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Frustrated Girl – Why Can’t I Have An Orgasm With My Partner? (Video)

Dan and Jennifer — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:17:58 +0000

So you’re not able to orgasm with your partner – you’re not alone. That said, it can be more than frustrating and enough to make you swear off sexual activity all together.

Some women are unable to have an orgasm at all, but the vast majority are women that can have an orgasm – by themselves. What can you do if you’re only able to reach the big “O” when you’re flying solo?

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I’ve only been able to orgasm through masturbation while I visualize my private fantasies and feel comfortably alone. My boyfriend and I have been trying to get me to orgasm with oral sex or anything without sex.

Do you have any advice on how to relax and orgasm in the presence of my boyfriend? Or with my boyfriend doing it to me without having sex?

–Carmen,Arizona

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Is Your Woman Faking Her Orgasms?

Lee Jenkins, author Female Orgasm Black Book — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 21:09:19 +0000

Ever seen a porno film? Of course you have! And did you really think that all those ‘climaxes’ were for REAL? Of course not. Many of them were for REEL.

So how can YOU tell the difference if your woman starts to fake her orgasms with you too?

How to Spot a Fake Orgasm

Many men don’t want to admit it, but just because she ’screams’ doesn’t mean she’s reached her sexual climax. According to studies, 70% to 75% of women don’t reach an orgasm during sexual intercourse. This means if you’re woman has been shouting, kicking and screaming all the time, there’s a 70% to 75% chance she’ been faking an orgasm with you!

Here are some tips to tell if she is ‘faking it’.

She’s too loud

Is she too ‘loud’? Thanks to adult or x-rated movies, we now have this image that if a woman is ‘cumming’ she should be shouting from the top of her lungs (can’t contain the sexual pleasure you know).

Again, this is really just all for ’show’. Most women who DO experience orgasms say that they are actually not noisy at all. They would rather ‘feel’ the intenseness of cumming rather than to drown it with their own loud voices.

Body language

How is her body reacting? Your woman may be shouting till your neighbors hear her, but is her body displaying the same intense emotions? Her body is not THAT different from yours when YOU reach your climax. As such, her body should also be ‘contracting’ like yours.

For instance, her anus and vagina should be clenching or contracting when she reaches an orgasm. If you’re having sexual intercourse and she’s indicating that she’s cumming, check if you feel a certain ‘tightness’ around your penis.

Why? Because during a real orgasm, a woman’s vagina should be clenching strongly at around 1 contraction every 0.8 seconds. And ‘faking’ this pace is quite difficult to master.

Also, check her skin, is she flushed from all that release of sexual tension? If not, she may be faking it.

How about her eyes? Are her pupils a bit dilated and have that certain glassy sheen? If not and her face registers a ‘blank’, then she’ probably just faked an orgasm.

Do I really want to know?

You may be wondering why you would want to know if she’s faking her orgasms anyway, right? Well, let’s put it this way. Would YOU be interested in sex if you never reached an orgasm? Probably not! What does that spell for your relationship in the future?

So knowing if she’s faking it will enable you to take the necessary steps to make making love better for her. And as you know a sexually satisfied woman, can be verrrrry grateful in bed.

It’s a win-win situation!

Take just a minute to check out ‘The Female Orgasm Black Book’: “How To Give Her Mind Numbing, Leg Shaking Orgasms”

How To Give Her Mind Numbing, Leg Shaking Orgasms – The Female Orgasm Black Book Review

Dan and Jennifer — Fri, 20 Apr 2007 03:18:03 +0000

Oh Boy… We’re at it again. Covering sex and intimacy topics that seem to be considered hush-hush.

Do you believe your girlfriend or wife when she claims to have an orgasm?

How can you know for certain that she’s not faking?

Here are some surprising facts about female orgasm:

70% of women have NEVER had an orgasm with a man.
25% of men will get turned down by their own lovers over half the time. These men have women who think sex is a chore.
Nearly 50% of men have partners that will NEVER ask for sex (would you ask for something that doesn’t give you any pleasure?)
92% of women will FAKE ORGASMS just to “get it over with”. It’s obvious that what most men are doing simply isn’t working.

If you have never given your partner an orgasm, and you don’t know how…

Do you know how to give your woman a clitoral orgasm? How about a G Spot orgasm? And which type of orgasm should you give her first to really get her going?

Do you know exactly where the G Spot is and how to properly stimulate it?

It’s absolutely amazing how many women have never had an orgasm. Or how about the lucky ones that enjoy an orgasm once every year or two. Can you imagine the vast majority of men only having an orgasm once every few years? Right.

Get This. Our good friend, Lee Jenkins, has created the Female Orgasm Black Book for men and women, but it is especially valuable for caring boyfriends and husbands who want a no-nonsense, step-by-step plan for bringing explosive sexual pleasures to their partners.

You do want that, don’t you?

The “Black Book” explains the female orgasm, A-to-Z, with sex tips, checklists and examples of “orgasm routines” you can use to bring your partner to an orgasm (and yes, also multiple orgasms).

Here’s just a peak at the great information that Lee gives you in the Female Orgasm Black Book:

Why being a “pick up artist” doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be a “Stud” in bed!
How to re-ignite the white-hot passion of any long-term relationship!
The number one reason women can’t have orgasms…even if you’re using every trick in the book…and…what to do about it!
How to tell if she’s faking an orgasm on you and How to tell if she’s having a real orgasm!
A simple “shortcut” to knowing exactly how she likes to be touched! (This takes the guesswork out of foreplay)
How to create a setting in your home that will make her want to have sex!
The 10 best sex positions that will give her an orgasm
How to train your woman to be more orgasmic, and want sex more often!
The most common female orgasm problems…and what to do about it
18 hidden signs that reveal if a woman is really “turned on”…or…if she’s just faking it! (most men don’t have a clue about what “signals” a woman can’t stop sending out…which…always reveal the honest truth).
How to make heart-pounding intimacy last forever!

This book is easily one of the best and most comprehensive guides to the ever elusive female orgasm that we have found.

But, here’s a word of warning before you get the Female Orgasm Black Book… This guide will not make the woman in your life spontaneously orgasm. It may be an amazing resource that is actually easy to follow (yes, it has simple diagrams and step by step instructions), but you have to actually want to make this work. This means that you will first have download the Female Orgasm Black Book then then you will actually have to read it and do what Lee says!

So before you do anything else, decide that you will actually read this guide after you download it.

And don’t forget to check out the included 35 page Advanced Fingering Techniques (also complete with diagrams and simple step by step descriptions).

Caution. Once your woman experiences a night of orgasm after orgasm (read: basically what she’s been asking and waiting for), she will NOT want to go back to sex once every 3 to 6 months. If you’re just playing around, then this is not for you.

She’s going to want you to work this magic on her every chance you get. And you can be sure that after you give her 3 orgasms in a row, she’s going to want to reciprocate and give and give to you. A satisfied highly aroused woman can be very, very giving!

First, go to the Female Orgasm Black Book website today and sign up for the free Female Orgasms Exposed email newsletter.

And then download the Female Orgasm Black Book and find out for yourself how much better your sex life can be…