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		<title>Help! I&#8217;m Pregnant and He Wants Me to Choose Him or the Baby! (Video)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#34; It&#8217;s me or the baby!&#34;
Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to choose between a man or a baby, and it’s a tough decision.&#160;
It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want.&#160; 
If you find yourself in this situation, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot; It&#8217;s me or the baby!&quot;</p>
<p>Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/questions-for-couples-how-well-do-you-really-know-your-partner-1000-must-ask-questions-for-couples/" title="How Well Do You REALLY Know Your Partner? 1000 ‘Must Ask’ Questions for Couples">choose between a man or a baby</a>, and it’s a tough decision.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want.&nbsp; </p>
<p>If you find yourself in this situation, the decision is one that only you can make for yourself.</p>
<blockquote><p>    Dear Dan and Jennifer,</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Hi, I am 26 and my partner is 46. We have been together on and off for 3 years. I am only his second relationship and he says he has steered clear from relationships because he didn’t want children. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>He does not like them and despises the fact he would be financially responsible for the next 18 years. I have a 5 year old son and he gets on great with him so I cannot understand why he doesn’t want his own. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>This has always been okay until I find out I am 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to choose between him and the baby and said I can’t have both. I want this child. Do you think a man will change his mind once his child&nbsp;is here? Surely he will have some kind of feeling won&#8217;t he? Or am I faced with being a single parent?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>- <st1:place> <st1:city>Emma</st1:city>, <st1:country-region>United   Kingdom</st1:country-region></st1:place> </p>
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<h3>A Very Difficult Choice</h3>
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		<title>Rock Star Syndrome &#8211; Are You In Love With Him or the IDEA of Him? (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 19:10:30 +0000</pubDate>
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After all, they're waiting for their gorgeous prince to ride in and rescue them, after which they'll fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after. And in today's world, these guys are the closest thing they'll find to a prince.


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every little girl grows up wanting to be a beautiful princess. So is it any wonder that young girls are so attracted to rock stars, movie stars, and pop idols?&nbsp; </p>
<p>After all, they&#8217;re waiting for their gorgeous prince to ride in and rescue them, after which they&#8217;ll fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after. And in today&#8217;s world, these guys are the closest thing they&#8217;ll find to a prince.</p>
<p>She thinks it&#8217;s true love. But what happens when this young woman figures out she&#8217;s not going to be his princess&#8230; and then realizes he&#8217;s got a princess in every city?&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a question </strong>from a lady in Jamaica who&#8217;s enamored with someone famous and exotic, but she&#8217;s afraid she&#8217;s going to make a mistake taking their relationship too seriously and having a baby with him!</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Dan and Jennifer, </p>
<p>I am currently seeing someone who is part of an entourage of someone who is famous. I&#8217;m not expecting much from the relationship because I know he has girls throwing themselves at him daily. But, he brings out a certain side of me that I didn&#8217;t know existed &#8211; I feel &#8216;free&#8217; when I&#8217;m with him. </p>
<p>The last time we were together he asked me a very shocking question. He asked if and when I&#8217;m ready to have a child if I would have his child. I really do not know what to do about this crazy relationship. </p>
<p>  I try to stop from thinking about him but I am unsuccessful. Is something wrong with me for wanting this type of man? </p>
<p>&#8211; Shauna, Jamaica</p>
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<h3>Embrace How You Feel. There&#8217;s Nothing Wrong With You!       </h3>
<p> It&#8217;s OK to feel absolutely any way that you feel. Always embrace your feelings and accept them, but also understand where they&#8217;re coming from.</p>
<p>Being enamored with someone who has a life you can only dream of is&#8230;</p>


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