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		<title>Best Male Masturbation Secrets Of 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 14:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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<p>Embrace male masturbation as a great way to relieve sexual frustration, help prevent prostate cancer, relieve painful headaches, give yourself a good mood boost or even help you sleep. There are a number of awesome benefits that you can reap. Encourage your partner to masturbate as well. Check out our best tips this year &#8211; and take a look at the best <em>female </em>sex tips of 2011 &#8211; and make next year even better when it comes to learning new and different ways to satisfy yourself!</p>
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		<title>Penis Extensions &#8211; Can They Spice Up Your Sex Life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 14:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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<h3>What Are Penis Extensions?</h3>
<p>Think of penis extensions as <a title="Q&amp;A: How Is A Vibrator Different From A Dildo? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/qa-how-is-a-vibrator-different-from-a-dildo-video/">dildos</a> that fit over the head of your member. They are generally made  of similar material (such as jelly, silicone or realistic skin-like material) and look very realistic. They extend the length of the penis considerably, allowing a shorter man to penetrate further into his partner&#8217;s vagina.</p>
<p>Average sized men can also use penis extensions if their partners desire a very deep, intense penetration. Some penis extensions require straps to keep them in place, while others simply slip over the head and stay there due to the soft, stretchy material that hugs the shaft.</p>
<h3>Don&#8217;t They Reduce Pleasure? Why Would A Guy Want To Wear One?</h3>
<p>It is true that penis extensions reduce some of the pleasurable sensations experienced during intercourse. However, many men and couples feel as though the benefits outweigh this. And of course, many men choose to wear a penis extension some of the time &#8211; while still having intimate, pleasurable sex with their partners without wearing one.</p>
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<li>Men who have smaller penises or simply just want more than what they already have will find that they can reach farther and stimulate more of their partner&#8217;s hot spots than with their own.</li>
<li>Many guys enjoy the feeling of being able to penetrate their lovers so deeply. And many women enjoy being penetrated exceptionally deep. This is one of the key reasons that guys with average or larger sized genitals would want a penis extension. It can be totally erotic to go as deep as possible!</li>
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<h3>During Role Play</h3>
<p>Sexual <a title="8 Tips For Sinful Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-games-fantasies/8-tips-for-sinful-sex/">role play</a> is another fun thing you can do with penis extensions. This works well if you and your lover have agreed on monogamy, but want to spice things up and experience something a little different every once in a while. A penis extension will make the male partner feel like he&#8217;s a different man to both lovers! Incorporate this into a sexy role play scenario. Use costumes if you like, and definitely up the ante with some <a title="7 “Innocent” Words That Turn Women On" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/seduction-videos-tips/sex-tips-7-innocent-words-that-turn-women-on/">dirty talk</a>.</p>
<h3>Care &amp; Safety</h3>
<p>Care for penis extensions is much like the care of any <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">sex toy</a>. You want to be aware of the material it is made from, because latex can be broken down by using petroleum jelly or oil based lubes, while silicone can be broken down by using other silicone lubes. If you use a water based lube, you&#8217;re pretty much safe all around. Most penis extensions can be cleaned with simple soap and water, but if you purchase one made of life-like skin material, you&#8217;ll need to dust it with plain cornstarch to keep it soft and supple.</p>
<p>Although a penis extension covers the top of the penis, it does not completely prevent semen from spilling into the <a title="10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-vaginas/">vagina</a>. It is not designed for safe sex &#8211; so it won&#8217;t protect you or your partner from pregnancy or any kind of sexually transmitted diseases. If you are in a monogamous relationship with someone and you are both STD free, a condom may not be necessary for you when wearing a penis extension if you are either using birth control methods or are planning a pregnancy. However, if you wish to practice safe sex, you&#8217;ll want to wear a condom underneath the penis extension to be sure you&#8217;re protecting against unwanted pregnancies and STD&#8217;s.</p>
<p>A penis extension can be a lot of fun to experiment with if you&#8217;re looking for something a little different in the bedroom. It&#8217;s not a replacement for intimate, natural sex with your lover, but it can definitely add some spice in situations that are lacking it!</p>
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		<title>3 Must Have Sex Toys For Erectile Dysfunction!</title>
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<h3>A Cock Ring</h3>
<p>A <a title="Sex Toys: What Is Your Favorite Cock Ring? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-what-is-your-favorite-cock-ring-video/">cock ring</a> is an absolute must have sex toy if you experience erectile dysfunction at all. You definitely want one if ED is something you struggle with often, but don&#8217;t be afraid to get your hands on a decent cock ring even if you&#8217;ve only had one or two fluke ED episodes. You want to have it on hand in case you&#8217;re with a girl and it happens again, but you really don&#8217;t want to make a big deal about it. If you have a cock ring, you can put it on before your erection goes away and it will keep the blood trapped in the penis and keep it erect.</p>
<p>Soft jelly cock rings are most likely your best bet, because the metal ones can be difficult to get off. If your penis swells up when you have a metal cock ring on, you may not be able to get it off &#8211; and you&#8217;d have to go to the emergency room! You can also use a vibrating cock ring if your partner has trouble reaching <a title="How To Give Her Mind Numbing, Leg Shaking Orgasms – The Female Orgasm Black Book Review" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/female-orgasm-black-book-review/">orgasm</a> through sexual intercourse alone.</p>
<h3>A Penis Pump</h3>
<p>If you have trouble getting an erection at all, a penis pump is going to be your best friend. A good penis pump will help pump the blood into your penis, making it erect. However, you will want to use a penis pump in conjunction with a cock ring, or the blood will just flow back out of the penis. Once you&#8217;ve used the pump, slip the cock ring on and it will keep your erection in place!</p>
<p>Never, ever use a vacuum cleaner as a <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">penis pump</a>! You could seriously hurt yourself this way. Always use a penis pump that has been manufactured with quality materials by a reputable company. If there is too much suction (like with a vacuum cleaner) you could cause the small blood vessels in the penis to break, causing bruising. This can be painful! Stick to making your purchase from a reputable company that has great feedback.</p>
<h3>A Prostate Massager</h3>
<p>Guys that don&#8217;t like anal play might freak out a little bit here, but try &#8211; just try &#8211; to keep an open mind. If erectile dysfunction really causes problems in your life and in your relationships, you might be a little more willing to try <a title="The Male G-Spot: How To Find And Stimulate The Prostate Gland (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/anal-sex-videos-tips/the-male-g-spot-how-to-find-and-stimulate-the-prostate-gland-video/">prostate massage</a>. Some people refer to the prostate as the &#8220;male g-spot&#8221; and for good reason &#8211; this gland, when stimulated, can turn a man on, give him a rock hard erection and give him an orgasm in very quick succession. If you&#8217;ve never tried prostate stimulation but continue to struggle with ED, you may want to give it a go.</p>
<p>When selecting any anal toy, you want to start small and work your way up. You don&#8217;t want to grab the largest thing you see thinking that bigger is better &#8211; because when it comes to any type of <a title="Why Anal Sex Can Hurt" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/anal-sex-videos-tips/why-anal-sex-can-hurt/">anal sex</a>, bigger is definitely NOT always better. A teeny tiny butt plug can actually do the job pretty well, and it&#8217;s a perfect way to get started.</p>
<p>As you become more experienced with prostate stimulation, you can graduate to larger toys &#8211; but you can stay small if you want to. The idea here is to use prostate stimulation as a way to achieve and maintain an erection, so go with what does the job the best. And of course, remember to use lube! You never, ever want to try to insert an anal toy (no matter how small it is) without adequate lube. At best it just won&#8217;t go in and at worst it will be very, very painful!</p>
<h3>When To See The Doctor</h3>
<p>If you&#8217;ve tried <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">sex toys</a> for erectile dysfunction and still struggle with it, it may be time to make an appointment with your doctor. ED can also be treated with medications and other types of therapy, and your doctor is the best person to recommend what is right for you. Talk with your doctor about possible underlying causes and what your options are!</p>
