Comments on: Are YOU Dating a Narcissist? Find Out Here… http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/ Love & Sex. Videos, Tips & Advice from Ask Dan & Jennifer Sun, 31 May 2009 18:06:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Dan and Jennifer http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/comment-page-1/#comment-24121 Dan and Jennifer Fri, 31 Aug 2007 23:01:19 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/#comment-24121 Hy Lynn - Thanks for the great resource! Hy Lynn – Thanks for the great resource!

]]> By: Lynn Melville http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/comment-page-1/#comment-24118 Lynn Melville Fri, 31 Aug 2007 21:46:11 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/#comment-24118 Thank you for writing your insightful article about narcissism, a painful element of many marriages nowadays, followed closely by Borderline Personality Disorder. I experienced an emotionally abusive relationship with a former partner. I left the relationship and went back . . . left and went back -- each time believing that the hurtful actions wouldn't happen again. I believed that if I could just love my partner enough, I could compensate for the damage done by his childhood experiences and that they would then 'magically' disappear. I didn't know that my partner was sufering from Borderline Personalty Disorder, with underlying narcissism. BPD and narcissism are thinking disorders that make people misperceive the interactions they have with others, overrreact and then act out the rage they still have stored inside from their abusive childhoods. I didn't know that my love wasn't enough, that it would never cure BPD or narcissism. Lynn Melville Want to be able to spot a narcissistic Borderline? Click here for over 80 Red Flag behaviors that may indicate a disorder -- www.boomeranglove.com Thank you for writing your insightful article about narcissism, a painful element of many marriages nowadays, followed closely by Borderline Personality Disorder.

I experienced an emotionally abusive relationship with a former partner. I left the relationship and went back . . . left and went back — each time believing that the hurtful actions wouldn’t happen again. I believed that if I could just love my partner enough, I could compensate for the damage done by his childhood experiences and that they would then ‘magically’ disappear.

I didn’t know that my partner was sufering from Borderline Personalty Disorder, with underlying narcissism. BPD and narcissism are thinking disorders that make people misperceive the interactions they have with others, overrreact and then act out the rage they still have stored inside from their abusive childhoods.

I didn’t know that my love wasn’t enough, that it would never cure BPD or narcissism.

Lynn Melville
Want to be able to spot a narcissistic Borderline? Click here for over 80 Red Flag behaviors that may indicate a disorder — http://www.boomeranglove.com

]]> By: Brad http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/comment-page-1/#comment-24116 Brad Fri, 31 Aug 2007 19:49:03 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/dating-tips/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-find-out-here/#comment-24116 Hmmm, this list of narcissist's traits really seems vague and general. It doesn't deal with the clearer points needed to lead someone to a right conclusion. We all talk of ourselves in reference to events in our lives. This would need to be placed in more conclusive framework without a possibility of misreading or interpreting. Needs a little work. Good, but some people will use this among family or friends and then an argument may insue. The U.S. you see is media driven. I prefer not to be. Hope no one takes this to far without looking critically at it. Hmmm, this list of narcissist’s traits really seems vague and general. It doesn’t deal with the clearer points needed to lead someone to a right conclusion. We all talk of ourselves in reference to events in our lives. This would need to be placed in more conclusive framework without a possibility of misreading or interpreting. Needs a little work. Good, but some people will use this among family or friends and then an argument may insue. The U.S. you see is media driven. I prefer not to be. Hope no one takes this to far without looking critically at it.

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