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		<title>Best Male Masturbation Secrets Of 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 14:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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<p>Embrace male masturbation as a great way to relieve sexual frustration, help prevent prostate cancer, relieve painful headaches, give yourself a good mood boost or even help you sleep. There are a number of awesome benefits that you can reap. Encourage your partner to masturbate as well. Check out our best tips this year &#8211; and take a look at the best <em>female </em>sex tips of 2011 &#8211; and make next year even better when it comes to learning new and different ways to satisfy yourself!</p>
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		<title>Oral Sex: How To Handle Semen During A Blowjob</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2011 14:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Webb</dc:creator>
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<h3>Communicate With Your Partner</h3>
<p>This may single-handedly be THE biggest reason for communication!  We all know that men ejaculate when they experience an orgasm and if they experience an orgasm during fellatio, then it is likely that the ejaculate will end up in your mouth.  Depending on your preferences, this may or may not be a turn on for you, you may be indifferent to it, or the very idea may repulse you and send you running for the porcelain throne.</p>
<h3>Swallowing</h3>
<p>The easiest way to dispose of semen during oral sex is to swallow it. But if the idea just doesn&#8217;t do anything for you (or if it makes your stomach turn) read on for some different ways to handle his <a title="6 Things You DIDN’T Know About Semen" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/6-things-you-didnt-know-about-semen/">semen</a> &#8211; and still make it sexy.</p>
<h3>Spitting In A Towel</h3>
<p>So you&#8217;re okay with it in your mouth, but actually getting it down? Not happening. Keep a towel nearby and when he&#8217;s done, discreetly spit his semen in it. You can also keep a glass of water or another drink nearby to swish out your mouth. This also works well if he likes to kiss you afterwards but doesn&#8217;t like the taste of his own spunk.</p>
<h3>Finish Him Off With A Handjob Instead</h3>
<p>This technique may sound less passionate or devoting than swallowing your partner’s ejaculate, but it doesn’t have to be. Enthusiasm makes all the difference in the world and as long as you continue to let him know that you are enjoying his orgasm (even though his orgasm is being finished with a hand instead of a mouth) and he may very well be so wrapped up in the pleasure that he doesn’t notice the difference.</p>
<p>Sound making or some dirty talk is of utmost importance here! You don’t have to get loud or wild but making some noises lets him know that you are getting off on him getting off and that will definitely enhance his <a title="How To Enhance Your Orgasm – For Men" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/how-to-enhance-your-orgasm-for-men/">orgasm</a>! Verbally telling him how much it turns you on to see him cum might be just what he needs to hear to get him to finish strong as you watch.</p>
<h3>Bad First Experiences With Oral Sex</h3>
<p>A large number of women have had “BAD” first experiences with the first <a title="Blowjob Tip: How To Make Her Want To Give You More Oral Sex (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/oral-sex-videos-tips/blowjob-tip-how-make-her-want-to-give-you-more-oral-sex-video/">blowjob</a> they ever gave, because they were either young and didn’t know what to expect, or some guy decided to not tell them when they were going to orgasm and they found themselves unexpectedly with a surprise mouth full of semen and that unpleasant first experience left them unwilling to ever try again.</p>
<p>Again, this is why communication and assurance are key factors to getting over an objectionable first experience and not letting it keep you from a very special and wonderful experience with your trusted partner.</p>
<h3>Let Him Go &#8220;In&#8221; You</h3>
<p>Guess where “else” is outside of your mouth?&#8221; You guessed it!  Your warm, wet and waiting <a title="10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-vaginas/">vagina</a>. You can give your man the most wonderful blowjob (up to the climactic eruption) and when he says “NOW,” quickly remove your mouth and stick his penis deep into you, while letting your vagina provide that last few pumps to finish him off and capture every drop of his semen.</p>
<p>In the end, it really doesn&#8217;t matter where the semen goes during oral sex as long as both partners communicate before the fellatio session and are in agreement and as long as both partners stick to that agreement!</p>
