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		<title>Female Orgasm Tip #6 &#8211; Clitoral Circles (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you&#8217;re jumping in to our orgasm tips series now or have been following us since Tip #1, this next tip is going to be one of your &#8220;go to&#8221; moves in the bedroom. Tip # 6 is all about the clitoris &#8211; which almost every woman loves! While the g-spot can be difficult to [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you&#8217;re jumping in to our <a title="5 Little Known Female Orgasm Secrets And Tips" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/5-little-known-female-orgasm-secrets-and-tips/">orgasm tips</a> series now or have been following us since Tip #1, this next tip is going to be one of your &#8220;go to&#8221; moves in the bedroom. Tip # 6 is all about the clitoris &#8211; which almost every woman loves! While the g-spot can be difficult to find, the clitoris is usually not, and is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman&#8217;s genitals. In fact, the clitoris&#8217; only job is to provide pleasure for a woman! It does absolutely nothing else. So watch this video and make this easy tip one of your partner&#8217;s favorites!</p>
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<h3>Why Circles?</h3>
<p>The clitoris is extremely sensitive &#8211; which is a good thing. But it can pose a problem if you&#8217;re angled the wrong way, because too much <a title="Clitoris 101: 3 Things Men Need To Know About The Clitoris" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/clitoris-101-3-things-men-need-to-know-about-the-clitoris/">clitoral stimulation</a> can be painful. For example, a tongue or finger stroke upwards from the bottom of the clitoris to the top is probably one of the worst moves you can make (except if your partner is very turned on and well lubricated). This move actually lifts the clitoral hood and exposes the sensitive inner clitoris, which can become painful if your partner isn&#8217;t turned on and for some women, it&#8217;s always painful. Clitoral circles provide stimulation to the clitoris without lifting the protective clitoral hood, giving your partner a great feeling without overdoing it.</p>
<h3>Varying Your Strokes</h3>
<p>All you have to do is move your tongue or finger in circles around your partner&#8217;s clitoris. It&#8217;s that simple and it&#8217;s a great technique to use during <a title="Master The Art Of Cunnilingus: Learn How To Eat A Girl Out" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/master-the-art-of-cunnilingus-learn-how-to-eat-a-girl-out/">oral sex</a>. If you&#8217;re looking for a more complicated, blow-her-mind-move, all you have to do with this stroke is vary the pressure and width of your circles. Start slowly, with wider, softer circles, and graduate to firmer, smaller circles right on the clitoris. Mix it up a little in between if you feel like it! Just remember that if you&#8217;re using your hands or fingers to make sure your nails are clean and trimmed and you use a generous dab of lube. Hangnails can hurt!</p>
<h3>Why It Will Be One Of Her Favorite Moves</h3>
<p>The clitoral circles technique will soon become one of your partner&#8217;s favorite moves and rightly so &#8211; it&#8217;s a fantastic feeling for her and easy for you to do! She&#8217;ll love it because she&#8217;ll get stimulation everywhere on her clitoris (and her vagina too if you use wide circles in conjunction with smaller ones) including the top, bottom and sides. Many clitoral maneuvers stick to just one area or side of the clitoris, providing pleasure but only in one spot. Clitoral circles will practically envelop her in pleasure! You can also use this technique in conjunction with clitoral sucking (not too hard) and <a title="How You Can Finally Spot The G-Spot" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-you-can-finally-spot-the-g-spot/">g-spot stimulation</a>. Don&#8217;t forget to utilize our other techniques as well while you&#8217;re using Tip #6, such as paying attention and getting your partner turned on and warmed up. As we go over each tip in the female orgasm series, it&#8217;s your job to put them all together and learn how to make them work for you so you can become the master of your partner&#8217;s orgasms &#8211; and a master of the bedroom!</p>
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		<title>Female Orgasm Tip #5 &#8211; Are You Paying Attention? (Video)</title>
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Do you really know [...]