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		<title>6 Ways To Make Male Masturbation Better Than Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="Masturbation – 3 Ways To Make It Feel More Like A Vagina (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/masturbation-3-ways-to-make-it-feel-more-like-a-vagina-video/">Male masturbation</a> can be even better than sex if you do it right. Most guys just take a few minutes out of their day to polish one off, but if you embrace it and enjoy it rather than just try to get it over with, you can give yourself an orgasm that is out of this world. Here&#8217;s how to make male masturbation absolutely incredible!</p>
<h3>Use Lube!</h3>
<p>While male masturbation can be achieved without <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lube</a>, it&#8217;s definitely not the best way to do it. Unfortunately, this is how most guys masturbate. Since they were young, they learned to do it quickly and without using any props that might possibly give them away or be difficult to hide if they got caught. It&#8217;s time to shed this learned behavior and start enjoying yourself!</p>
<p>Lube will intensify the sensations you experience during masturbation and make it feel more like sex. Without lube, there is a great deal more friction and the sensations aren&#8217;t as pleasurable. An uncircumcised male may notice this less than a circumcised male because they can glide their foreskin up and down the shaft of their penis. Some circumcised men do have enough skin left over after the surgery to do this to an extent, however, the skin is often stretched tight over a circumcised penis. A circumcised man will definitely want to use lube, since they can&#8217;t!</p>
<h3>Try A Masturbation Sleeve</h3>
<p>Male masturbation is easy with your hand, but it&#8217;s a lot better with a masturbation sleeve. A masturbation sleeve is a soft, jelly like <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">sex toy</a> that you slip over the penis and use as a &#8220;stroker.&#8221; They can be made out of a variety of materials, including silicone, Cyberskin and jelly materials, and many of them are textured to feel even better than a real vagina.</p>
<p>With a generous dollop of lube inside the sleeve, you can transform boring masturbation into something that feels totally different &#8211; and better &#8211; than anything you&#8217;ve ever felt before. Experiment with different types of masturbation sleeves to find the best fit for you.</p>
<h3>Watch Porn &#8211; The Kind You REALLY Like</h3>
<p>Almost all guys watch <a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/porn-adult-movies-erotica/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">porn</a> &#8211; that&#8217;s a given. However, there are many men who don&#8217;t watch the porn they <em>really </em>like. They may have a secret fetish that they&#8217;re embarrassed about, or they may get turned on by things that are considered shameful by many social circles. Therefore, these men don&#8217;t watch the porn that would really turn them on &#8211; instead, they watch something &#8220;conventional&#8221; that will get the job done, but nothing more.</p>
<p>If this is you, stop watching mediocre porn and find the stuff that <em>really </em>does it for you. Don&#8217;t be embarrassed to watch something that isn&#8217;t &#8220;traditional.&#8221; There are hundreds of different types of interests when it comes to the adult film industry, and you&#8217;re not alone. There are a lot of strange things out there, but if what gets you off doesn&#8217;t hurt anyone, there&#8217;s really nothing wrong with enjoying what you like. Since men are entirely visual creatures when it comes to sex, watching what really gets you hot has the power to increase your pleasure significantly.</p>
<h3>Use A Warm Towel</h3>
<p>Temperature has a lot to do with how good sex feels. For example, a real vagina is always warm and wet. So why not make male masturbation as warm and wet as you can? If you&#8217;ve got a bottle of lube handy, you&#8217;ve got the wet part covered. You can make it warm by throwing a damp towel in the microwave for a few seconds, but be careful not to get it too hot. It does, however, cool down quickly so it may take a few tries to get it just the right temperature.</p>
<p>Wrap the warm, damp towel around your <a title="10 Things You Didn’t Know About Penises" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-penises/">penis</a> (which, at this point, should have a lubed up masturbation sleeve on it) and then cover the damp towel with a dry one. You can also warm up the dry one in your clothes dryer if you like.</p>
<h3>Go Slow And Take Your Time</h3>
<p>For the same reason that men don&#8217;t often use lube during male masturbation, they also don&#8217;t take their time when they&#8217;re doing it. It&#8217;s just not how they learned to masturbate. They learned to do it quickly, before anyone could catch them. Make male masturbation feel more like real <a title="6 Types Of Sex You Need To Try – Tonight!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/6-types-of-sex-you-need-to-try-tonight/">sex</a> by planning to do it at a time when you are completely alone and you can lock your doors and turn off your phone.</p>
<p>Take your time to enjoy each phase of the process, from arousal to orgasm. Don&#8217;t rush through it &#8211; you&#8217;ll notice that the longer you spend pleasuring yourself, the better it will feel!</p>
<h3>Let Your Orgasm Build</h3>
<p>Don&#8217;t think that <a title="How To Enhance Your Orgasm – For Men" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/how-to-enhance-your-orgasm-for-men/">orgasm</a> is where you need to be as soon as possible. When you&#8217;re having sex, you relish every feeling and sensation, making it last as long as you can. You also try your best to hold out on your own orgasm so your partner can have one or two of her own. Don&#8217;t think that this is something that you can only do during sex &#8211; you can also do it during male masturbation.</p>
<p>When you feel like you&#8217;re close to orgasm, back off a little. Stroke yourself in a different way or back off completely. Wait a few minutes before going back to it. This will not only train you to delay your orgasm so you can have more stamina during sex, it will also make masturbation absolutely explosive when you finally can&#8217;t hold out anymore!</p>
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		<title>Do Penis Pumps Really Work?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 15:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan and Jennifer</dc:creator>
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<h3>What Is A Penis Pump?</h3>
<p>A penis pump is usually a plastic type, hollow cylinder that is fitted over the penis that has either a manual or motorized pump to put suction on the penis. When the pump creates a vacuum around the penis, it pulls blood into the shaft and head of the penis, making it erect and engorged with blood. Most men choose to use a cock ring in addition to a penis pump so the blood doesn&#8217;t go back into the body after being pumped into the penis. A <a title="Sex Toys: What Is Your Favorite Cock Ring? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-what-is-your-favorite-cock-ring-video/">cock ring</a> fits snugly around the base of the shaft to keep blood inside the penis after pumping and to keep it erect</p>
<h3>Are Penis Pumps Dangerous?</h3>
<p>Most sex toys aren&#8217;t at all dangerous, but if used incorrectly, some of them can be. Penis pumps definitely fall into that category and if you have a penis pump, you really want to use it responsibly to keep from doing damage to yourself. For example, very hard or extreme suction of the shaft and head can cause things like:</p>
<ul>
<li>Blisters</li>
<li>Bruising</li>
<li>Broken blood vessels</li>
</ul>
<p>You can avoid these unwanted side effects by reading the manufacturer&#8217;s instructions on your <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">penis pump</a> thoroughly and following the instructions for use exactly. Not every penis pump is the same, so don&#8217;t assume that because you know how to use one, you know how to use them all.</p>
<h3>How To Be Safe When Using A Penis Pump</h3>
<p>Penis pumps can be a great way to make your penis, bigger, stronger and harder but you definitely don&#8217;t want any broken blood vessels or blisters from using it. So, there are lots of ways you can make sure you are using your penis pump safely and effectively.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong><em>Don&#8217;t use for extended periods of time</em></strong>. You&#8217;ve heard the warnings on <a title="Viagra 101 – Blue Pill Myths and Facts" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/viagra-101-blue-pill-myths-and-facts/">Viagra</a> commercials &#8211; if you experience an erection for longer than 4 hours, seek medical attention immediately. The same goes for penis pumps. A man&#8217;s body isn&#8217;t designed to maintain an erection for that long. Don&#8217;t use your penis pump longer than necessary.</li>
<li><strong><em>If it hurts, stop</em></strong>. Just like with anything during sex, if you&#8217;re feeling discomfort or pain, it&#8217;s your body signaling you to stop and that what you&#8217;re doing is damaging your body. It&#8217;s common sense &#8211; if you feel pain, it&#8217;s a signal to stop immediately.</li>
<li><strong><em>Never use an actual vacuum as a penis pump</em></strong>. The suction on a vacuum is way too harsh and WILL cause broken blood vessels and bruising which could require an expensive trip to the emergency room.</li>
<li><strong><em>Learn how to use the valve release</em></strong>. Almost all penis pumps have an valve release that you can use which will release the pressure on the penis. If the product you&#8217;re looking at doesn&#8217;t have this feature, you need to be looking at a different product! Learn how to use the release so that you can take the pump off immediately if you begin to feel pain, discomfort or experience blisters or bruising with your <a title="Q&amp;A: Losing Erection When Masturbating: Is That Normal? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/qa-losing-erection-when-masturbating-video/">erection</a>.</li>
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<h3>So Do Penis Pumps Actually Work?</h3>
