First Date - How to Avoid the Conversation Dead Zone (Video)
So you finally got up the courage to ask a girl out, and she said "yes". Great news!
Unless of course you have no idea where to go and what to do on your date. Worse yet, some people are so afraid of that dreaded conversation dead zone, that they won’t even go out on a date.
Getting a girl to go out with you is traumatic enough for most guys. But this can be even worse. Sure, we’ve all been there. You remember those awkward first moments on a date with someone you don’t really know. What will you possibly talk about? Who will go first? What if you say something stupid? Will she ever go out with you again?
STOP! That kind of thinking is going to leave you single forever, so cut it out. Going on a date should be fun and exciting, not terrifying!
Here’s a question from Omar who is facing this very dilemma with a young lady he just asked out on a date. Omar is from the UAE, so there are some cultural differences concerning formality and dating, but the question remains.
How can you know for sure that you won’t sit there in awkward silence, hoping for your date misery to end?
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
This is the first time for me to check out a video of yours, and I think they’re great.
My question is that two weeks ago I asked a girl if she would be my girlfriend and she agreed (I’ve been talking with her for a few months). Then, I told her I’ll ask her out soon, but till now I didn’t only because I just can’t find the things to talk with her about on the date.
So if you would please help me and give me some hints about what to say on the date so I don’t get stuck. Thanks for reading my message.
– Omar (United Arab Emirates)
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Awkward silence! It happens and when it gets silent I run through my mind saying: ok, what have we talked about, what has happened and what interests does she have etc so that I can turn around the silence and turn it back into conversation.
Yes it would be better if conversations were just completely fluid and flow into each other but you might hit that one thing where it just stops.
I try not to think the worse like the examples you’ve mentioned up top: Ok what do I talk about, will this date be the last etc.
Like the current lady I’ve met. We’ve gone out for dinner and a movie a couple times now (we’re limited because of my leg healing, silly Achilles tendon) and we plan on doing it again. I get get mixed things from her but its still fun. We talk and we have our little silences but its something to work on right? Won’t force conversation because that makes things more awkward, or so I find it does.
*shrug*