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<blockquote><p>Do you really know how she&#8217;s feeling? Is she close to orgasm? How can you tell? Watch this video to find out!</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Awareness</h3>
<p>Okay, awareness. That sounds kind of vague, right? Of course, but it&#8217;s an excellent principle to apply when you&#8217;re pleasuring your partner. When you&#8217;re giving your partner oral sex, massaging her g-spot or having intercourse with her, you&#8217;re trying to <a title="Female Orgasm Tip #4 - Patience And Persistence" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/orgasm-tip-4-patience-and-persistence-video/">give her an orgasm</a>. Simple. So why not pay attention to what she&#8217;s feeling? Sounds logical. You&#8217;d be surprised, however, at how many men think that &#8220;A + B = ORGASM&#8221; and only follow their &#8220;game plan&#8221; without being aware of how their partners are feeling in that very moment. Women, however, aren&#8217;t like mathematical formulas, and the same actions will not always get the same reaction at any given time. So to give your partner the type of orgasm she <em>really </em>wants, it&#8217;s time to learn how to pay attention to <em>what</em> she wants, <em>how </em>she wants it and <em>when </em>she wants it!</p>
<h3>Cause And Effect</h3>
<p>The most important part of great sex is being aware of what you&#8217;re doing and aware of your partner&#8217;s reactions to what you&#8217;re doing at all times. It sounds complicated, but it&#8217;s not. For example, if you&#8217;re giving your partner oral sex, listen to her moans, groans and body language to let you know if you&#8217;re doing it right or not. If your partner doesn&#8217;t seem into a certain move, change what you&#8217;re doing and listen and feel for the effect. Does she buck her hips, or let out a squeal? If so, <em>keep doing what you&#8217;re doing. </em>With every action there&#8217;s a reaction &#8211; and it may not always be in the form of &#8220;that&#8217;s perfect, stay right there&#8221; or &#8220;a little to the left&#8221; (although if you&#8217;re <a title="Female Orgasm Tip #3 - Why Communication Is Crucial" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-tip-3-why-communication-is-crucial-video/">good at communicating</a> with your partner, she might give you these types of directions) but she&#8217;ll definitely let you know if she&#8217;s liking what you&#8217;re doing or not in some way or another. You just have to pay attention!</p>
<h3>Give Up Your Game Plan</h3>
<p>To succeed at giving your partner an amazing orgasm (or many amazing orgasms) you first have to abandon your game plan. Having an idea of how to start pleasuring your partner is good, however, don&#8217;t get caught up in what you&#8217;re going to do next and after that and after that. It could all change depending on how your partner is feeling that day and what she likes. She may want it soft and subtle one day and hard and rough the next. Part of being an excellent lover and a master of <a title="Female Orgasm And Oral Sex - What Is A Girlfriend To Do?" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/oral-sex-and-orgasm-what-is-a-girlfriend-to-do/">female orgasms</a> is being able to adapt yourself to your partner&#8217;s reactions and change what you&#8217;re doing based on what she&#8217;s communicating to you that she wants. Communication comes in a variety of different formats, including body language, non-descript vocalizations or straight up directions. You never know what you&#8217;re going to get, so make sure you&#8217;re paying attention for anything that comes your way and be ready to adapt to what your partner wants &#8211; she&#8217;ll be putty in your hands!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many women have never had an orgasm? How many women give up having an orgasm during sex because it takes too long? </p>
<p>How many women have to spend <em>forever </em>trying to have an orgasm, only to strike out most of the time?</p>
<h3>Surprising Facts About Female Orgasms</h3>
<ul>
<li>It takes most women less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm when masturbating</li>
<li>A huge number of women fake their orgasms, because they know they just can&#8217;t keep up with their man</li>
<li>Faking orgasms can be utterly detrimental to the health of your relationship</li>
<li>Stressing out over sex and orgasms can actually make you <em>lose </em>vaginal lubrication, making an orgasm even more elusive</li>
<li>It IS possible to have an orgasm <em>during sex </em>in less than 5 minutes, even if you never have before</li>
<li>It IS possible to have an orgasm every time you have sex with your partner</li>
</ul>
