How to Meet Women in Coffee Shops

Be Bold

If you are feeling bold, you can always sit down next to her table and if she is having a conversation with someone, you can interject your own opinion and then join in the conversation.  This is something with which you should be cautious. 

Not all groups of people are going to want to open up their conversation to the person at the next table, and if she is with a group of women, you need to be extra careful. 

Be Helpful

If you are walking toward the trash can or the bussing station with your coffee cup, walk past her table and offer to take her empty coffee cup up with yours.  Then, when you go back by her table, you can pause for a chat. 

Be Complimentary 

If the woman you want to talk to is working at the coffee shop as the Barista, always compliment her on the coffee—even if she just poured it from a carafe.  This simple compliment when followed by a thank you will go a long way. 

If you are shy, you can make a habit of going to that coffee shop while she is working.  Eventually you will be familiar enough with each other that a conversation will happen all on its own.  Toe this line carefully, though.  The line between “fun regular customer” and “creepy stalker guy” is a fine one and easy to cross.

Coffee shops can be intimidating places, even for men who are not trying to meet women there.  The good news is it is possible to meet women in a coffee shop.  You just have to be a little bit creative and a lot brave and, in many cases, you have to initiate the conversation.

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