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		<title>6 Ways To Make Male Masturbation Better Than Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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<h3>Use Lube!</h3>
<p>While male masturbation can be achieved without <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lube</a>, it&#8217;s definitely not the best way to do it. Unfortunately, this is how most guys masturbate. Since they were young, they learned to do it quickly and without using any props that might possibly give them away or be difficult to hide if they got caught. It&#8217;s time to shed this learned behavior and start enjoying yourself!</p>
<p>Lube will intensify the sensations you experience during masturbation and make it feel more like sex. Without lube, there is a great deal more friction and the sensations aren&#8217;t as pleasurable. An uncircumcised male may notice this less than a circumcised male because they can glide their foreskin up and down the shaft of their penis. Some circumcised men do have enough skin left over after the surgery to do this to an extent, however, the skin is often stretched tight over a circumcised penis. A circumcised man will definitely want to use lube, since they can&#8217;t!</p>
<h3>Try A Masturbation Sleeve</h3>
<p>Male masturbation is easy with your hand, but it&#8217;s a lot better with a masturbation sleeve. A masturbation sleeve is a soft, jelly like <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">sex toy</a> that you slip over the penis and use as a &#8220;stroker.&#8221; They can be made out of a variety of materials, including silicone, Cyberskin and jelly materials, and many of them are textured to feel even better than a real vagina.</p>
<p>With a generous dollop of lube inside the sleeve, you can transform boring masturbation into something that feels totally different &#8211; and better &#8211; than anything you&#8217;ve ever felt before. Experiment with different types of masturbation sleeves to find the best fit for you.</p>
<h3>Watch Porn &#8211; The Kind You REALLY Like</h3>
<p>Almost all guys watch <a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/porn-adult-movies-erotica/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">porn</a> &#8211; that&#8217;s a given. However, there are many men who don&#8217;t watch the porn they <em>really </em>like. They may have a secret fetish that they&#8217;re embarrassed about, or they may get turned on by things that are considered shameful by many social circles. Therefore, these men don&#8217;t watch the porn that would really turn them on &#8211; instead, they watch something &#8220;conventional&#8221; that will get the job done, but nothing more.</p>
<p>If this is you, stop watching mediocre porn and find the stuff that <em>really </em>does it for you. Don&#8217;t be embarrassed to watch something that isn&#8217;t &#8220;traditional.&#8221; There are hundreds of different types of interests when it comes to the adult film industry, and you&#8217;re not alone. There are a lot of strange things out there, but if what gets you off doesn&#8217;t hurt anyone, there&#8217;s really nothing wrong with enjoying what you like. Since men are entirely visual creatures when it comes to sex, watching what really gets you hot has the power to increase your pleasure significantly.</p>
<h3>Use A Warm Towel</h3>
<p>Temperature has a lot to do with how good sex feels. For example, a real vagina is always warm and wet. So why not make male masturbation as warm and wet as you can? If you&#8217;ve got a bottle of lube handy, you&#8217;ve got the wet part covered. You can make it warm by throwing a damp towel in the microwave for a few seconds, but be careful not to get it too hot. It does, however, cool down quickly so it may take a few tries to get it just the right temperature.</p>
<p>Wrap the warm, damp towel around your <a title="10 Things You Didn’t Know About Penises" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-penises/">penis</a> (which, at this point, should have a lubed up masturbation sleeve on it) and then cover the damp towel with a dry one. You can also warm up the dry one in your clothes dryer if you like.</p>
<h3>Go Slow And Take Your Time</h3>
<p>For the same reason that men don&#8217;t often use lube during male masturbation, they also don&#8217;t take their time when they&#8217;re doing it. It&#8217;s just not how they learned to masturbate. They learned to do it quickly, before anyone could catch them. Make male masturbation feel more like real <a title="6 Types Of Sex You Need To Try – Tonight!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/6-types-of-sex-you-need-to-try-tonight/">sex</a> by planning to do it at a time when you are completely alone and you can lock your doors and turn off your phone.</p>
<p>Take your time to enjoy each phase of the process, from arousal to orgasm. Don&#8217;t rush through it &#8211; you&#8217;ll notice that the longer you spend pleasuring yourself, the better it will feel!</p>
<h3>Let Your Orgasm Build</h3>