<p>The short answer to this question is yes, a penis pump can actually work, depending on what you&#8217;re using it for. If you&#8217;re expecting to gain 4&#8243; of penis size when you use it, you&#8217;re probably going to be disappointed. But if you experience problems with impotency and <a title="Fixing Erectile Dysfunction: What Works And What Doesn’t" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/fixing-erectile-dysfunction-what-works-and-what-doesnt/">erectile dysfunction</a>, a penis pump can help you achieve and maintain a good erection and enable to you to have more satisfying sex with your partner.</p>
<p>Remember that any erection you get after using a penis pump isn&#8217;t going to be there for long if you don&#8217;t use a cock ring as well. A cock ring is designed to keep the blood in the penis after pumping, instead of allowing it to flow back into the body and leave the penis flaccid.</p>
<h3>What Penis Pumps Can Be Used For</h3>
<p>Penis pumps can be used to effectively treat erectile dysfunction, and they can also be used to treat <a title="Stop Letting Erectile Dysfunction Get You Down" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/stop-letting-erectile-dysfunction-get-you-down/">Peyronie&#8217;s Disease</a> (when the penis is severely curved or bent). While you probably don&#8217;t want to expect miracles when it comes to using a penis pump, the vacuum suction created by one is definitely enough to make a difference when treating impotency and a bent or curved penis. Of course, you definitely want to see your doctor first before using a penis pump for either of these conditions &#8211; he or she can recommend the best treatment options for you, which may or may not include the use of a pump.</p>
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		<title>7 Sultry Things That Make His Toes Curl</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2011 16:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="7 Unforgettable Sex Tips" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/7-unforgettable-sex-tips/">Sex</a> ruts are easy to get into when you&#8217;re in a relationship &#8211; but they&#8217;re not so easy to get out of. Without bringing some new moves to the bedroom, your man starts knowing what to expect &#8211; which can be a huge turn off for guys that like to mix it up. Make sex an incredibly new and wonderful experience for your man by surprising him with these sex tips that will blow his mind and leave him gasping for breath.</p>
<h3>Suck On A Popsicle &#8211; And Then Suck On Him</h3>
<p>Make <a title="Why Men Love Oral Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/oral-sex-videos-tips/why-men-love-oral-sex/">oral sex</a> super cool when the weather is hot by alternating sucking on a Popsicle and sucking on your partner&#8217;s penis. This is a great way to experiment with cold temperatures without scaring him off &#8211; let&#8217;s face it, a guy isn&#8217;t going to want you to do nothing but rub ice all over his penis. That&#8217;s just too dang cold!</p>
<p>When you suck on the Popsicle, it cools your mouth down quite a bit, but not so much that it is going to be painful for him. As you continue to lick and suck on his member, your mouth heats back up and the process is repeated. He&#8217;ll love the feeling of alternating hot and cold, and you&#8217;ll love the idea of oral sex being a little bit more fun (and tastier) for you.</p>
<h3>Give Him A Handjob With A Masturbator</h3>
<p>Most guys don&#8217;t use <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">male sex toys</a> when they&#8217;re masturbating &#8211; they simply just use some lube and their hands. A lot of guys don&#8217;t even use lube! Show your man the difference that a sex toy can make when you&#8217;re flying solo by introducing it to him during a handjob given by you.</p>
<p>Put some lube on the inside of a masturbation sleeve of your choice and slowly slip it over his member after you&#8217;ve gotten him nice and warmed up with your hands. At this point, he&#8217;s not going to ask you to stop and he&#8217;ll get to experiment with the feeling of a <a title="Advanced Masturbation Techniques – Using Sex Toys (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/advanced-masturbation-techniques-using-sex-toys-video/">masturbation</a> sleeve even if he&#8217;s been a little apprehensive about doing it in the past. He&#8217;ll be amazed at the difference in the way it feels!</p>
<h3>Let Him Videotape Or Take Pictures Of You</h3>
<p>Since guys are such visual creatures, they usually need something like pictures or a video to help them get off, unless you&#8217;re there in the flesh of course. If you&#8217;re confident that you&#8217;re in a relationship with a guy you can trust with something like this, surprise him by allowing him to take a few pictures or even a video of you while having sex or while you&#8217;re masturbating. It&#8217;s almost guaranteed that a video or pictures of you will be more cherished than any <a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/porn-adult-movies-erotica/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">porn</a> he&#8217;s ever downloaded.</p>
<h3>Give Anal Sex A Try</h3>
<p>Your man might not have ever asked you for <a title="Q&amp;A: Anal Sex – How To Keep It Clean And Safe (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/anal-sex-videos-tips/qa-anal-sex-how-to-keep-it-clean-and-safe-video/">anal sex</a> (because he&#8217;s afraid it will hurt you or he doesn&#8217;t want to offend you) but it&#8217;s almost a sure thing that he&#8217;s thought of doing it with you before. Treat him to something special by letting him know one night that he can try it up your rear if he&#8217;d like, but make sure you practice on your own at first.</p>
<p>Buy a small butt plug or just use your fingers (along with plenty of lube) and try inserting them into your anus the next time you&#8217;re masturbating. It will be uncomfortable at first, but much easier than if you just let your man try it without ever having prepped yourself.</p>
<p>Next, move up in size until you&#8217;re comfortable with inserting something into your anus that is about as thick as your man is. When you actually do let him do it, he&#8217;ll be so surprised at the fact that you can take his penis &#8211; because he&#8217;ll be expecting you to freak out.</p>
<h3>Leave Him A Sexy Voicemail While He&#8217;s At Work</h3>
<p>The sound of your voice &#8211; especially during <a title="7 “Innocent” Words That Turn Women On" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/seduction-videos-tips/sex-tips-7-innocent-words-that-turn-women-on/">dirty talk</a> &#8211; can do wonders for him. Take advantage of this fact and leave him a dirty voicemail on his cell phone while he&#8217;s at work. Plan to tell him what you want to do to him when he gets home, or what you want him to do to you. Of course, you can also do a combination of both!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re shy, write it down first so you know what you&#8217;re saying and you don&#8217;t choke on your words &#8211; which is easy to do once you know you&#8217;re being recorded. After listening to the message, your man won&#8217;t be able to wait to get home and have sex with you. He may have to arrange to leave work early!</p>
<h3>Use The Cowgirl Sex Position (With A Twist)</h3>
<p>The &#8220;Cowgirl&#8221; <a title="The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/best-sex-positions/the-best-sex-positions-to-make-a-woman-orgasm-quicker/">sex position</a> is pretty much just the woman on top position, but with a twist. In the real Cowgirl position, you&#8217;re going to sit up instead of laying your torso down onto his. Then, you&#8217;re going to take it a step further and lean back, placing your hands behind you on the bed (or whatever surface you&#8217;ve chosen for your tryst). This will give him the most incredible view of you and him having sex that he&#8217;s ever had. In fact, you may want to wait to let him do the videotaping until you try this!</p>
<h3>Practice Your Kegels</h3>
<p>You&#8217;ve probably heard of <a title="How To Tighten Your Vaginal Muscles And Have Sex Just Like The First Time!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/how-to-tighten-your-vaginal-muscles-and-have-sex-just-like-the-first-time/">Kegel exercises</a> &#8211; where you squeeze your vaginal muscles like you&#8217;re stopping the flow of urine. These muscles can actually become very strong if you exercise them regularly. Squeezing them during sex can give your man divine waves of pleasure, but not if your muscles aren&#8217;t strong enough to actually give him a good squeeze.</p>
<p>Practice your Kegels while he&#8217;s not around, or get a pair of Ben Wa balls that will help you exercise your vagina while you go on about your busy day. When you feel that you&#8217;re vaginal muscles are comparable to the female Hulk&#8217;s, try them out next time you and your partner have sex. Give him a squeeze as he&#8217;s pulling out and watch as he gasps and begs for more.</p>
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		<title>How To Enhance Your Orgasm &#8211; For Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 14:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An <a title="3 Sex Tips To Give A Woman An Orgasm Without Using Your Hands!" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/3-sextips-to-give-a-woman-an-orgasm-without-using-your-hands/">orgasm</a> for men &#8211; when they&#8217;re by themselves &#8211; is often just a &#8220;get it done&#8221; kind of thing. Guys are used to masturbating quickly, usually because they either grew up afraid to get caught or are still afraid to get caught &#8211; and for many guys, it&#8217;s a combination of both. Masturbation is a healthy part of any man&#8217;s sex life, so here&#8217;s how you can make your masturbation sessions so much more satisfying.</p>
<h3>Use Lube During Masturbation</h3>
<p>As much as this sounds like common sense, there are actually a lot of guys who just don&#8217;t use <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lube</a> during masturbation. They often use nothing, or they&#8217;ll use some kind of lotion or petroleum jelly. These just aren&#8217;t suitable for masturbation. They dry out too quickly and can cause allergic reactions and rashes on the sensitive skin of the penis. Lube is specifically developed to be used during sex (and this includes when you go solo) so it feels better and will help give you an incredible orgasm.</p>
