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		<title>How To Get More Sex In Your Relationship (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 14:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel Rose, author Sex God Method</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s common in a long term relationship or a marriage for sex to be on the bottom of your to-do list. It may escape you how it became a &#8220;to-do&#8221; at all, but most everybody at some point in their lives find that sex comes after chores, taking care of the kids and work. Most [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span>It&#8217;s common in a long term relationship or a marriage for sex to be on the bottom of your to-do list. It may escape you how it became a &#8220;to-do&#8221; at all, but most everybody at some point in their lives find that sex comes after chores, taking care of the kids and work. Most everybody wishes it were different though! Most people want to <a title="How To Spice Up Your Sex Life And Save Your Relationship" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/relationship-advice-spice-up-your-sex-life-save-your-relationship/">have more sex</a>, better sex and hotter sex! Here&#8217;s how.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>Not having as much sex as you once did? Has your sex life become a total bore? Here are some great ways to spice up your sex life and make it more interesting so that you both actually want to have sex more often!</span></p></blockquote>
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<h3><span>Variety Is Key</span></h3>
<p><span>If you want more sex in your relationship, variety is key. It&#8217;s important to have variety in the bedroom to avoid getting into a sex rut. It&#8217;s easy to fall into a sex rut &#8211; some people have sex at the same time, in the same position and do the same things each and every time they have sex. While a sexual routine can be comfortable, you tend to put off &#8220;comfortable sex&#8221; for other things. It&#8217;s important to have variety to keep sex from becoming boring or &#8220;blah.&#8221; If the <a title="4 Secrets Guaranteed To Spice Up Your Sex Life" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-tips-4-secrets-guaranteed-to-spice-up-your-sex-life/">sex in your relationship</a> is never or rarely the same, you&#8217;re going to be less apt to put it off and more apt to put it first.</span></p>
<h3><span>Long Term Relationships Have More Sexual Benefits</span></h3>
<p><span>Believe it or not, the myth that <a title="Top 10 Things Women Wish Men Would Do Before, During And After Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/top-10-things-women-wish-men-would-do-before-during-and-after-sex-tips/">sex is better</a> if you have sex with lots of different people is just that &#8211; a myth. You can actually experience the best sex of your life in a long term relationship. Why is that? When you&#8217;re more comfortable with someone, it&#8217;s easier to share your fantasies with them and try new and different things. Yes, getting comfortable with someone can easily lead to &#8220;comfortable&#8221; sex, but if you put a little effort into it, being comfortable with someone can equally end up in kinkier, hotter and better sex than you&#8217;ve ever had in your life.</span></p>
<h3><span>How To Spice Up Your Sex</span></h3>
<p><span>Roleplaying is a great way to add something different to your sex &#8220;routine.&#8221; You can experiment with different types of roleplaying, such as switching dominant and submissive roles, or you can act out fantasies such as the &#8220;teacher&#8221; and &#8220;student&#8221; or &#8220;maid.&#8221; Costumes are fun too and can make roleplaying seem more real. Another way to spice up your sex life is to give your partner <a title="Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/top-10-tips-to-give-women-an-orgasm/">different types of orgasms</a>. Touch different areas on your partner, such as her clitoris, her g-spot, his penis, his scrotum, and his perineum. Don&#8217;t forget nipples, lips and neck too! </span></p>
<p><span>You can also try new positions with your partner. Different positions will feel different sexually and stimulate different areas as well. Another great way to spice up your sex life is to check into a hotel for a night or a weekend! It&#8217;s a perfect way to get out of the house and away from your responsibilities for something fun and different.</span></p>
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		<title>Sex Is Boring&#8230; How Can I Get My Wife To Be More Seductive? (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan and Jennifer</dc:creator>
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It all starts with whether or not she feels comfortable enough with herself. If she is comfortable [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a question many men would like to have answered. How can you get your <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sexy-things-to-do-with-clothes-cosmos-guide-to-red-hot-sex/" title="Sexy Things to Do With Clothes">wife to be more seductive</a>? How can you get your wife to do all those things that turn you on so much? </p>
<p>It all starts with whether or not <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/questions-for-couples-how-well-do-you-really-know-your-partner-1000-must-ask-questions-for-couples/" title="How Well Do You REALLY Know Your Partner? Find Out With These 'Must Ask' Questions for Couples">she feels comfortable enough</a> with herself. If she is comfortable with herself, she will begin to let go of the doubt she has over dressing in that skimpy lingerie, talking dirty during sex, or whatever else she may otherwise be inclined to hide for fear of being rejected. Getting your wife to be more seductive begins with making her feel more attractive and accepted.</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Dan and Jennifer, </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>My wife and I are very sexually active, but I&#8217;m getting rather bored. She wants to have sex but that seems like that&#8217;s ALL she wants to do.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>How can I get her to talk dirty and to seduce me?. She seems to be too self conscious about her body and thinks that it&#8217;s &quot;silly&quot; and only happens in the movies.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Please help.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&#8211;Paul, Washington&nbsp;</p>
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<h3>Dressing sexy<br />       </h3>
<p>No matter how good a woman looks to you, chances are she doesn&#8217;t see the same thing you do when she looks in the mirror. It is a scary notion to step in front of someone naked only to have them recoil in disgust. Many women have this very fear, so they are often afraid to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/want-to-spice-up-your-next-date-try-boston-not-so-proper/" title="Want To Spice Up Your Next Date? Try Boston Not So Proper…">dress in sexy, skimpy clothes</a>.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Imagine if someone dressed you in a loincloth and threw you in front of a stranger. You&#8217;d feel very exposed and tense. &nbsp;Chances are pretty good that you would also feel a bit embarrassed about standing in front of someone with <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/are-you-still-afraid-of-being-naked/" title="Are You STILL Afraid Of Being Naked?">barely anything to cover you</a>. </p>
<p>Even if you have been married to someone for years, it can still feel awkward or uncomfortable to stand in front of someone with next to no clothes on. This is where feeling comfortable with her body comes in. If you let your wife know that you think she is beautiful and talk with her about <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/relationship-advice-spice-up-your-sex-life-save-your-relationship/" title="How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship (Video)">trying new things to be more seductive</a>, then you are taking steps in the right direction. </p>
<p>Ask her to simply try dressing seductive, and if she feels uncomfortable she can stop. This lets her be in control and if you show interest in her while encouraging her to let go of her doubt about herself, then you have opened the doorway for you and your wife to experiment with new areas of <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-spice-up-your-sex-life-and-save-your-relationship/" title="How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship">arousal and sexual excitement</a>.</p>
<h3>Talk dirty to her</h3>
<p>&#8230; </p>


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