<p>Don&#8217;t think that <a title="How To Enhance Your Orgasm – For Men" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/how-to-enhance-your-orgasm-for-men/">orgasm</a> is where you need to be as soon as possible. When you&#8217;re having sex, you relish every feeling and sensation, making it last as long as you can. You also try your best to hold out on your own orgasm so your partner can have one or two of her own. Don&#8217;t think that this is something that you can only do during sex &#8211; you can also do it during male masturbation.</p>
<p>When you feel like you&#8217;re close to orgasm, back off a little. Stroke yourself in a different way or back off completely. Wait a few minutes before going back to it. This will not only train you to delay your orgasm so you can have more stamina during sex, it will also make masturbation absolutely explosive when you finally can&#8217;t hold out anymore!</p>
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		<title>Dry Orgasms &#8211; Do You Suffer From Retrograde Ejaculation?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 14:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An <a title="How To Enhance Your Orgasm – For Men" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/how-to-enhance-your-orgasm-for-men/">orgasm</a> doesn&#8217;t always involve ejaculation. When most men climax, fluid is expelled from their penis. However, some men don&#8217;t always expel ejaculatory fluid when they climax. What happens when a man has a normal orgasm sometimes and doesn&#8217;t ejaculate at other times? Where does the semen go?</p>

<h3>Is There Such A Thing As A Dry Orgasm?</h3>
<p>It is commonly thought that men will <a title="How To Cure Premature Ejaculation 100% Naturally (No Pills, Herbs Or Special Creams Needed)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/how-to-cure-premature-ejaculation-naturally-no-pills-herbs-or-special-creams-needed/">ejaculate</a> every time they have an orgasm, but scientific studies and reports from men across the globe have proven otherwise. It is possible for a man to have an orgasm apart from ejaculation &#8211; meaning, that although a man has experienced a climax, no fluid is expelled from the penis during the orgasm.</p>
<p>This is especially true if a man is able to have <a title="Can Men Have Multiple Orgasms On Viagra? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/can-men-have-multiple-orgasms-on-viagra/">multiple orgasms</a>. Since it takes about fifteen to twenty minutes for a man to produce more ejaculatory fluid, if he has another orgasm within this time frame, it will most likely be &#8220;dry&#8221; or without semen.</p>
<h3>What Is Retrograde Ejaculation?</h3>
<p>A &#8220;dry&#8221; orgasm can mean that a man simply has not produced ejaculate during that particular climax, but it can also mean that a man <em>did </em>produce ejaculatory fluid during the orgasm and that it just didn&#8217;t end up coming out of the penis.</p>
<p><em>So where did it go?</em></p>
<p>With retrograde ejaculation, the semen is expelled from the testicles, but does not travel through the urethra and out the penis. Instead, the fluid goes up and into the bladder. For men who experience this problem, it&#8217;s not always consistent, so it&#8217;s a little harder to figure out what exactly is going on. For example, a man who experiences multiple orgasms and has a &#8220;dry&#8221; orgasm, he probably isn&#8217;t experiencing retrograde ejaculation. It is possible for no ejaculatory fluid to be released at all during climax. However, a man that is simply having normal <a title="6 Types Of Sex You Need To Try – Tonight!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/6-types-of-sex-you-need-to-try-tonight/">sex</a> and sometimes ejaculates and sometimes doesn&#8217;t probably is.</p>
<p>A urinalysis test is needed to confirm the presence of semen inside the bladder to determine whether or not a man is experiencing actual retrograde ejaculation.</p>
<h3>What Causes Retrograde Ejaculation?</h3>
<p>A common cause of this condition is when teenagers &#8211; hoping not to make a mess and get caught <a title="Q&amp;A: Losing Erection When Masturbating: Is That Normal? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/qa-losing-erection-when-masturbating-video/">masturbating</a> &#8211; pinch the tip of the penis and close off the urethra during orgasm. Also, some types of medications can cause retrograde ejaculation, including anti-depressant and anti-psychotic medications. Health conditions can also cause this condition, and rarely, an obstruction in the ejaculatory duct can prevent ejaculatory fluid from being released.</p>
<p>Although it isn&#8217;t technically harmful to pinch the tip of the penis right before ejaculation to prevent semen from being expelled, it can be uncomfortable and you may end up having a much less satisfying orgasm than if you had simply let it go. If you&#8217;re worried about making a mess, masturbate in the shower (it goes right down the drain) or use toilet paper or facial tissue to catch your <a title="6 Things You DIDN’T Know About Semen" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/6-things-you-didnt-know-about-semen/">semen</a> when you ejaculate.</p>
