Learn To Approach Any Woman Without Fear Of Rejection
Practice, practice, practice
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That’s why it’s so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you’re talking to girls! If you’re not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?
The sad fact is, you’re not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news – it gets easier the more you do it!)
If you’re worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you’re doing is approaching women. You’re not asking her out, you’re not trying to get her into
bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.
That’s all you need to do!
See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
Using time constraints
One last note – try and use a "time constraint" whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.
Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you’re talking to, because she won’t feel that she’s committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you’re only a momentary "distraction." This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.
If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your "foot in the door."
The dating game is a numbers game. The more women you’re able to meet, the greater your chances at finding a great girlfriend, and possibly even a future wife.
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