During a marriage ceremony, you for sake all others, not marry and agree to go hookin up with your friends.
If any of my friends approached us about somethign like this, that would be the end of the friendship. My husband would be disgusted by it.
I’d say even if the couple agree to it, it’s REALLY playing with fire! I wouldn’t even CONSIDER putting my great relationship with my husband to such a risk. Anyone who does this, better be prepared for the consequences — and there would probably be more damaging consequences than you could ever imagine!
sex is sex. sex sells and sex thrills. if eve never ate that dam apple, life would be so much simpler. everybody has sex, no body talks sex. either get over your hang ups and enjoy or live your misserable lives.perverts do chase childern. but human love their wifes and enjoy great sex.
My husband pushed and pushed for me to allow him to have a stranger join us during our sex play. I never show an eagerness to lust after other men (for fear he would never feel like leaving me alone in the house and thus never leaving for work), which always seemed to upset him. Before we were married he invited three men to join him (I was in bed asleep) they did. They watched me being touched by my husband and then would take his place. It was all a fog of bits and pieces in the morning, I couldn’t tell if it was a dream or real. We continued until our divorce, lol.