<h3>Is Retrograde Ejaculation Harmful?</h3>
<p>When a man experiences retrograde ejaculation, it&#8217;s not going to harm his body at all. There is no damage done to the ejaculatory duct, the penis, the testicles or the bladder when this occurs. It&#8217;s not a dangerous condition to have, however, that doesn&#8217;t mean that men shouldn&#8217;t be concerned about it:</p>
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<li>Many men who experience this condition report that orgasms are much less pleasurable when the semen is redirected to the bladder instead of being expelled from the <a title="10 Things You Didn’t Know About Penises" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-penises/">penis</a>. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable &#8211; and you want to make it as good as you can!</li>
<li>Men with retrograde ejaculation may become infertile &#8211; but whether that&#8217;s due to the fact that the semen simply doesn&#8217;t come out (after all, the sperm have to come out of the penis and travel up the vagina to fertilize an egg) or that the process of redirection into the bladder makes a man infertile over time is unknown.</li>
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<h3>What Should You Do If You Have Dry Orgasms?</h3>
<p>If you experience a dry orgasm outside of having multiple orgasms, whether it happens seldom or frequently, seek the advice of your doctor. If you&#8217;re not comfortable enough with your current doctor to talk about this, find a new one! Your doctor is best equipped to deal with this sort of condition, and he or she has the tests available at hand to confirm whether you&#8217;re really experiencing retrograde ejaculation or not.</p>
<p>Once you get a confirmation on whether you have the condition or not, you can begin talking to your doctor about real options that are available to you.</p>
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		<title>Overcoming Early Ejaculation And Making Sex Last Longer</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 23:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lloyd Lester</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="How To Cure Premature Ejaculation 100% Naturally (No Pills, Herbs Or Special Creams Needed)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/how-to-cure-premature-ejaculation-naturally-no-pills-herbs-or-special-creams-needed/">Premature ejaculation</a> can happen to any guy &#8211; no matter whether they&#8217;re young or old. If you have premature ejaculation, you&#8217;re not alone. You probably feel some anxiety every time you have sex, worrying that you will blow it in double-quick time. While there are differing opinions on the definitions of premature ejaculation, it all boils down to the man ejaculating quicker than he or his partner wants.</p>
<h3>The Numbers Don&#8217;t Lie</h3>
<p>It is not a stretch to say that early ejaculation is by FAR the most prevalent sexual problem affecting men. If men were asked if they have ever had at least one experience of having an <a title="3 Sex Tips To Give A Woman An Orgasm Without Using Your Hands!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/3-sextips-to-give-a-woman-an-orgasm-without-using-your-hands/">orgasm</a> too soon, almost all would have their hands raised up high. Statistics from universal sexual surveys consistently show that at least 30 to 40% of men replied that ejaculating early was an issue.</p>
<h3>Getting Over Premature Ejaculation</h3>
<p>Learning to effectively overcome PE will depend on its contributory factors. For most men who have to deal with this embarrassing event in their sex lives, the presence of stress and tension in one&#8217;s body is a leading cause of PE.</p>
<p>Ever noticed the tension you feel in your body during sex? This can be attributed to various factors, including holding your breath, tightening the muscles in your abs, or certain <a title="6 Sex Positions That Make You Look Good" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/best-sex-positions/6-sex-positions-that-make-you-look-good/">sex positions</a> where you need to support your weight (e.g. missionary). All these result in muscular tension and increase the potential for an early orgasm.</p>
<p>The male orgasm is basically a series of muscular contractions that release muscular tension. One of the best ways to overcome premature ejaculation is to work on your muscle tension levels. Simple activities such as meditation, stretching, and even basic exercises are very effective ways to reduce the tension in the core abdominal and pelvic areas, and help you gain those crucial minutes during sex.</p>
<h3>Other Proven Strategies For Longer-Lasting Sex</h3>