<p>It shouldn&#8217;t be so hard for women to be sexually satisfied, and with our friend Jessica Perez&#8217;s new book, <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/faster-female-orgasm-review-sl.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Faster Female Orgasm &#8211; How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed</strong></a>, </em>women can learn what they need to know to take control of their own pleasure and start climaxing during sex! Here&#8217;s our review of this great book. </p>
<h3>The Difference Between Men And Women</h3>
<p>Jessica goes into great detail about the sexual differences between men and women in <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/faster-female-orgasm-review-sl.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Faster Female Orgasm</strong></a>.</em> Believing that it is important for women to understand the fundamentals of their sexual dysfunction with their partners, Jessica explains that sex for men is like a 100 meter dash, while sex for women is like a marathon. Men rush towards the finish, while women take a significant amount of time to get warmed up and to reach climax.</p>
<p>Most of the time, the timing is off &#8211; the man gets extremely tired of waiting for his orgasm and the woman becomes frustrated that she is taking too long to orgasm and ends up faking it. It&#8217;s incredibly refreshing for women to finally understand what is really going on in the bedroom, but what is more refreshing is Jessica&#8217;s solution to the problem &#8211; <em>Isn&#8217;t it about time women learned to catch up to their men? </em></p>
<h3>Orgasms ARE Possible For Women&#8230;</h3>
<p>Jessica makes some pretty hefty promises at the beginning of the book, including the guarantee that you can have an orgasm in less than 5 minutes <em>every </em>time you have sex with your partner, even if you&#8217;ve been sleeping with the same man for years and only get an orgasm once in awhile, or have never gotten an orgasm before. Women might be wondering how Jessica can fulfill! While Jessica makes no claims that she can cure sexual dysfunction due to medical issues such as nerve problems or medication side effects, she does put every bit of effort she can into teaching women how to take control of their own pleasure so they can finally get theirs.
</p>
<p>Here are some great things you&#8217;ll find out in <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/faster-female-orgasm-review-sl.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Faster Female Orgasm &#8211; How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed</strong></a></em>: </p>
<ul>
<li>Detailed descriptions of female anatomy so a woman can understand how her body really works</li>
<li>Directions for direct and indirect clitoral stimulation, as well as what NOT to do when touching your clitoris</li>
<li>Directions for G-Spot stimulation during sex</li>
<li>How masturbation can treat sexual dysfunction</li>
<li>How to masturbate properly so you can begin to climax during sex</li>
<li>Exactly which techniques to apply during sex so you can orgasm harder and faster</li>
<li>Why you need to TURN OFF YOUR VIBRATOR</li>
<li>How to have blended orgasms, simultaneous orgasms and multiple orgasms</li>
<li>Detailed descriptions of sexual positions to use to set yourself up for orgasm success from the start</li>
<li>How fantasizing and involving your brain during sex can help you climax</li>
<li>How to train your man to do what <em>you </em>like during sex, not what he thinks you like</li>
<li>How to love yourself and become a sexual woman</li>
</ul>
<h3>Summary</h3>
<p>The one downfall of Jessica Perez&#8217;s <em>Faster Female Orgasm &#8211; How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed </em>is that it contains information from beginning to end. Depending on how you look at it, that might not be a downfall at all, because if you&#8217;re at a beginner&#8217;s skill level, you&#8217;ll need and want all of that information to start out with. For the sex vixen who just can&#8217;t get it down pat though, Jessica&#8217;s book certainly doesn&#8217;t leave anything to be desired, but you might find yourself skipping over the lengthy basics.</p>
<p>So if you&#8217;re a gal who wants to take control of her own sexual pleasure, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/faster-female-orgasm-review-sl.htm"><strong>get your copy of <em>Faster Female Orgasm</em></strong></a> and get ready to start loving sex again!</p>
<p>While you&#8217;re at it, check out Jessica&#8217;s other great guides, for both you <em>and </em>your man!</p>
<ul>
<li>Jessica Perez&#8217;s excellent book on blowjob how-to, <em><a target="_blank" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/blow-his-mind-article.htm">Blow His Mind Tonight</a> </em></li>
