<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Ask Dan and Jennifer &#187; adoption</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/tag/adoption/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.askdanandjennifer.com</link>
	<description>Love &#38; Sex. Videos, Tips &#38; Advice from Ask Dan &#38; Jennifer</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:00:25 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4</generator>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
			<item>
		<title>Help! I&#8217;m Pregnant and He Wants Me to Choose Him or the Baby! (Video)</title>
		<link>http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/pregnant-and-he-wants-me-to-choose-him-or-the-baby/</link>
		<comments>http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/pregnant-and-he-wants-me-to-choose-him-or-the-baby/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 14:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan and Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abortion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[have a baby]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship problem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[video]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[want kids]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/pregnant-and-he-wants-me-to-choose-him-or-the-baby/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#34; It&#8217;s me or the baby!&#34;
Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to choose between a man or a baby, and it’s a tough decision.&#160;
It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want.&#160; 
If you find yourself in this situation, [...]


Related articles:<ol><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/help-he-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-my-baby-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Help! He Doesn&#8217;t Want Anything To Do With My Baby! (Video)'>Help! He Doesn&#8217;t Want Anything To Do With My Baby! (Video)</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/is-it-possible-to-love-two-men-how-do-i-choose/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Is It Possible to Love Two Men? How do I choose?'>Is It Possible to Love Two Men? How do I choose?</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/he-pulled-out-can-i-still-get-pregnant-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: He Pulled Out&#8230; Can I Still Get Pregnant? (Video)'>He Pulled Out&#8230; Can I Still Get Pregnant? (Video)</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/when-baby-bumps-spell-danger/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: When Baby Bumps Spell Danger'>When Baby Bumps Spell Danger</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-during-pregnancy-is-it-safe-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Is It Safe To Have Sex While My Wife Is Pregnant? (Video)'>Is It Safe To Have Sex While My Wife Is Pregnant? (Video)</a></li></ol>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot; It&#8217;s me or the baby!&quot;</p>
<p>Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/questions-for-couples-how-well-do-you-really-know-your-partner-1000-must-ask-questions-for-couples/" title="How Well Do You REALLY Know Your Partner? 1000 ‘Must Ask’ Questions for Couples">choose between a man or a baby</a>, and it’s a tough decision.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want.&nbsp; </p>
<p>If you find yourself in this situation, the decision is one that only you can make for yourself.</p>
<blockquote><p>    Dear Dan and Jennifer,</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Hi, I am 26 and my partner is 46. We have been together on and off for 3 years. I am only his second relationship and he says he has steered clear from relationships because he didn’t want children. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>He does not like them and despises the fact he would be financially responsible for the next 18 years. I have a 5 year old son and he gets on great with him so I cannot understand why he doesn’t want his own. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>This has always been okay until I find out I am 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to choose between him and the baby and said I can’t have both. I want this child. Do you think a man will change his mind once his child&nbsp;is here? Surely he will have some kind of feeling won&#8217;t he? Or am I faced with being a single parent?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>- <st1:place> <st1:city>Emma</st1:city>, <st1:country-region>United   Kingdom</st1:country-region></st1:place> </p>
</blockquote>
<p> <center><embed width="425" height="350" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Xi-fB-zTvL0" alt=""></embed></center>
<p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 11px; padding-top: 3px" align="center"> <em> Wait! <a target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xi-fB-zTvL0" title="Give this video 5 Stars on YouTube!">Give this Video 5 Stars</a> and <a target="_blank" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/youtube.htm" title="Like videos? Subscribe to Our YouTube Channel today! You’ll be glad you did…">Subscribe Today</a> so you don’t miss a single video.</em></p>
<h3>A Very Difficult Choice</h3>
<p>&#8230; </p>


<p>Related articles:<ol><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/help-he-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-my-baby-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Help! He Doesn&#8217;t Want Anything To Do With My Baby! (Video)'>Help! He Doesn&#8217;t Want Anything To Do With My Baby! (Video)</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/is-it-possible-to-love-two-men-how-do-i-choose/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Is It Possible to Love Two Men? How do I choose?'>Is It Possible to Love Two Men? How do I choose?</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/he-pulled-out-can-i-still-get-pregnant-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: He Pulled Out&#8230; Can I Still Get Pregnant? (Video)'>He Pulled Out&#8230; Can I Still Get Pregnant? (Video)</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/when-baby-bumps-spell-danger/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: When Baby Bumps Spell Danger'>When Baby Bumps Spell Danger</a></li><li><a href='http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-during-pregnancy-is-it-safe-video/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Is It Safe To Have Sex While My Wife Is Pregnant? (Video)'>Is It Safe To Have Sex While My Wife Is Pregnant? (Video)</a></li></ol></p>]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/pregnant-and-he-wants-me-to-choose-him-or-the-baby/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