<p>Here are 2 specific tips that many guys find useful in getting over premature ejaculation and lasting longer in bed. And I think you&#8217;ll find them extremely helpful too.</p>
<p><strong><em>Bolster Your Ejaculatory Muscles</em></strong></p>
<p>Your pelvic floor muscles regulate how long you last. If you don&#8217;t know where these are, stop your urine midstream and sense the muscle that contracts, somewhere in between your scrotum and anus. That is the muscle that controls both urination and ejaculation. Most men don&#8217;t know this, but you can actually strengthen this set of muscles so that you are able to extend your orgasm and even last all night in bed. Simple PC Contraction exercises or <a title="The PC Muscle, Kegels And “The Block” – How To Use Them To Stop Premature Ejaculation" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/the-pc-muscle-kegels-and-%E2%80%9Cthe-block%E2%80%9D-how-to-use-them-to-stop-premature-ejaculation/">Kegel workouts</a> will boost the strength of these muscles and enhance your ejaculatory control.</p>
<p><strong><em>Focus On &#8220;Position Divergence&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>The positioning and movement of your penis inside the vagina also affects how long you last. It is very common for guys to penetrate in the standard in and out motion. This type of movement increases the sensations on the penis glans and makes it more difficult to manage your arousal. Instead, try moving your member in a circular motion during intercourse and at the same time, rub your pubic area against hers. Not only will this enhance your stamina, it will stimulate her <a title="Clitoris 101: 3 Things Men Need to Know about the Clitoris" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/clitoris-101-3-things-men-need-to-know-about-the-clitoris/">clitoris</a> better and give her an orgasm sooner. It&#8217;s a win-win for the both of you, I&#8217;m sure!</p>
<p><strong><em>Develop An &#8220;Ejaculatory Compass&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>In many cases, premature ejaculation is a &#8220;habit&#8221; that has been unwittingly cultivated from young. You see, when most young men masturbate, they tend to use quick strokes to ejaculate quickly so that they can achieve satisfaction without getting caught. If you are used to this quick-fire approach to self-stimulation, you will become accustomed to it even when you are <a title="What’s The Best Time To Have Sex?" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/what%E2%80%99s-the-best-time-to-have-sex/">having sex</a> with a partner.</p>
<p>The good news is, such negative habits can be reversed or &#8220;un-learned&#8221;&#8230; simply by allowing yourself MORE time during masturbation. Use this time to get in tune with your sexual arousal; learn how your body responds to stimulation and then associate those sensations to specific benchmarks along your arousal curve. This will help you pinpoint your ejaculatory threshold so that you can take specific steps (e.g. adjust your movements, switch positions, etc) during sex to last longer.</p>
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		<title>How To Enhance Your Orgasm &#8211; For Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 14:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An orgasm for men - when they're by themselves - is often just a "get it done" thing. But here's how you can turn your masturbation sessions into so much more.<h3>Related Posts</h3>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An <a title="3 Sex Tips To Give A Woman An Orgasm Without Using Your Hands!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/3-sextips-to-give-a-woman-an-orgasm-without-using-your-hands/">orgasm</a> for men &#8211; when they&#8217;re by themselves &#8211; is often just a &#8220;get it done&#8221; kind of thing. Guys are used to masturbating quickly, usually because they either grew up afraid to get caught or are still afraid to get caught &#8211; and for many guys, it&#8217;s a combination of both. Masturbation is a healthy part of any man&#8217;s sex life, so here&#8217;s how you can make your masturbation sessions so much more satisfying.</p>
<h3>Use Lube During Masturbation</h3>
<p>As much as this sounds like common sense, there are actually a lot of guys who just don&#8217;t use <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lube</a> during masturbation. They often use nothing, or they&#8217;ll use some kind of lotion or petroleum jelly. These just aren&#8217;t suitable for masturbation. They dry out too quickly and can cause allergic reactions and rashes on the sensitive skin of the penis. Lube is specifically developed to be used during sex (and this includes when you go solo) so it feels better and will help give you an incredible orgasm.</p>
<p>Water based lube is always a good choice, but silicone based lube is also effective for masturbation because it&#8217;s thicker and it lasts longer. Lube is cheap and is available almost anywhere, including your local supermarket or drugstore. Many lubes are now created with special ingredients to either warm the penis or prolong an erection. Experiment with different lubes until you find the one that is best for you!</p>
