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Thatâs not a question that anyone can answer but you. You need to take into consideration everything about the situation before you make the decision to have sex before marriage.
What are your religious or spiritual beliefs? What are your moral beliefs? How comfortable are you with the person you want to have sex with? Do you trust this person? How comfortable would you be with the consequences of sex should they arise. For example, pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases?
These questions should be answered, but not by your friends, family or anyone else. You need to sit down and really think about what having sex before marriage means to you.
Does it make you feel wrong? If it does, donât do it! If you really feel that itâs not a big deal, thatâs okay too. Ultimately, itâs all about what you want and how comfortable you are with the idea.
Well, first things first. Use protection.
Sex is enjoyable, but you can get pregnant and you can contract sexually transmitted diseases. Guard against possible consequences by using sensible protection and by being smart and safe.
If you have any questions about safe sex, pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, a great person to ask would be your doctor. Theyâll give you unbiased information and can educate you on how to safely have sex while still enjoying your partner.
Remember, sex is something to be enjoyed between two consenting adults. You should never feel pressured into having sex or feel like you âhave to.â
If you want to have sex before marriage, thatâs fine. If you donât, thatâs fine too.
Donât let anyone else tell you what you should do or persuade you into doing something you donât want to do. Itâs not up to your friends, family, relatives, church officials, neighbors or anyone else! Trust your gut instinct and go with what you feel is right.
With that said, you basically want to just be sure youâre ready to take the step forward and have sex before marriage. If you donât feel that its right, by all means trust your gut instinct and stay abstinent, at least for now. If youâre perfectly comfortable having sex before marriage and comfortable with the person youâd like to have sex with, go for it. Itâs your decision.
Donât rush it though â take your time thinking about the situation and taking a look at how you might feel after the fact. You donât have to now, but you might want to later. Thatâs fine too. Remember, you call the shots. What you say goes!
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