<p>Water based lube is always a good choice, but silicone based lube is also effective for masturbation because it&#8217;s thicker and it lasts longer. Lube is cheap and is available almost anywhere, including your local supermarket or drugstore. Many lubes are now created with special ingredients to either warm the penis or prolong an erection. Experiment with different lubes until you find the one that is best for you!</p>
<h3>Consider Using Male Sex Toys</h3>
<p>A lot of guys assume that <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">sex toys</a> are just for women to use &#8211; but there are actually a lot of fun toys for guys to use too! Masturbation sleeves can make a huge difference in how great your orgasm is. When used with lube, the simple silicone sleeve can make masturbation (and even a handjob from your lady) feel absolutely divine. Many masturbation sleeves come with ribbed or studded interiors, making the experience that much more pleasurable!</p>
<p>There are other <a title="Male Sex Toys: Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-boys-male-masturbators-penis-pumps-masturbation-video/">male sex toys</a>, including cock rings (which trap the blood inside the penis after an erection and make it last longer and stay harder) as well as butt plugs and prostate massagers. Next time you make a trip to the adult toy store &#8211; or if you&#8217;re browsing online &#8211; take a look and see what they have to offer for you &#8211; not just your woman!</p>
<h3>Don&#8217;t Rush It</h3>
<p>Since most guys grew up with the fear of getting caught spanking the monkey, they view <a title="Advanced Masturbation Techniques – Using Sex Toys (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/advanced-masturbation-techniques-using-sex-toys-video/">masturbation</a> as a &#8220;get it done quick&#8221; ritual. In fact, most men only need minutes to achieve orgasm when they&#8217;re stroking themselves. While an orgasm during a quickie masturbation session is certainly satisfactory, it definitely isn&#8217;t what you would consider &#8220;amazing&#8221; or even &#8220;okay.&#8221; It simply does the job.</p>
<p>If you want to make your orgasm better, take your time. Plan to masturbate during a time where you are home alone for significant period of time. Lock the doors, close the curtains and take a few deep breaths. Look at some erotica to start getting yourself aroused and then take your time with it. Don&#8217;t rush it &#8211; if you get close to orgasm, stop stimulating yourself. Pick it back up again after you&#8217;ve backed away from the brink of <a title="How To Delay Your Own Orgasm" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/erectile-dysfunction-last-longer-in-bed/how-to-delay-your-own-orgasm/">climax</a> a little bit. Once you do this several times, you finally won&#8217;t be able to help going over the edge &#8211; but by this time, your pleasure will be so built up that the final release is nothing short of incredible.</p>
<h3>Watch Porn &#8211; Good Porn</h3>
<p><a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/porn-adult-movies-erotica/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">Porn</a> is something almost every guy watches, and if he says he doesn&#8217;t, there&#8217;s an excellent chance that he&#8217;s lying. There&#8217;s nothing wrong with watching porn &#8211; men are visual creatures and have a difficult time becoming aroused and reaching orgasm if there isn&#8217;t any visual stimulation. So it makes sense that men watch adult movies when getting off, but surprisingly, a lot of men aren&#8217;t watching what <em>really </em>turns them on. Why?</p>
<p>Price could be a factor. DVD&#8217;s and subscriptions to adult websites can be expensive. Also, a guy may have a secret fetish that he&#8217;s just not willing to admit he has (even to himself) so he just makes do with whatever free porn he can find on the  Internet. If you&#8217;re not watching the porn you <em>really </em>want to be watching, just get what you want and get on with it. Even if it means shelling out a few extra bucks. The increase in the pleasure of your orgasm will be well worth it.</p>
<h3>Try Prostate Massage</h3>
<p>If you&#8217;re really freaked out by the idea of anal play (on yourself), then skip this part entirely. But if the idea intrigues you and you just haven&#8217;t had the balls to do it yet, read on. The prostate is often considered the male &#8220;g-spot&#8221; and can provide a man with intense pleasure when it is simulated, especially in conjunction with sexual activity. Some men have experienced <a title="The Male G-Spot: How To Find And Stimulate The Prostate Gland (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/anal-sex-videos-tips/the-male-g-spot-how-to-find-and-stimulate-the-prostate-gland-video/">prostate massage</a> with their partners, but have never tried it on themselves during masturbation.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re open to the idea, purchase a small butt plug to start. You can also use a finger on the hand that you&#8217;re not using to stroke your penis. Make sure you have lots of good lube on hand, because anal play can really hurt without proper lubrication. To find your prostate on yourself, you will need to use the &#8220;come hither&#8221; motion (if you&#8217;re using your fingers) and move toward your stomach. This usually involves reaching down in between your legs rather than trying to reach around from behind. Go slow and work your way up in size if you&#8217;re using sex toys. Remember that if it ever hurts, stop! However, with practice, prostate massage can give you the kind of orgasms you never dreamed you&#8217;d have.</p>
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		<title>Christian Sex Toys – WTF?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 14:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people think <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">sex toys</a> are &#8220;dirty&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; and Christians shouldn&#8217;t use them. But there is actually nothing in the Bible says that married couples can&#8217;t enjoy sex with lubes, massage oils and even sex toys. The problem that most religious people have with shopping for sex toys in a traditional adult store is having to deal with all of the brazenly &#8220;adult&#8221; products, pictures and <a title="Adult Movies: Pick Your Pleasure – Porn And Beyond (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/adult-movies-pick-your-pleasure-porn-and-beyond-video/">porn</a> DVD&#8217;s. Is there a way that people of faith can enjoy sex more with their spouses without immersing themselves in the adult entertainment industry?</p>

<h3>Thou Shalt Not Use Sex Toys?</h3>
<p>While many Christians and other religions believe that sex toys and <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lube</a> are &#8220;dirty&#8221; or &#8220;wrong,&#8221; there is actually nothing in the Bible that suggests that married couples who are using sex toys together are doing anything wrong! There is nothing that says, &#8220;Thou shalt not use sex toys,&#8221; so the myth that Christians can&#8217;t enjoy these additions to their bedroom repertoire is just that &#8211; a myth.</p>
<p>More and more Christian sex toy stores are popping up all over the Internet (and some are even actual brick and concrete stores) that cater specifically to religious couples. Book 22 is a website that offers &#8220;intimacy products for married couples,&#8221; and The Pure Bed is an online &#8220;married couples intimacy store.&#8221; Those are just a few of these types of stores that are becoming available to this niche &#8211; a quick Internet search will reveal dozens of stores that offer similar products for Christians.</p>
<h3>The Benefit Of Sex Toy Stores For Christians</h3>
<p>Lots of religious married couples are interested in purchasing &#8220;marital aids&#8221; or &#8220;intimacy products&#8221; for the bedroom, but don&#8217;t want to be assaulted by the sights, sounds and smells of a traditional sex toy store. Most traditional stores like this feature nudity on posters and pictures, as well as on the DVD&#8217;s that usually line the walls. Some stores even play samples of their video products on a television in-store! While many people don&#8217;t mind seeing men and women in various compromising <a title="The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/the-best-sex-positions-to-make-a-woman-orgasm-quicker/">sex positions</a>, this can be particularly uncomfortable for couples of faith who are simply looking for lube, massage oils, condoms or even just sensual lingerie.</p>
<p>Many Christians enjoy purchasing from these types of establishments because they can usually shop from the comfort of their own home, without putting their sexual desires on display for others to see. The products are shipped in discreet packaging and only the man and woman who are using the sex toys will know what was purchased and from where. Making Christians feel safe when shopping for intimacy products is the goal of most of these stores.</p>
<h3>What You WILL Find In A Christian Sex Toy Store</h3>
<p>If you&#8217;re thinking about purchasing sex toys from a Christian based outlet, you&#8217;ll find a lot of great items that are intimate and affordable without being crass or objectionable to religious consumers. You might find things like:</p>
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<li>Lubes and flavored lubes</li>
<li><a title="Sex Toys 101 – Vibrators Unleashed! (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-101-vibrators-unleashed-video/">Vibrators</a> (bullet and torpedo style vibrators are common, while dildos and penis shaped vibrators are usually not offered)</li>
<li>Massage oils</li>
<li>Intimate, sensual lingerie</li>
<li>Sex games</li>
<li>Condoms</li>
<li>Feather ticklers</li>
</ul>
<h3>What You WON&#8217;T Find In A Christian Sex Toy Store</h3>
<p>While you will usually find the &#8220;tame&#8221; stuff at a store that caters to people of faith, don&#8217;t expect to find any of these items unless you&#8217;re looking in a traditional adult entertainment store:</p>
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<li><a title="Why Anal Sex Can Hurt" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/why-anal-sex-can-hurt-ffo/">Anal sex</a> products of any kind</li>