<li>A great article on how to have <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/take-your-climax-to-the-max-top-5-tips-to-wilder-orgasms/">wilder orgasms</a>, only on Ask Dan and Jennifer</li>
<li>Another awesome article on a new trend called <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/touchless-orgasm-real-or-fake/">Touchless Orgasms</a>, </em>only on Ask Dan and Jennifer</li>
</ul>
<p>Don&#8217;t deny yourself the orgasm you DESERVE another minute! It&#8217;s time to take control of your sex life! <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/faster-female-orgasm-review-sl.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Download Faster Female Orgasm &#8211; How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed</strong></a>! </em></p>


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		<title>3 Oral Sex Tips That Will Drive Her Wild (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 01:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel Rose, author Sex God Method</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every man wants to be able to give his partner orgasms that will simply drive her wild and have her begging for more. How can you make her toes curl in the bedroom and forget everything but what you&#8217;re doing to her and how close she is to having an orgasm?</p>
<p>These three tried and true tips from Daniel Rose&#8217;s <em><a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/go/sex-god-method-article.htm" target="_blank">Sex God Method</a></em> will teach you the most simple and basic techniques that will have the biggest impact.</p>
<blockquote><p><span>Every wish you could last longer in bed? Is it all over too fast? These proven tips are guaranteed to help you last longer in bed!</span></p></blockquote>
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<h3><span>Preheat The Oven</span></h3>
<p><span>The biggest complaint that women have about <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/the-truth-about-giving-oral-sex-video/">oral sex</a> is that their partners just dive right in, without any foreplay. Technically, oral sex is considered foreplay to the main event, but it&#8217;s important to have a little smaller foreplay before getting into oral sex with a woman. A woman isn&#8217;t like a blowtorch &#8211; she doesn&#8217;t fire up as soon as you hit the button. Women are more like ovens &#8211; it takes them time to preheat before they&#8217;re ready to bake. If you want to give your girlfriend the most amazing oral sex she&#8217;s ever had, take some time to kiss her body, nibble her thighs and really work up to going down on her before you start going for the gold.</span></p>
<h3><span>Be A DJ</span></h3>
<p><span>Another complaint that women have about oral sex is that their partners start out too fast, even if they&#8217;ve had a little pre-oral sex foreplay to warm them up. Once you&#8217;ve completed step one, you&#8217;re work isn&#8217;t done yet &#8211; you&#8217;re still not ready to dive right in. Pretend you&#8217;re a DJ at a night club &#8211; you want to play slower tempo music as the people are arriving, and then really get into the jams once the people are ready to party. Oral sex is the same way &#8211; play some softer &#8220;music&#8221; while beginning to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/oral-sex-and-orgasm-what-is-a-girlfriend-to-do/">go down on your partner</a>, with slow licking and soft kissing. When she&#8217;s heated up, feel free to rock out with your cock out (no pun intended)! </span></p>
<h3><span>Slow And Steady Wins The Race</span></h3>
<p><span>Well, that doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean you have to actually be slow (although she may like that) but the idea is &#8220;steady.&#8221; As your partner gets more and more heated up and is ready to approach climax, stay steady. Don&#8217;t change what you&#8217;re doing &#8211; women hate that! It takes a great maneuver to be repeated over and over to bring a girl to orgasm through oral sex, so once you find that sweet technique, simply stick with it. You&#8217;ll hear how her responses turn from tickled gasps to breathtaking screams as she gets closer and closer to orgasm.</span></p>
<p><span>Part of <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/5-little-known-female-orgasm-secrets-and-tips/">giving your girl a great orgasm</a> through oral sex is experimenting with different techniques and communicating with your partner about which techniques work better and which ones don&#8217;t. Don&#8217;t be afraid to let each other know what you like and don&#8217;t like &#8211; that&#8217;s truly the key to absolutely, positively mind blowing sex! The other trick to giving your girl a mind blowing orgasm through oral sex is to act like you want it &#8211; not that it&#8217;s a chore. If you really want to go down on her, let her know how much! </span></p>
