How to tell if someone likes you? Depends. Are we talking about first impressions here or “that cute chick I've been talking to for a while now”. Since a lot of men ask me about the latter the most… let's talk about that!

1) Watch the language
Everybody has their own little “lingo”. For me? I speak Spanish, love the country, and dated lots of latinas so I'm stuck talking Spanish here and there: I refer to a woman as mami, to myself as papi, I don't say good day but buenos dias, etc. Everyone has lingo like this, I'm just extreme with it haha. The point being: if a woman starts copying your lingo and you two have only known each other for days/a few weeks? She's into. Period.

2) For no reason at all
Can someone bless mobile phones, email, and the internet please? Because these days, you can be quick to tell if a woman is into you. How? Pay close attention…

- A woman text messages/emails you saying she's at place XYZ, hanging out with person ABC or whatever. Think about it: she's busy, but still, she texts or emails you? Women always do that, with the one person they care a whole lot about that is!

- Seemingly for no reason at all, a woman calls/texts/emails you asking what you were up to. Sometimes at the craziest times. Translation: she's missing you. Do I still need to explain she's interested?

- Physical contact: a pad on the back, a playful slap, feeling your new sweater (“it seemed so soft” or “the fabric looks so cool”) or in any other way trying to touch you = she's into you. The only exception is dancing… but then again… it depends on HOW you dance. Grinding against you with her but in the club is different from country dancing, know what I mean?

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women