What turns you on is going to be different from what turns someone else on, and it’s important to embrace diversity and celebrate your uniqueness! 

Is there ever a point where something that turns you on would not be considered normal, especially if you’re a virgin? 

Well, yes and no.  It’s a complicated situation that needs a hard, honest look.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

 

I found your website on YouTube. I think I am into BDSM or there may be something wrong with me.  I believe I am more Sadistic than Masochistic though and I am still a virgin as is my boyfriend.  He likes to be clawed and chained (yet to let me do that though) and when I scream in pain because I got hurt or something he gets a little excited.  I have clawed him so bad I took chunks of skin out of his hips and when he screamed in pain I laughed at him.  

 

The idea of burning, whipping, tying down, flogging, wrist/handcuffing, caging, and torturing him sounds fun.  Is there something wrong with me?  

 

Is it possible for a virgin to be into BDSM like this?

 

- Barbara,  Missouri

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