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		<title>Sex Tip: How To Give Her A G-Spot Orgasm (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finding the g-spot can be difficult, but once you&#8217;ve found it, you may feel like you&#8217;ve struck oil, or reached the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow! Hold on &#8211; you&#8217;re not done yet. Once you&#8217;ve found a woman&#8217;s g-spot (and every woman is different, but it&#8217;s located in the same general [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="Sex Tip: How To Find The G-Spot (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-tip-how-to-find-the-g-spot-video/">Finding the g-spot</a> can be difficult, but once you&#8217;ve found it, you may feel like you&#8217;ve struck oil, or reached the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow! Hold on &#8211; you&#8217;re not done yet. Once you&#8217;ve found a woman&#8217;s g-spot (and every woman is different, but it&#8217;s located in the same general area), it&#8217;s time to give her an amazing g-spot orgasm. Many women say this is the deepest, most powerful type of orgasm they&#8217;ve ever had. So are you ready to rock your woman&#8217;s world?</p>
<blockquote><p>Now that you&#8217;ve watched the video on how to find the g-spot, in this video you&#8217;ll find out how to give her a g-spot orgasm both with your fingers and through intercourse plus you&#8217;ll also discover the two biggest things that must happen before she&#8217;ll be able to have a g-spot orgasm. We want to know &#8211; have you ever experienced a g-spot orgasm, or know someone that has? Share with us on our <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-BRhkr_zk0" target="_blank">YouTube page</a>!</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Stimulating Her G-Spot With Your Fingers</h3>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve found it, <a title="How To Finger A Woman’s G-Spot" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/targeting-her-pleasure-buttons-how-to-finger-a-womans-g-spot/">stimulating your partner&#8217;s g-spot</a> takes a little more pressure than you would normally use if your were stimulating your partner&#8217;s clitoris. Stimulating your partner&#8217;s g-spot is actually quite simple &#8211; just rub back and forth, back and forth and side to side in a curved, &#8220;come here&#8221; motion with your fingers. Communicate with your partner to make sure you&#8217;re using the type of pressure she likes and that you&#8217;re in the right spot. Communicating with your partner sexually can be as easy as asking a question, or listening to your partner&#8217;s vocalizations and body language.</p>
<h3>Stimulating Her G-Spot With Your Penis During Intercourse</h3>
<p>Stimulating your partner&#8217;s g-spot during intercourse is a little bit more difficult that stimulating it with your fingers. It&#8217;s not impossible though &#8211; it just involves a little more patience and some tricky angles. The reason your fingers work so well to stimulate your partner&#8217;s g-spot is that they&#8217;re curved, and most penises aren&#8217;t curved. Therefore, you have to use different positions to angle your penis towards your partner&#8217;s g-spot. The best positions for g-spot stimulation during sexual intercourse are woman-on-top, where she can control the angle, pressure and speed of the stimulation, doggy-style, and missionary position with her legs on your shoulders. All of these positions allow for the head of the penis to more directly stimulate the g-spot, and some of them allow for g-spot stimulation in conjunction with clitoral stimulation for a possible <a title="The C-Spot and G-Spot Orgasm Cocktail" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/the-c-spot-and-g-spot-orgasm-cocktail/">blended orgasm</a>.</p>
<h3>An Essential Component To G-Spot Bliss</h3>
<p>For a woman to have a g-spot orgasm, she must be completely and totally relaxed, and completely and totally turned on. Going from zero to sixty in a few minutes isn&#8217;t going to give your partner a g-spot orgasm, but she&#8217;s more likely to have one if you&#8217;ve spent a lot of time with your partner using foreplay, stimulating her nipples and licking her clitoris. She&#8217;s even more likely to have a g-spot orgasm if she&#8217;s had a clitoral orgasm or two first. Women who reach orgasm don&#8217;t come down completely like a man does after an orgasm &#8211; they stay at a slightly lowered state of heightened arousal, so it&#8217;s easier for them to reach <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/send-her-to-a-cloud-of-pleasure-how-to-hit-the-g-spot-during-sex/">multiple orgasms</a>. A woman needs to be absolutely comfortable with her partner too &#8211; so spend time talking to each other and really getting to know each other too.</p>
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		<title>Sex Tips: How to Finger A Girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 12:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lee Jenkins, author Female Orgasm Black Book</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a real, hot sexiness to being able to bring your woman to a climax by just using your fingers.
