The Attraction of Confidence - Why Women Are Attracted To Confident Men

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You’re standing in a bar. Across from you is a beautiful woman. 

You make eye contact and smile. She smiles back and decides to come over.  She gets closer and closer. 

You suddenly get a tight little knot in your stomach; anxiety from not knowing what will come next.  Now she is standing in front of you.  Your heart is racing.

You barely manage to get out the words, "Uhhhh Hi."  She says "hi" back with a look of intrigue. As she begins to speak, you begin to doubt. 

You wonder what she’s thinking.  How could this beautiful woman possibly be interested in me?

After a brief moment of small talk, the woman walks away.  You begin to wonder, what the hell just happened?

You can’t help but feel rejected.  You obsess over what could possibly be wrong with you.  The next thing you know, several hours have gone by and you’re a big pile of anxiety.

What turned her off?

So what repelled this woman?  It could have been any number of things.  Was it your breath? Your insecure body language?  Your shortened height? Your hideous disfigured face?  The thing is, you will never know what drove this woman away.  This is the unknown variable of attraction.

Variables of attraction

There are many variables in a person that determines whether they are attractive or not.  There have been volumes written about the science of attraction.  Even many of today’s top dating gurus are constantly seeking ways to decipher the process of attraction.  However, with centuries of research and much discussion, there always seems to be one thing, one variable, that consistently makes a person attractive - confidence.

To be free from doubt; to have belief in yourself and your abilities.   This is confidence.

Why confidence matters

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