Are You a Stalker?
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Ever feel like you’re being just a little TOO persistent?
Do you ever wonder why she never seems to get that email or text message you sent?
And how did she miss all those voice messages you left her?
Wait… could she be trying to tell you something?
Ask Yourself These Questions to Decide if You May Be a Stalker
• Do you find yourself calling people three, four, five times … even after they haven’t returned a phone call?
• How about the endless text messaging or emailing to someone even when there’s no responses to any of them?
There Are Many Different Ways That Someone Can Be a Stalker
There’s the scary Glenn Close type from “Fatal Attraction” who has a penchant for boiling bunny rabbits and jumping out of bathtubs.
There’s the creepy ex against whom you have to get a restraining order to stop them from coming over to your house.
Then there is the form of stalker no one talks about. It’s usually the man or woman who doesn’t understand that when a person does not respond after the second phone message, text message or email, that the person is no longer interested.
One Rule Everyone Should Follow
I’m not very big into rules, but there is one by which I think everyone should abide: If you’ve left a few messages for someone and they haven’t called you back, then (borrowing from an old dating book) he’s (or she’s) just not that into you.
As Miranda on “Sex & The City” once told a group of women sitting on the library steps, if you leave a couple of messages for a man and he doesn’t call you back, he’s just not that into you. The problem is that they should have left it as a “Sex & The City” episode.
That book had one piece of good advice. The rest of it is annoying.
Plain and simple…
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