<h3>Consider Using Male Sex Toys</h3>
<p>A lot of guys assume that <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">sex toys</a> are just for women to use &#8211; but there are actually a lot of fun toys for guys to use too! Masturbation sleeves can make a huge difference in how great your orgasm is. When used with lube, the simple silicone sleeve can make masturbation (and even a handjob from your lady) feel absolutely divine. Many masturbation sleeves come with ribbed or studded interiors, making the experience that much more pleasurable!</p>
<p>There are other <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">male sex toys</a>, including cock rings (which trap the blood inside the penis after an erection and make it last longer and stay harder) as well as butt plugs and prostate massagers. Next time you make a trip to the adult toy store &#8211; or if you&#8217;re browsing online &#8211; take a look and see what they have to offer for you &#8211; not just your woman!</p>
<h3>Don&#8217;t Rush It</h3>
<p>Since most guys grew up with the fear of getting caught spanking the monkey, they view <a title="Advanced Masturbation Techniques – Using Sex Toys (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/advanced-masturbation-techniques-using-sex-toys-video/">masturbation</a> as a &#8220;get it done quick&#8221; ritual. In fact, most men only need minutes to achieve orgasm when they&#8217;re stroking themselves. While an orgasm during a quickie masturbation session is certainly satisfactory, it definitely isn&#8217;t what you would consider &#8220;amazing&#8221; or even &#8220;okay.&#8221; It simply does the job.</p>
<p>If you want to make your orgasm better, take your time. Plan to masturbate during a time where you are home alone for significant period of time. Lock the doors, close the curtains and take a few deep breaths. Look at some erotica to start getting yourself aroused and then take your time with it. Don&#8217;t rush it &#8211; if you get close to orgasm, stop stimulating yourself. Pick it back up again after you&#8217;ve backed away from the brink of <a title="How To Delay Your Own Orgasm" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/how-to-delay-your-own-orgasm/">climax</a> a little bit. Once you do this several times, you finally won&#8217;t be able to help going over the edge &#8211; but by this time, your pleasure will be so built up that the final release is nothing short of incredible.</p>
<h3>Watch Porn &#8211; Good Porn</h3>
<p><a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/porn-adult-movies-erotica/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">Porn</a> is something almost every guy watches, and if he says he doesn&#8217;t, there&#8217;s an excellent chance that he&#8217;s lying. There&#8217;s nothing wrong with watching porn &#8211; men are visual creatures and have a difficult time becoming aroused and reaching orgasm if there isn&#8217;t any visual stimulation. So it makes sense that men watch adult movies when getting off, but surprisingly, a lot of men aren&#8217;t watching what <em>really </em>turns them on. Why?</p>
<p>Price could be a factor. DVD&#8217;s and subscriptions to adult websites can be expensive. Also, a guy may have a secret fetish that he&#8217;s just not willing to admit he has (even to himself) so he just makes do with whatever free porn he can find on the  Internet. If you&#8217;re not watching the porn you <em>really </em>want to be watching, just get what you want and get on with it. Even if it means shelling out a few extra bucks. The increase in the pleasure of your orgasm will be well worth it.</p>
<h3>Try Prostate Massage</h3>
<p>If you&#8217;re really freaked out by the idea of anal play (on yourself), then skip this part entirely. But if the idea intrigues you and you just haven&#8217;t had the balls to do it yet, read on. The prostate is often considered the male &#8220;g-spot&#8221; and can provide a man with intense pleasure when it is simulated, especially in conjunction with sexual activity. Some men have experienced <a title="The Male G-Spot: How To Find And Stimulate The Prostate Gland (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/anal-sex-videos-tips/the-male-g-spot-how-to-find-and-stimulate-the-prostate-gland-video/">prostate massage</a> with their partners, but have never tried it on themselves during masturbation.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re open to the idea, purchase a small butt plug to start. You can also use a finger on the hand that you&#8217;re not using to stroke your penis. Make sure you have lots of good lube on hand, because anal play can really hurt without proper lubrication. To find your prostate on yourself, you will need to use the &#8220;come hither&#8221; motion (if you&#8217;re using your fingers) and move toward your stomach. This usually involves reaching down in between your legs rather than trying to reach around from behind. Go slow and work your way up in size if you&#8217;re using sex toys. Remember that if it ever hurts, stop! However, with practice, prostate massage can give you the kind of orgasms you never dreamed you&#8217;d have.</p>