<li>Pornography</li>
<li>BDSM products</li>
<li>Gay or lesbian products</li>
</ul>
<p>Most Christians believe that sodomy is wrong based on biblical texts, so the sex toy stores that cater to this niche aren&#8217;t going to offer any type of anal beads, butt plugs or any type of anal sex product. The same goes for gay and lesbian products, since a large percentage of Christian couples believe that homosexuality is prohibited. Pornography usually isn&#8217;t available because most pornography features non-married sex, as well as activities such as anal sex that are objectionable.</p>
<h3>Have Respect</h3>
<p>In today&#8217;s society, everyone comes from a different walk of life. Each person has different beliefs and values, and it&#8217;s important to respect the beliefs and values of others while staying true to your own. Remember that trying to shove <em>your </em>personal beliefs down someone else&#8217;s throat is only going to end badly. Do what you&#8217;re comfortable doing and allow others do what they&#8217;re comfortable doing. Each person must decide for themselves what is okay for them and what isn&#8217;t, and this is part of what Christian sex toy stores are all about &#8211; allowing people to shop for what they want in an environment that feels comfortable and safe!</p>
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		<title>The Male G-Spot: How To Find And Stimulate The Prostate Gland</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Believe it or not, men have a sort of "g-spot" too, and when stimulated, it can bring him explosive, amazing orgasms - we're talking the kind he's never had before. Here's how to find and stimulate your partner's prostate gland and have him writhing in carnal pleasure!<h3>Related Posts</h3>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe it or not, men have a sort of &#8220;<a title="How You Can Finally Spot The G-Spot" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-you-can-finally-spot-the-g-spot/">g-spot</a>&#8221; too, and when stimulated, it can bring him explosive, amazing orgasms &#8211; we&#8217;re talking the kind he&#8217;s never had before. The male g-spot is called the prostate gland and it&#8217;s not at all difficult to find and stimulate. When you do, he&#8217;ll beg you for more! There are a few things to keep in mind before you stimulate his prostate gland and when you do, such as making sure he&#8217;s into it first (it <em>is </em>easiest to stimulate from inside the anal cavity) and using a good lube. Here&#8217;s how to find and stimulate your partner&#8217;s <a title="The Truth About The Prostate Gland" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/the-truth-about-the-prostate-gland/">prostate gland</a> and have him writhing in carnal pleasure!</p>

<h3>The Male G-Spot Is His Prostate Gland</h3>
<p>The male g-spot is called the &#8220;<a title="Master His Secret Sex Zones – 6 Ways To Push His Pleasure Buttons" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/master-his-secret-sex-zones-6-ways-to-push-his-pleasure-buttons/">prostate gland</a>&#8221; and is located about 2 inches inside the anal cavity on the top. That means when you&#8217;re facing him, you can insert your finger, feel along the top wall of his anal cavity and you should feel a small, chestnut sized &#8220;bump&#8221; of flesh. This is the prostate gland. It is often best stimulated with a &#8220;come hither&#8221; motion if you&#8217;re using your finger, meaning that once you locate the prostate gland, move your finger in a motion as though you were telling someone to &#8220;come here.&#8221; You can also use side to side movements or simply place your finger on the prostate gland and apply firm pressure. Different guys like different things here, so make sure to experiment to find out what he likes best.</p>
<h3>Is He Interested In Prostate Play?</h3>
<p>Before you get super excited about giving him an amazing orgasm and slip your finger in his anus to stimulate his prostate gland, you need to make sure he&#8217;s into it first. This is not something you want to surprise him with, because a lot of guys are a little squeamish about their anuses. Some guys are a little homophobic and feel that any anal play (on him, not on you of course) is considered &#8220;gay&#8221; and if this is the case, he may want you to stay as far away from his backdoor as possible. You can also slowly introduce him to the idea of prostate stimulation without inserting anything into his anus by playing with his perineum during a <a title="Blowjobs 101: What Your Man Secretly Wishes You Knew About Oral Sex… Blow His Mind Tonight Book Review" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/blowjob-how-to-oral-sex-101-book-review/">blowjob</a>. The perineum is the skin in between his testicles and his anus, and it can be stimulated with firm, kneading pressure. This indirectly massages the prostate gland and will give him an idea of how pleasurable prostate stimulation can be, but it is nothing at all like direct prostate stimulation. If he seems to like it, inch your hand closer to his anus and see what he does. If he doesn&#8217;t seem uncomfortable, play with his anus a little as you&#8217;re applying lube to the opening. If at any point he stops you, prostate stimulation may not be for him.</p>
<h3>Stimulating The Prostate Gland With Sex Toys</h3>
<p>Many <a title="Sex Toys, Vibrators &amp; Dildos: Videos, Reviews, Tips, &amp; Advice" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-toys-vibrators/">sex toys</a> are made specifically for prostate stimulation and can often be easier to use than your finger once you&#8217;ve located the prostate gland. Don&#8217;t try to use a sex toy the first time, because it will be more difficult to feel the prostate gland and know you&#8217;re in the right spot. Prostate massagers are often thin with a bulbous tip that is angled to properly reach the prostate gland. Other prostate sex toys include butt plugs &#8211; which range from large to very, very tiny &#8211; and <a title="Glass Sex Toys: Playing With Fire And Ice (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/glass-sex-toys-playing-with-fire-and-ice/">glass sex toys</a> or vibrators. Make sure that any <a title="Are Anal Sex Toys Safe? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/are-anal-sex-toys-safe-video/">anal sex toy</a> you use is made with a wide base or a ring at the end that will prevent the toy from slipping inside the anus and getting lost.</p>
<h3>Using The Right Lubricant</h3>
<p>Anal play is not to be had without a good sexual <a title="Sex Tip: Choosing The Best Lubricant For The Job (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-tip-choosing-the-best-lubricant-for-the-job/">lubricant</a> &#8211; and a lot of it! The anal cavity <em>does not </em>lubricate itself and as a result, anal sex without lube can be painful and may even cause some of the delicate tissues down there to tear and bleed. Not cool! You can make anal play and prostate massage more comfortable and pleasurable by applying a very <em>generous </em>amount of lube to the outside of the anus, your fingers and whatever sex toy you choose to use. Feel free to apply more lube as needed. If you are using a condom or latex glove of any kind, make sure to use only water based lube, because silicone lube will break down latex and cause <a title="Q&amp;A: Condoms – Magnum, Magnum XL, or XXL? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/qa-condoms-magnum-magnum-xl-or-xxl-video/">condoms</a> and gloves to become ineffective.</p>
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		<title>The Truth About The Prostate Gland</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaylen Jackson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may have heard of a prostate gland, a gland inside a man&#8217;s body that is capable of providing him with great pleasure when stimulated, also known as prostate massage or prostate milking. The prostate is hard to get to though &#8211; it can sometimes be lightly stimulated by a firm touch underneath a man&#8217;s scrotum but usually [...]<h3>Related Posts</h3>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may have heard of a <a title="Pleasing Your Partner With A Strap On" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/bondage-fetishes-fantasies/pleasing-your-partner-with-a-strap-on/">prostate gland</a>, a gland inside a man&#8217;s body that is capable of providing him with great pleasure when stimulated, also known as prostate massage or prostate milking. The prostate is hard to get to though &#8211; it can sometimes be lightly stimulated by a firm touch underneath a man&#8217;s scrotum but usually responds best when stimulated from inside the anus. Do men really like prostate stimulation?</p>
<h3>Men Who Love Prostate Stimulation</h3>
<p>Some men who enjoy having their prostate gland stimulated during <a title="Sex TIps And Advice" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-tips-advice/">sex</a> say, &#8220;Once you try it, you&#8217;ll never go back!&#8221; Initially, these men may have been a little nervous to try anal play but once they learned how pleasurable it was, it became one of their favorite things in the bedroom. Prostate massage can greatly enhance sexual pleasure and make orgasms more powerful and intense than through penile stimulation alone. Prostate milking can be done alone or in conjunction with oral sex or vaginal sex. Many women truly enjoy stimulating their partner&#8217;s prostate gland during sex and prostate massage can help to enhance a dull sex life.</p>
<h3>Men Who Hate Prostate Massage</h3>
<p>There are some men who have tried <a title="What Is The REAL Truth About Anal Sex? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/what-is-the-real-truth-about-anal-sex-video/">prostate stimulation</a> and don&#8217;t like it, and many more men that refuse to try it because of the sensitivity of the anus. Some men find any type of anal stimulation uncomfortable or painful and some men simply don&#8217;t like the idea of it. With any type of anal play, you definitely take the chance that things will get dirty. Often, men feel embarrassed at the idea of messy anal stimulation and are too uncomfortable to have an enema beforehand. Some men who don&#8217;t like the idea of prostate massage can be introduced to it slowly, but many men who are uncomfortable with it are very unwilling to try any anal play at all. Never push the issue with your man &#8211; if he doesn&#8217;t want to do it, don&#8217;t force him and don&#8217;t continue to ask him about it. Some men just don&#8217;t like it and never will.</p>
