Comments on: First Date Question – How Can I Avoid the Conversation Dead Zone and Keep From Striking Out?

By: VA

VA — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 15:35:26 +0000

I have an issue.. I have this shyness upon me everytime I meet a guy in person. things go wel on the phone but in person its a different ball game.. Ineed help to overcome this shyness and be able to open up and talk to guys.. otherwise Im gonna continue not getting 2nd dates or more.. Im 27 and I want to find my soulmate soon..

-VA

By: judy

judy — Thu, 14 Dec 2006 04:31:59 +0000

i have been asked by someone who im not sure if he really likes me or just playing to meet for the first time.and because i was leaving the country he asked me to meet to day goodbye! what did he meant by that? im a bit confused!

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Thu, 31 Aug 2006 22:51:40 +0000

Hi David.

I can truly relate to this issue. I already had when I started dating Dan and I love my children VERY much – it’s really hard not to go on and on about how wonderful they are.

I think you should be very honest about having a child. The one thing that I will caution you on is to not go on and on about your children unless the other person is REALLY interested.

The other person is looking for a mate/partner, not children necessarily… You will want to make sure that you develop a relationship with this person first – and then you can decide how to bring your children into the mix.

Hope this helps.
Jennifer

By: david_x

david_x — Tue, 29 Aug 2006 18:05:36 +0000

I separate from my parter for almost 2 years and its been difficult for me to move on, now, I just met a nice person and Im wondering if?

in our first date do you recomend to say that you have a child?

thanks,