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Swinger Sex Partners: Should We Try a Threesome or a Foursome? (Video)

Swingers & Threesomes - Swinger Sex Partners: Should We Try a Threesome or a Foursome? (Video)

Some couples are much more sexually curious and adventurous than others.

These are the swingers and other sexually liberated souls seeking threesomes and more, together with their life partner.

While many have fights and arguments due to petty jealousy, others actually open their sex lives to others. They share and enjoy these experiences together, and amazingly enough, these experiences often bring a couple much closer together.

Today’s question is from a couple in New York ready to try their first threesome, or even a foursome.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

My girlfriend and I want to try a threesome or foursome. I agree with this, but I just want to know which one is least likely to cause me problem in my relationship?

– Jose in New York

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The mass media often portrays swingers as very risque and living a dangerous, risky life - but the fact is most swingers are much more cautions about safety and safe sex than their single counterparts. After all, these are generally couples playing together, so you have someone on your side planning with you at all times - you’re not winging it as you often do (and did) in the singles scene.

While these relationships can sometimes develop into polyamory, often times swingers just live the lifestyle and enjoy playing with their friends.

But of course the jealousy monster can always rear its ugly head, so always prepare and plan ahead before venturing into uncharted waters in search of new sex partners. There are rules and boundaries you must agree on with your partner ahead of time - no exceptions.

Also there are some great resources below to help you make the most of your new experience and avoid the common pitfalls that can lead to relationship disaster and, yes, break up.

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One Response to “Swinger Sex Partners: Should We Try a Threesome or a Foursome? (Video)”

  1. mike on August 8th, 2007 2:35 am

    This is a tricky issue. If you are going to live like this why get married or even get involved in a serious reltionship? I thought relationships were about two people sharing their lives and themselves with one another. Not sharing their bodies with everybody else. If your only going to give your mind to someone, and your body to everyone else why bother. People can say what they wan’t. If you engage in this lifestyle, chances are great your relationship will fail. Also I fail to see how this lifestyle can be safer than a single person playing the field. This is definitely one of those things that you need to own up to later on in future relationships. When you tell others about it, then you’ll see how the rest of society really views it.

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