<h3>How To Introduce It To Your Man</h3>
<p>The best way to introduce anal play and prostate stimulation to your partner is to do so very slowly. Talk to your partner first to find out if he is interested in prostate massage and would be willing to try it. If he&#8217;s apprehensive, ask him if there is anything you can do to make him more comfortable with the idea. Start small and work your way up, and don&#8217;t forget to use lots of water or silicone based lubricant. The anal sphincter does not lubricate itself, so you really can&#8217;t use enough lube. Never use a numbing lubricant, because it is important to stop immediately if your partner finds anything painful. You can start with a finger, or a very slim, small toy designed for prostate stimulation. Even small butt plugs may be pleasurable for your partner without causing too much pain or discomfort initially. Remember that any <a title="Are Anal Sex Toys Safe? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/are-anal-sex-toys-safe-video/">anal sex toy </a><em>must </em>have a wide base that will not allow it to go all the way in the anal cavity. Toys without a wide base designed for anal play can get lost inside the anal cavity and can cause much damage.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 14:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anal sex &#8211; it&#8217;s taboo and for a lot of people, it&#8217;s also sexy and fun. Anal play can involve penile penetration, rimming or penetration with various toys designed for anal sex. Like vaginal vibrators and dildos, they can add lots of fun and excitement to your sex life &#8211; but are <a title="What You Need To Know About Anal Sex Toys (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/what-you-need-to-know-about-anal-toys-video/">anal sex toys</a> safe? Is anal sex safe &#8211; period? How can you make anal sex safer?</p>

<h3>Making Anal Sex Safer</h3>
<p>The anus, unlike the vaginal canal, was not designed for sexual stimulation or penetration. That doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t do it, but it will take a lot more effort to make anal sex safer for both you and your partner. The most important thing to do when having anal sex is to start slowly! Communicate with your partner about how something feels and if something hurts or feels uncomfortable, you definitely want to say something. Don&#8217;t keep doing it if it hurts! You could definitely tear something. You also want to make sure that you&#8217;re using lots of good, water based lubricant &#8211; not the desensitizing kind &#8211; to make sure everything goes smoothly. When you&#8217;re finished with your <a title="What Is The REAL Truth About Anal Sex? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/what-is-the-real-truth-about-anal-sex-video/">anal play</a>, make sure you clean your toys and everything else that came into contact with your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water or special sanitizing sex toy cleaner.</p>
<h3>Safer Anal Sex Toys</h3>
<p>All anal sex toys should have a wide, flared base to prevent the toy from moving its way past your anus and into your intestines which can and will happen if you do not have a base on the end of the toy to keep it from doing so. When using anal sex toys, it&#8217;s important to start small and work your way up, as opposed to starting with a very large <a title="Is It Okay to Have Anal Sex Without Lube? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/is-it-okay-to-have-anal-sex-without-lube-video/">anal sex toy</a>. The anus can stretch to accomodate a variety of toy or penis sizes, but it is important that you don&#8217;t start large right away and give your anus time to stretch and become pliable or your anus or intestines may tear.</p>
<h3>What Do Anal-Only Toys Really Do?</h3>
<p>A butt plug is a popular anal toy, and it has a wide base and a narrow neck, with a wide angled &#8220;plug&#8221; at the top. It is designed to go in the anus and stay there during sex, thereby decreasing the size of a woman&#8217;s vagina and making sex pleasurable for both partners. Anal beads are another popular choice in anal toys, and the best choice would be ones that are completely plastic or silicone, without any cloth or real string parts. Cloth or string parts cannot be washed or sanitized thoroughly and can pose a danger to you and your partner&#8217;s health. <a title="Is Anal Sex Really Dangerous? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/is-anal-sex-really-dangerous-video/">Anal beads</a> come in a variety of colors and sizes, and some models will vibrate or rotate. Anal beads are designed to be pulled out slowly or quickly depending on your preference, and can simulate orgasmic muscle spasms or increase orgasmic intensity. Anal dildos or prostate massagers are designed for men to use, and can massage the prostate and greatly increase pleasure for a man during his orgasm. Men who have used prostate massagers and the like swear they have had the best orgasms of their lives that way.</p>
<p>While the anus wasn&#8217;t necessarily designed for anal sex, people can and will use the anus during sexual play and have been since the dawn of time. If you&#8217;re going to engage in anal sex play, take precautions to make anal sex safer for both you and your partner. Remember, if anything hurts or becomes uncomfortable, it&#8217;s time to stop!</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>On a similar note, some of our favorite things in the virtual &#8220;sex toy&#8221; drawer aren&#8217;t &#8220;toys&#8221; at all, but things like great lubes and flavored condoms that help make sex safer and more fun! Here are our favorites on condoms and lubes.</p>
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<blockquote><p>We recently did a video on <a title="Do You Know The 5 Most Popular Sex Toys? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/do-you-know-the-5-most-popular-sex-toys-vibrators-video/">the 5 most popular sex toys</a> and one in particular created lots of emails and questions &#8211; the &#8220;pink squishy&#8221;, a.k.a. the Super Head Honcho which is a male masturbator. So, we decided to do another video focused purely on the different types of male masturbators. Here are 5 of our favorites&#8230;</p></blockquote>

<h3>What Is A Male Masturbator?</h3>
<p>Male masturbators are simply a soft silicone sleeve that a man can slip over his penis (with lube) to provide extra sensations while masturbating.  Some men try to masturbate with their own self-made masturbators and <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">homemade sex toys</a>, and you&#8217;d be surprised at what kind of stuff around the house they use! Banana peels, toilet paper or paper towel rolls, pantyhose&#8230;the list goes on. If you masturbate <em>at all, </em>buying an inexpensive male masturbator is absolutely worth it. Home masturbators tend to be difficult to use and a definite waste of time. On to the top 5 male masturbators!</p>
<h3>The Tube Stroker</h3>
<p>The Tube Stroker is your most basic <a title="Do You Know The 5 Most Popular Sex Toys? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/do-you-know-the-5-most-popular-sex-toys-vibrators-video/">male sex toy</a>. It&#8217;s a simple, clear silicone sleeve with a hole in the middle for&#8230;well, you know. It&#8217;s fairly discreet &#8211; someone that looks at it without knowing what it is may not be able to guess what it&#8217;s used for. The Tube Stroker, however, has absolutely no grips on it whatsoever, so you may want to use something in between the stroker and your hand to provide you with some traction.</p>
<h3>The Super Head Honcho</h3>
<p>Also known as the &#8220;pink squishy,&#8221; the Super Head Honcho is one of the more popular male masturbators. It&#8217;s easy to use, and has good outer grips to make masturbation with the squishy easier. The Super Head Honcho also has inner suction cups to provide you with extra stimulation during <a title="Vibrators 101" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/vibrators-101/">masturbation</a>, allowing you to have a faster and more powerful orgasm. The Super Head Honcho is one of the easiest male masturbators to clean &#8211; because you do want to clean your masturbators after you use them &#8211; because it flips completely inside out so you can wash every inch of it.</p>
<h3>Eve&#8217;s Ruby Delight</h3>
<p>Eve&#8217;s Ruby Delight is another popular male masturbator, with a flamboyantly reddish pink color and a textured entry for extra sensations at the base of your penis. The best thing about this particular male masturbator is that it has &#8220;action grips.&#8221; Intense grips allow you to really hold on while you&#8217;re masturbating, and it definitely won&#8217;t slip away from you. The Ruby Delight also tends to be shorter than other male <a title="Sex Toys 101: How To Buy Your First Vibrator (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-101-how-to-buy-first-vibrator-video/">masturbation sex toys</a>, so if you&#8217;re very well endowed, you might find that it&#8217;s a little small for you.</p>
<h3>Katie Morgan Cyberskin</h3>
<p>For those who really want that &#8220;realistic vagina feel&#8221; with a male masturbator, the Katie Morgan Cyberskin is molded directly from, well, Katie Morgan. An incredibly realistic vagina (we suppose this is the part that looks exactly like Katie Morgan) adorns the entry point, and the inside is made of soft, sensual silicone. This larger male masturbator is great for the more well endowed men, but will work for almost any size penis. Unfortunately, it&#8217;s incredibly heavy and may make your arms and wrists tired during masturbation. If you don&#8217;t mind the weight though, and are really turned on by a more <a title="Sex Toys 101: How To Buy Your First Vibrator (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-101-how-to-buy-first-vibrator-video/">realistic masturbator</a>, the Katie Morgan Cyberskin might just be right up your alley.</p>