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		<title>How To Increase Sexual Endurance Dramatically</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 23:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lloyd Lester</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="How To Cure Premature Ejaculation 100% Naturally (No Pills, Herbs Or Special Creams Needed)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/how-to-cure-premature-ejaculation-naturally-no-pills-herbs-or-special-creams-needed/">Premature ejaculation</a> can happen to anyone. PE is a real problem that affects 25 to 40 percent of men, which typically means they ejaculate in under 2 minutes during sexual intercourse. For many men, the real issue is the inability to handle the intense arousal that comes with sexual stimulation.</p>
<p>So what can you do to get a grip on your arousal and massively increase your sexual stamina? Check out these easy tips to increase your endurance and last longer in bed.</p>
<h3>Make Sex A &#8220;Connected Experience&#8221;</h3>
<p>When it comes to lovemaking, women &#8211; even if they do not say it &#8211; prefer an intimate emotional connection, and not just physical intimacy. Your ability to warm her up with <a title="How To Turn A Girl On Sexually" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/foreplay-videos-tips/how-to-turn-a-girl-on-sexually/">foreplay</a> before starting intercourse will go a long way in satisfying her properly, as well as giving you the confidence needed to last longer.</p>
<p>To do this, you will need to focus on HER needs first. Make sure that you know where her hot spots are &#8211; the areas where she wants the most attention and likes to be touched. By learning all about her body and giving her lots of attention, she will not only find lovemaking more pleasurable, she will be able to achieve <a title="3 Sex Tips To Give A Woman An Orgasm Without Using Your Hands!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/3-sextips-to-give-a-woman-an-orgasm-without-using-your-hands/">orgasm</a> faster as well.</p>
<p>When you have the confidence in knowing her body and what she likes, it will make a big impact on your sex life. You will find that you have renewed confidence in yourself as a lover if you start by pleasing her BEFORE penetration.</p>
<p>Not only that, but by prolonging the prelude to intercourse and focusing on satisfying your partner&#8217;s needs first, you also slow down your own path to arousal and significantly increase your sexual endurance.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Capricious Maneuvering&#8221;</h3>
<p>This has worked very well for most men and is one of the simplest ways to delay an impending orgasm. Most men tend to orgasm early due to their inability to control their sexual arousal, and this technique will help you in that respect.</p>
<p>When you become too excited during sex and realize an orgasm is approaching, simply withdraw your penis and change to a position that is less stimulating for you.</p>
<p>For instance, switch to one where both of you are sitting down and you&#8217;re not getting as much friction on your penis. This helps to reduce the speed of penetration and gives you better control. Another great <a title="The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/best-sex-positions/the-best-sex-positions-to-make-a-woman-orgasm-quicker/">sex position</a> is to simply lie down on your sides facing each either.</p>
<p>If you still find it hard to delay an ejaculation, withdraw your penis and stop <a title="Sex Tips: Penetration – How Far Is Too Far? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/best-sex-positions/sex-tips-penetration-how-far-is-too-far-video/">penetration</a> completely. This is the perfect time to continue pleasing her with your fingers or give her oral sex. Just make sure you do this a few minutes before you&#8217;re actually ready to climax. If you wait just until the brink of orgasm to withdraw, you will likely still have an orgasm &#8211; only it won&#8217;t be very good at all.</p>
<p>Most women find it much easier to achieve an orgasm through oral sex, so if you can give her one before resuming intercourse, it will satisfy her a lot better. Not only that, it will make it easier for her to achieve successive climaxes during intercourse, and also gives you that much needed confidence to keep going until the finishing line!</p>
<h3>Relax And Have Fun</h3>
