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		<title>Multiple Orgasms &#8211; Did You Know That It IS Possible For Men Too?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tantra is such a vast subject that it&#8217;s fascinating and awe-inspiring. It includes so much that it can be very confusing to the beginning student. Tantra is an art, a science, a way of life that is honest and courageous. It includes and faces squarely our sexual energy, this awesome force that some religions fear [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tantra is such a vast subject that it&#8217;s fascinating and awe-inspiring. It includes so much that it can be very confusing to the beginning student. Tantra is an art, a science, a way of life that is honest and courageous. It includes and faces squarely <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/7-tips-for-more-pleasurable-and-passionate-lovemaking/" title="7 Tips For More Pleasurable and Passionate Lovemaking">our sexual energy</a>, this awesome force that some religions fear and want to suppress.</p>
<p>It can be used to help us reach our <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/" title="Sex &amp; Intimacy">highest potential of pleasure</a>, and union with the divine. To achieve this, it offers a series of exercises in breathing, tone vibrations, the use of certain muscles, and concentration on certain symbols representing the energy centers of the body.&nbsp; </p>
<p>One of the techniques it teaches allows men to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/censorship-sexual-repression/think-masturbation-is-wrong-heres-the-real-truth/" title="Think Masturbation is Wrong? Here’s The REAL Truth…">have an orgasm without ejaculating</a>, which makes it possible for him to come again and again.</p>
<h3>How is This Possible?&nbsp; </h3>
<p>Well, by using tantric principles, such as breathing, visualizing, and <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/taming-the-tiger-exploring-female-sexual-pleasure/" title="Taming The Tiger: Exploring Female Sexual Pleasure">squeezing the <em>love muscles</em></a> to draw sexual energy from the sex organs up the spine to the back of the brain, a man can learn to ride the waves of orgasm and start coasting along the crest of those waves like a skilled surfer. </p>
<p>He can go down in the valley of the wave and enjoy playing more safely in a <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/love-and-romance/5-ways-to-say-i-love-you-without-actually-saying-it/" title="5 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Actually Saying it">sweet and intensive romantic/spiritual space</a>, absorbing the benefits resulting from the heightened pleasure he just achieved. He feels as if he&#8217;s buzzing with energy, more open and tender toward his partner and himself. </p>
<p>They can look into each other’s eyes, <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/relationship-advice/sex-touching-emotions/" title="Touch - It’s More Than Sex">exchange gentle caresses</a>, or simply breathe together to expand the state of bliss. All this can be done without the man losing the precious life-force contained in his semen. </p>
<p>Then the couple can proceed to make love actively, and reach several peaks in one love session. After having reached several peaks and experienced several body orgasms, the man can <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/medications-and-orgasm-1006-dan-and-jennifer/" title="Medications and Orgasm - Help! My Wife Thinks She’s the Reason I Can’t Orgasm (Video)">choose to have an ejaculatory orgasm</a> if desired.</p>
<h3>Controlling Ejaculation </h3>
<p>How quickly a man can <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/why-is-masturbation-so-taboo-video/" title="Why Is Masturbation So Taboo? (Video)">learn to control his ejaculation</a> response depends on how much he practices, and the attitude he practices with. It&#8217;s almost a paradox: The more patient and loving you are with yourself, the less in a hurry to achieve quick results, the faster you&#8217;ll learn. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s because relaxation is the key, and you can&#8217;t be relaxed if you&#8217;re very goal-oriented. When you&#8217;re goal-oriented, you&#8217;re tense and usually judgmental. Ideas like, &quot;I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll ever learn this stuff&#8230;..Perhaps it&#8217;s not for me&#8230;.I&#8217;m wasting my time&#8230;.&quot; or similar discouraging thoughts will retard the process of learning.</p>
<h3> Be Positive and Loving </h3>
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