Consider the fact that her body is – literally – under the command of your fingers and that you are able to WATCH her intently as you bring her to writhing pleasure.
Now, isn’t that sexy and [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There’s a real, hot sexiness to being able to <a title="5 Little Known Female Orgasm Secrets" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/5-little-known-female-orgasm-secrets-and-tips/">bring your woman to a climax</a> by just using your fingers.</p>
<p>Consider the fact that her body is – literally – under the command of your fingers and that you are able to WATCH her intently as you bring her to writhing pleasure.</p>
<p>Now, isn’t that <a title="Sex &amp; Intimacy" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/">sexy and hot</a>?</p>
<p>Here are some tips on how to finger a girl:</p>
<h3>Pre-Fingering Foreplay</h3>
<p>Surprisingly, not all <a title="3-Before-Me: A Proven Guideline For Great Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-3-before-me-a-proven-guideline-for-great-sex/">women like to be fingered</a> by their lovers. This can be due to many reasons such as issues about hygiene, trust and may be even fear.</p>
<p>If your partner has some of these issues, it may be wise to pre-discuss the topic of fingering beforehand just to ensure that she’s at least open to the idea of it happening. Otherwise, you can slowly introduce fingering as you make love.</p>
<p>But before that, here’s rule No. 1: <a title="Great Sex Begins With A Sensual Massage" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/great-sex-begins-with-a-sexual-massage/">engage in foreplay</a>! Foreplay ensures that you and your partner are in the right sexual frame of mind and body needs, making her just possibly a bit more open to being fingered.</p>
<h3>Explore The Landscape Gently</h3>
<p>If this is your first time to finger her, then ensure that you do everything you can to avoid any hang ups. For instance, ensure that your nails are cut and that your hands are clean (takes care of the issue of hygiene).</p>
<p>But more importantly, be gentle in your finger exploration. A woman’s body is all warmness and softness, right? As such, don’t go in there like an excited teenager. Instead, <a title="How To Give Her Mind Numbing, Leg Shaking Orgasms" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-black-book-review/">be respectful of her body</a> as you go in and explore.</p>
<p>Also, using your fingers to simulate a woman’s genitals is not just about insertion. Be sure you pay attention to her labia (genital lips) and clitoris too.</p>
<h3>Experiment With Different Textures, Pressures, And Movements</h3>
<p>Not all parts of a woman’s genital area can be stimulated in the exact same way. For instance, a lot of women like their labia to be gently caressed, their clitoris to be rubbed and their <a title="4 Reasons Why Female Orgasms Are So Hard To Achieve" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/4-reasons-why-women-orgasms-are-so-hard-to-achieve/">G-spots to be tapped</a>.</p>
<p>Now – again – not all women are the same so find the right combination that your lover finds the most sexually stimulating. And of course, as you try all these different sexual stimulation combos, don’t forget to pay attention to her! Moaning is good, jerking is not.</p>
<h3>Time Is Of No Consequence</h3>
<p>Don’t go about <a title="How to Induce Sexual Desire In Your Bedroom" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-induce-sexual-desire-in-your-bedroom/">fingering your woman</a> with a certain time frame in mind. You may ‘hit the jackpot’ right away, maybe not. Just give both yourselves time to get used to the different sensations. This is actually one of those times when the journey is as good as the destination.</p>
<h3>How To Deal With Fingering Fatigue</h3>
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