<h3>Super Cyber Snatch Pump</h3>
<p>This combinaton penis pump and masturbator sleeve gives you multiple sensations during masturbation whether you&#8217;re going solo or are with your partner. The pump function works to give you an incredible &#8220;suction&#8221; feeling, while the <a title="Sex Toys 101 – What They Are, Where To Get Them, and Why You Shouldn’t Share Them With Your Friends" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys/sex-toys-101/">masturbation sleeve</a> provides smooth and sensual friction. The Super Cyber Snatch Pump doesn&#8217;t have a good grip on it though, so you may find it slipping out of your grip when you&#8217;re all lubed up. This sex toy is also great for larger men &#8211; it&#8217;s a whopping 9 inches long! Be careful with this one though, because too much pressure and suction on your penis can cause blood vessels to break and can be very painful. If it hurts at all, stop!</p>
<p>Choosing a great male masturbator isn&#8217;t hard, or expensive and it&#8217;s way better than going the &#8220;do it yourself&#8221; route. Try a few of them by yourself or with your partner to find out which one you like best! Just don&#8217;t forget the lube!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 19:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan and Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve read about what we think are some of the greatest sex toys, lubes and condoms that are available on the market today, but we want to know what you think are the best sex toys around! Dan and I were sitting around talking the other day and wondering &#8220;what are the most popular sex [...]<h3>Related Posts</h3>
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<blockquote><p>Dan and I were sitting around talking the other day and wondering &#8220;what are the most popular sex toys?&#8221; Sure, we have our own personal favorites, but what does everyone else like? So we sent an email to our friends at Adam &amp; Eve and they sent us their 5 best selling sex toys so that we could see for ourselves (and share them with you). Watch this video for the results &#8211; I guarantee that <em>a few of them will surprise you</em>!</p></blockquote>

<h3>5. Super Head Honcho Masturbator</h3>
<p>The Super Head Honcho Masturbator is actually a <a title="Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">male sex toy (sex toy for boys)</a> &#8211; it&#8217;s a soft, pink, silicone sleeve that slips over the penis to provide super sensations for a man while he&#8217;s masturbating. Don&#8217;t worry &#8211; it can also be used with a partner too! The Super Head Honcho Masturbator has several suction chambers for a truly realistic feeling, and turns inside out for easy cleanup with soap and water.</p>
<h3>4. G-Gasm Delight G-Spot Vibrator</h3>
<p>The G-Gasm Delight G-Spot Vibrator is a slim, <a title="Sex Toys 101: Vibrators Unleashed! (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys-101-vibrators-unleashed-video/">easy to use vibrator</a> that is designed specifically for g-spot stimulation. You can also use it for clitoral stimulation, because the vibrating &#8220;egg&#8221; at the top of the wand works well for both types of pleasure. The G-Gasm Delight G-Spot Vibrator can be used by even the most novice sex toy users, including your partner on his search for the elusive g-spot.</p>
<h3>3. Eve&#8217;s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator</h3>
<p>The Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator is the perfect <a title="Sex Toys 101 - How To Buy Your First Vibrator" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-101-how-to-buy-first-vibrator-video/">introductory vibrator</a> for inexperienced users, and is also good for discreet travel or a simple, go-to vibrator that does the job. It&#8217;s just the right size for novice users and provides great vaginal and clitoral stimulation while still being easy to hold and soft but naughtily textured.</p>
<h3>2. Adam And Eve&#8217;s Clitoral Kisser</h3>
<p>The Clitoral Kisser might look a little strange at first, but the perfect clitoral suction it provides makes it an easy to use and devilishly <a title="Luxury Vibrators - The Best Sex Toys You'll Ever Own" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/luxury-vibrators-the-best-sex-toys-youll-ever-own-video/">pleasurable sex toy</a>. Great for both individual masturbation and use with a partner, the soft silicone tip gently cups and kisses your clitoris, providing waves of pleasure.</p>
<h3>1. Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator</h3>
<p>Coming in at the number one most popular sex toy is the Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator. This vibrator is available at a great price for people who have never used a rabbit vibrator before, but is also made with several features to please even the most discerning vibrator user. The Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator has moving pearls, a rotating shaft, a perfectly angled g-spot tip for intense g-spot pleasure, and adorable rabbit ears for naughty clitoral stimulation. This very well may be the most popular sex toy on the market today for women who want to experience multiple types of pleasure at the same time. Don&#8217;t limit yourself to simply using it by yourself &#8211; use it with your partner to show him how you like to be pleasured!</p>
<p>There are dozens and even hundreds of different types of sex toys available, whether you&#8217;re a novice or experienced sex toy user. <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-toys-vibrators/"><strong>Try a few of the toys for yourself</strong></a> and find out what your favorite is!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 14:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>And with <a title="How To Get Your Girlfriend To Masturbate For You" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/how-to-get-your-girlfriend-to-masturbate-for-you/">masturbation</a> &#8211; especially <a title="Top 10 Female Masturbation Tips" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/masturbation-how-to-masturbate/top-10-female-masturbation-tips/">female masturbation</a> (yes, it does happen) &#8211; being somewhat taboo in society today, a woman interested in pleasuring herself may have few options. Many women choose to masturbate with vibrators or dildos, and share their sex toys with their partners. Where can you get <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-toys-101-vibrators-unleashed-video/">vibrators or dildos</a>?</p>
<p>But if it&#8217;s your first time, what do you start with? What is the right vibrator for you?</p>
<blockquote><p>If you&#8217;ve been curious about vibrators, particularly about buying your first one, this is just the video for you. We&#8217;ll walk you through 5 simple steps for choosing the perfect vibrator for you. It&#8217;s easier than you&#8217;re thinking right now!</p></blockquote>

<h3>How You&#8217;re Going To Use Your Vibrator</h3>
<p>The first step is to decide how you&#8217;re going to use a prospective <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/homemade-sex-toys-should-you-really-make-your-own-video/">sex toy</a>. Do you want to use it by yourself? Do you want to use it with a partner, or both? Do you need a vibrator with tittillating action, or will a non-vibrating, standard dildo do for you? Do you want something just to massage your clitoris, or would you like to use it for insertion? Do you want a toy that does double &#8211; both massaging your clitoris and inserting and stimulating your g-spot at the same time? Deciding what the most important aspects of owning a vibrator are for you is a crucial first step in finding the right vibrator for you.</p>
<h3>What Material Do You Want Your Sex Toy Made Out Of?</h3>
<p>There are several different types of sex toy materials available on the market today &#8211; for example, one of the newer materials is called Cyberskin and is soft and squishy, with a very real skin-like sensation. This is a great material for a penis-shaped dildo, making it more realistic. You can also buy plastic, silicone or steel <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-101/">vibrators</a>, or go with softer silicone or even glass dildos or vibrators. Check out a sex toy website that will allow you to browse different materials available so you can find out what type of material intrigues you the most.</p>
<h3>What Size And Shape Should Your Sex Toy Be?</h3>
<p>Size and shape are very important when it comes to finding <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-for-boys-cock-ring/">the perfect sex toy or dildo</a> for yourself. Vibrators and dildos come in a complete variety of shapes and sizes. Do you want something small and discreet that will fit in your handbag? Or would you like a very large, very wide dildo that will bring you to the brink of the kind of pleasure you can withstand? Do you want something medium sized that will get the job done? Think about what you&#8217;re most comfortable with sexually so you can find the right size for you &#8211; it&#8217;s not a one size fits all sort of deal.</p>
<h3>Your Vibrator&#8217;s Power Source</h3>
<p>If you&#8217;ve decided to go with a vibrator and not a standard, non-vibrating dildo, you can run into the issues of recharging your vibrator or switching batteries. Both are good ways to charge your vibrator but both have their disadvantages. Running out of batteries (and often not having any more on hand) in the heat of the moment can be a huge disappointment, while having a cordless, <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/censorship-sexual-repression/sex-toys-let-adults-enjoy-the-right-to-buy-and-sell-them/">rechargable vibrator</a> can be quite expensive. Think about how convenient you want your vibrator to be by determining how often you think you&#8217;re going to use it.</p>
<h3>You Get What You Pay For</h3>