<p>As you practice controlling your orgasm, you will feel more and more confident with your ability to last longer in bed. Even if you still have trouble controlling when you <a title="Take Your Climax To The Max – Top 5 Tips To Wilder Orgasms" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/take-your-climax-to-the-max-top-5-tips-to-wilder-orgasms/">climax</a>, if you&#8217;ve learned to please your partner sexually <em>before </em>penetration, she will still be satisfied even though you haven&#8217;t lasted very long during intercourse. The most important thing is to relax and remember that sex is all about having fun. If you put too much pressure on yourself not to ejaculate too early, it is likely going to backfire.</p>
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		<title>Practice Makes Perfect. Yes, You Can Train Yourself To Last Longer in Bed</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 12:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Edward White, author The Orgasm And Ejaculation Control Guide</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Edging is a technique that can be used to <a title="500 Sex Tips and Love Making Secrets That Everyone Ought to Know" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-tips-love-making-secrets-that-everyone-ought-to-know/">increase your ability to refrain from climaxing</a> when you’re really stimulated and turned on. It goes like this.</p>
<h3>Sexual Stimulation on a Scale of 1 to 10</h3>
<p>You imagine a scale of stimulation from 1 to 10. 1 means you aren’t stimulated at all. It’s how you are before you even start to have sex. 3 means you’re starting to become physically stimulated. In other words, you can definitely feel it, but it’s not enough to make you come too early. 6 is where you really start to feel stimulated.</p>
<p>If you carried on with this level of stimulation, you’d rise to the next number on the scale: 7. 7 is where you’re <em>very</em> sexually stimulated. When you go above a 7 on the stimulation scale, you get close to the point of no return which is a 9.</p>
<h3>The Point of No Return &#8211; You Will Orgasm</h3>
<p>Passing the point of no return means <a title="Sex Tips &amp; Advice" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-tips-advice/">you’re definitely going to ejaculate</a>, no matter what you do. The edging technique involves masturbating until you get to a 7 on the scale, then backing off and slowing down until you’re back down to a 4 or 5, then speeding up until you’re about a 7 or 8 once more.</p>
<p>Using this method, you can learn to control your stimulation levels and thereby extend how long you’re able to have sex without coming. Once you’ve used edging alone for a while, though, you should take it to the next level: edging with your partner. Here’s how to do that.</p>
<h3>How to Use Edging During Sex With Your Partner To Prevent Ejaculation</h3>
<p>Begin sex with your partner. You should have already discussed that you’re going to try edging during this sexual encounter and she should be happy and enthusiastic about the idea. After foreplay, enter you partner in the position you know creates the smallest amount of sexual stimulation for you.</p>
<p>Now slowly build your way up to 7 on the stimulation scale. Be careful! It’s easy to jump right past 7 and pass the point of no return when using the edging technique in ‘live’ conditions. Once you’re at or just beyond 7, and therefore <a title="A Great Way To Last Longer In Bed - That 99% Of Men Have Never Even Tried!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/premature-ejaculation-sex-tips-how-to-last-longer-in-bed-that-most-men-have-never-even-tried/">fairly close to coming</a>, slow down or withdraw from your partner, wait a moment, then build it back up once more.</p>
<p>Keep going just as you do it when performing edging by yourself. After a while, you can switch to your next least intense sexual position and start the edging process once more. Of course, your partner doesn’t have to just lie there and let you beaver away throughout all of this.</p>
<h3>The Perks for Her- Extended SEx</h3>
<p>You can still <a title="How To Give Your Woman The Kind of Orgasm SHE Wants" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-give-your-woman-the-kind-of-orgasm-she-wants/">kiss her, talk to her, tease her</a>, etc. In other words, done right, this technique is awesome for your partner, even though it’s serving a productive purpose for you. Keep going through sexual positions, edging throughout each one. If you come after a while, don’t worry about it. You’ve made good progress. Next time, you’ll be able to go even further.</p>
<p>You won’t believe how effective this technique is when used in conjunction with deep breathing exercises. After just three or four sexual encounters, during which you’ve used this technique, you’ll notice that <a title="Why Can’t You Last Long Enough In Bed?" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/why-cant-you-last-long-enough-in-bed/">you can last two or even three times as long as you used to</a>, before you used this method of edging.</p>
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