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		<title>For Ladies Only: Can&#8217;t Reach Orgasm? Here&#8217;s A Secret&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 19:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Perez, author Faster Female Orgasm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s estimated that about 10% of women have never experienced the joys of reaching a climax. And it doesn&#8217;t matter what type of &#8216;lovemaking&#8217; they engage in. Whether it&#8217;s with a partner or via masturbation, some women simply cannot seem to find the road to the Big O.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s estimated that about 10% of women have never experienced the joys of <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/the-c-spot-and-g-spot-orgasm-cocktail/">reaching a climax</a>. And it doesn&#8217;t matter what type of &#8216;lovemaking&#8217; they engage in. Whether it&#8217;s with a partner or via masturbation, some women simply cannot seem to find the road to the Big O.</p>
<p align="justify">This has led countless women to seek sex counseling and in my practice, I&#8217;ve had the opportunity to share what some &#8217;secrets&#8217; that have helped countless women get out of that 10% statistic.</p>
<p align="justify">The secret is actually all about tension and relaxation. It may sound like an oxymoron now but read on below to know more!</p>
<h3>The Road To Climax Tip #1: Tense Those Muscles</h3>
<p align="justify">On one hand, you can&#8217;t help but tense up during intercourse right? After all, all that stimulation gets the blood flowing, which in turn heightens sexual arousal. The problem is some women tend to relax the muscles or tissues that contract while making love. Why?</p>
<p align="justify">For one, some women tend to be passive in bed. But let me assure you the days of &#8216;lying there and receiving it&#8217; are over. If you want an <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-give-your-woman-the-kind-of-orgasm-she-wants/">orgasm</a>, you better get up there and participate! And yes, tense your muscles while you&#8217;re at it.</p>
<p align="justify">For example, while in the woman on top position, squeeze your pubococcygeus muscles (PC muscles). These are the same muscles you use when you try to stop the flow of your pee. By contracting these muscles, not only are you giving your man pleasure by gripping his penis, you are also increasing the friction between your genitals, thereby increasing sexual pleasure (which is supposed to push to you a wonderful climax).</p>
<h3>The Road To Climax Tip #2: Relax Your Mind</h3>
<p align="justify">The relaxation part comes in the form of letting go of your thoughts. We women can be so BUSY up there! Seriously, do you really have to make a mental note that you need to pick up something from the dry cleaners tomorrow while riding him now?!?</p>
<p align="justify">So free your mind, relax, and just let the erotic pleasures that sex bring you wash over you.</p>
<p align="justify">If relaxing is hard for you, take cue from the silent radio technique that&#8217;s employed a lot in area where people have to fall in line. Notice that electronic billboard that shows snippets of news from left to right? It draws your attention to it doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p align="justify">So, next time you make love, plaster that electronic billboard in your mind with sentences like &#8220;omg&#8230; his penis is REALLY hitting it now!&#8221; or &#8220;here it comes, here it comes, here it comes!&#8221;. By focusing your thoughts on the pleasures that are ravaging over your body, you&#8217;ll hopefully be able to finally <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-give-any-woman-an-orgasm-every-time/">experience a climax</a>.</p>
<p align="justify">Rmember, to reach the Big O, tense your muscles but relax your mind. Doesn&#8217;t sound like an oxymoron at all, does it?</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 22:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Perez, author Faster Female Orgasm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are touchless orgasms real or are they just another way to fake an orgasmic experience with a sexual partner? Well, let&#8217;s really think about this. The power our minds have over our bodies is tremendous. The touchless orgasm has been touted, by those fortunate enough to experience such pure bliss, as the ultimate mind-body connection.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are touchless <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/be-a-better-lover-how-to-make-your-girlfriend-orgasm-during-sex/">orgasms</a> real or are they just another way to fake an orgasmic experience with a sexual partner? Well, let&#8217;s really think about this. The power our minds have over our bodies is tremendous. The touchless orgasm has been touted, by those fortunate enough to experience such pure bliss, as the ultimate mind-body connection.</p>