<p>If this is your first time vibrator or dildo, you might not be prepared to spend a hundred dollars or more on the hottest, most realistic vibrator on the market today. But you certainly are going to get what you pay for. That doesn&#8217;t mean there isn&#8217;t middle ground. Look for a <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/luxury-vibrators-the-best-sex-toys-youll-ever-own-video/">dildo or vibrator</a> that is in your price range, but the cheaper you go, the less features and power your new vibrator is going to have. You don&#8217;t have to spend a fortune, but for a good vibrator or dildo, you&#8217;re going to spend more than five bucks.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people like different forms of sex. New and <a title="5 Tips To Please Your Man In Bed" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/5-tips-to-please-your-man-in-bed/">exciting sexual encounters</a> help spice up the sex life, and if you&#8217;re into trying new things you might find a few that really turn you on and help make your orgasms explosive!</p>
<p>Both women and men can enjoy anal sex and if you&#8217;re a man who has a female partner but enjoys her using a strap on to <a title="Getting Anal Sex Right - The First Time (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/getting-anal-sex-right-the-first-time/">have anal sex with you</a>, you could be wondering if it makes you gay. It doesn&#8217;t!</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Dan and Jennifer,</p>
<p>I really like it when my wife does me with a strap-on (she likes it too). It feels really good &#8211; intense orgasms. I don&#8217;t think I am gay. I think I would rather kiss a monkey than kiss another guy.</p>
<p>1) I don&#8217;t feel gay, or bi, but I really like getting boned in the booty by my wife &#8211; does this make me a little girly man?</p>
<p>2) Am I really gay but somehow just don&#8217;t realize it? Is that even possible?</p>
<p>3) Any suggestions on how to make it feel even better?</p>
<p>&#8211;Stuart, Georgia</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Being gay involves more than anal sex</h3>
<p>Being homosexual involves a number of different hormonal and emotional issues &#8211; not just <a title="Is Anal Sex Really Dangerous? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/is-anal-sex-really-dangerous-video/">enjoying anal sex</a>. Homosexual men might fantasize about having sex with other men, or may be physically and emotionally attracted to men more than women.</p>
<p>Simply enjoying having anal sex <a title="Does Wanting to See My Wife Have Sex With Another Man Make Me Gay? (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/swingers-threesome/does-wanting-to-see-my-wife-have-sex-with-another-man-make-me-gay-video/">does not make you a homosexual</a>! Similarly, not all homosexual men enjoy anal sex. It is simply a matter of personal preference that is not at all grouped by age, race, sexual orientation or gender.</p>
<p>If you enjoy having your female partner perform anal sex on you with a strap on, and she enjoys it too, you are welcome to thoroughly enjoy your <a title="Sex &amp; Intimacy" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/">new sexual experiences</a> together! Don&#8217;t let anyone judge you based on what you and your partner enjoy in the bedroom. What you and her like is up to you and no one else has a say in it. As long as you&#8217;re both being safe, you&#8217;re both willing and no one is getting hurt, feel free to take part in your sexual pleasure and enjoy!</p>
<p>As a heterosexual man, you might be a little unfamiliar with the <a title="When to Say NO to Anal Sex… (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/anal-sex-when-to-say-no-to-video/">ins and outs of anal sex</a>, so to speak. You might have tried it a few times and liked it, but haven&#8217;t taken it any further than that. There are a number of things you can do to make sure anal sex is safe and even more enjoyable for both you and your partner!</p>
<h3>Things to remember</h3>
<p>First of all, remember that the rectum is one of bacteria&#8217;s favorite places to be. If your partner <a title="Sex Toys 101 - What They Are, Where To Get Them, and Why You Shouldn’t Share Them With Your Friends" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-101/">uses a strap on</a> to have anal sex with you, thoroughly wash the strap on or other toy with soap and hot water before using it anywhere else, especially in her vagina! Remember to wash your hands before continuing to have any contact with your partner or really, anything or anyone else!</p>
<p>Keeping bacteria contamination to a minimum <a title="Help! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Have Anal Sex! (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/anal-sex-sexuality-help-my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-have-anal-sex-video/">during anal sex</a> is one of the most important ways to ensure anal sex success. You should also take care to use lots and lots of lubricant to prevent tearing, and always tell your partner if something is uncomfortable or painful.</p>
<p>She&#8217;s <a title="Sex Toys for Boys?" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-for-boys-cock-ring/">using a fake penis</a>, so it may be difficult for her to tell if there is a great deal of resistance or if she is thrusting too hard. You might consider coming up with a code word that is completely unrelated to sex, such as &#8220;banana&#8221; so that if you say the code word, the anal sex immediately stops.</p>
<p>To make anal sex more enjoyable for you and your partner, you can use flavored or scented lubrication or even lubrication that warms or cools upon touch. Experiment with different sizes and textures of strap ons, or even consider using plugs or <a title="Sex Toys - Let Adults Enjoy the Right to Buy and Sell Them" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/censorship-sexual-repression/sex-toys-let-adults-enjoy-the-right-to-buy-and-sell-them/">anal beads for added enjoyment</a>. Just use your imagination!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[When most people think about sex toys, they usually think about vibrators and other such toys &#8211; for women. But what about the guys? Are there no sex toys for men? Sure there are. But aren&#8217;t sex toys just for women and gay guys? Huh? Where have you been? Times are changing, and women demand [...]<h3>Related Posts</h3>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When most people think about <a title="sex toys" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-101/">sex toys</a>, they usually think about vibrators and other such toys &#8211; for women.</p>
<p>But what about the guys? Are there no sex toys for men?</p>
<p>Sure there are.</p>
<h3>But aren&#8217;t sex toys just for women and gay guys?</h3>
<p>Huh? Where have you been?</p>
<p>Times are changing, and women demand that their men look, smell, and dress like civilized people, not farm animals. Suddenly it&#8217;s OK for men to have and share a sensitive persona, it&#8217;s not just about the neanderthal tough guy perspective. Nothing wrong with true strength of character and solid, unflinching self confidence, but the woman in your life expects to be loved and treaded with loving care, as an object of your affection.</p>
<p>More men are &#8220;getting their hair done&#8221; in fine salons than ever before, and more are enjoying regular manicures and pedicures. It&#8217;s a matter of appreciating that how you look and how you smell is indeed important, and looking and smelling nice doesn&#8217;t make you &#8220;gay&#8221;.</p>
<p>Well, along with everything else, <a title="sex toys for men" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-toys-101/">men can also enjoy sex toys</a> with their partners. Yes, there ARE sex toys for straight men, not just big, arched, phallic vibrators and butt plugs.</p>
<p>One of the most well known and appreciated sex toys for men is the <a title="Hot G Vibe vibrating cock ring" href="http://www.hot-g-vibe.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=102_0_0_0_dan-jen_3" target="_blank">cock ring</a>.  Cock rings work by providing resistance against the man&#8217;s erection, thus partially restricting the blood flow in the penis to prolong pleasure, make his erection harder, and help to prevent premature ejaculation.</p>
<h3>How many types of cock rings are there?</h3>
<p>Surprisingly, cock rings come in many shapes and sizes.</p>
<p>Many are the simple and unyielding metallic or even plastic variety. Some are rubber and stretch a little or a lot.</p>
<p>And there is also more extreme, elaborate, fancy cock rings, complete with built in vibrating ability, such as the Hot G Vibe <a title="Hot G Vibe vibrating cock ring" href="http://www.hot-g-vibe.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=102_0_0_0_dan-jen_3" target="_blank">vibrating cock ring</a>.</p>
<p>Since we like to think outside the box, let&#8217;s talk a little more about this last one&#8230;</p>
<h3>Hot G Vibe &#8211; Vibrating Cock Rings</h3>
<p>The Hot G Vibe cock ring is very unique among cock rings. In addition to being a cock ring, it&#8217;s also a vibrator.</p>
<p>And unlike many other cock rings, this one can be worn during actual penetration. Whether or not you&#8217;re comfortable with that, is another story.</p>
<p>Also a first among cock rings, the Hot G Vibe does not need to be worn at the base of the penis. It can be placed anywhere along the penis. Because of this &#8220;feature&#8221;, you can actually use multiple vibrating cock rings at one time. I can just see every guy thinking &#8211; I wonder how many I can fit on mine!</p>
<p>And of course to touch on the taboo topic of masturbation and self pleasuring, the Hot G Vibe <a title="Hot G Vibe vibrating cock ring" href="http://www.hot-g-vibe.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=102_0_0_0_dan-jen_3" target="_blank">cock rings</a> can be work without a woman. Yes, it&#8217;s true&#8230; you can enjoy full vibrating action by yourself. You don&#8217;t even have to tell anyone about it, just like nobody knows how often you masturbate.</p>
<p>For any man who hasn&#8217;t ever ventured into male sex toys, perhaps it&#8217;s time you tried it. Who knows, you may like it.</p>
<p>And you can always start easy, maybe with a regular cock ring. And if you&#8217;re ready to go all out, try something more adventurous like the Hot G Vibe <a title="Hot G Vibe vibrating cock ring" href="http://www.hot-g-vibe.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=102_0_0_0_dan-jen_3" target="_blank">vibrating cock ring</a>.</p>
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