<h3> The Definition Of &#8220;Touchless Orgasm&#8221;</h3>
<p align="justify">What is a touchless orgasm exactly? Let&#8217;s talk about what it is NOT first. It is not to be confused with a woman&#8217;s inherent over-excitability. Plainly and simply, it is the very act of erotic storytelling, guiding a partner through a visually, sexually-stimulating state, until the highest state of sexual arousal is attained &#8230; the woman releases her mind and body, succumbing to the purely blissful height of sexual excitation culminating in the oh-so-desirable orgasm. Sometimes, as with physical foreplay and sexual intercourse, <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/oral-sex-and-orgasm-what-is-a-girlfriend-to-do/">a woman&#8217;s orgasm</a> remains elusive &#8230; just beyond reach.</p>
<h3>Touchless Orgasm How-To</h3>
<p align="justify">How would a sexual partner talk their partner into such a frenzied, heated, <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-is-your-woman-faking-her-orgasms/">sexually-excited</a> state so as to reach the ultimate touchless orgasm? Try following these tips:</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>First</strong> &#8230; Make sure you have a <strong>drink</strong> in hand &#8230; for both you and your partner. You will need the drink to wet your whistle because extended storytelling can cause a dry mouth. Your partner may need a glass of wine or perhaps some chamomile tea to promote a general state of physical relaxation.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Second</strong> &#8230; Find out what <strong>visuals</strong> and <strong>fantasies</strong> excite your partner to no end. This is the research phase, and if you want to be successful, it is an absolutely necessary step.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Third</strong> &#8230; More research. Know the <strong>diction</strong>, or word choice, and <strong>inflection</strong>, or tone of voice, to which your partner will most positively react. Some women like sex rough and tumble. If so, use hardcore words, like &#8220;fuck&#8221; and &#8220;cunt.&#8221; Other women like sex soft and romantic. If so, use sensual words, like &#8220;caress&#8221; and &#8220;pussy.&#8221; Sometimes, a combination of both sets of words proves most successful.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Fourth</strong> &#8230; Craft your general story idea before the main event. During verbal <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-black-book-review/">intercourse</a>, it is easy to lose your train of thought and forget where you were going with the story. There are simply too many things stimulating all of your senses.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Fifth</strong> &#8230; Pay attention to your partner&#8217;s reactions. Adapt the story line, words, and visuals to what you see your partner feeling.</p>
<p align="justify">Are you a sensitive, visual sexual partner who can craft an erotic story molded specifically to your sexual partner? Would you like to inject a tremendous dose of excitement into a particular relationship with a woman whose sexual arousal you would like to send through the roof? Try the steps listed above. Let me know how it goes.</p>
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		<title>Top 10 Female Masturbation Tips</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Perez, author Faster Female Orgasm</dc:creator>
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<h3>Skin to Skin Contact</h3>
<p><em>The Pattie Cake</em></p>
<p>With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your little man in the boat will stand at attention. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky sweet and warm up. The inside of your vagina will overflow with your love fluid. Directly before you come, push those same two fingers into your sticky sweetness. Rub the natural lubricant from inside of you onto your clitoris, and rub hard until you come.</p>
<p><em>The Sandwich Cookie</em></p>
<p>Imagine your first two fingers as the hard cookies that sandwich a creamy filling. Gently grip your clitoris between your first two fingers. <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/sex-education-can-i-get-stds-from-masturbation-video/">Stroke your clitoris</a> with your other hand. Vary the pressure and speed until you come.</p>
<p><em>The Open-Faced Sandwich</em></p>
<p>Use the palm of your outstretched hand, gently pat and then push down gently. Continue with this rhythm until you begin to feel hot. When you are almost to the end, just push and let go, push and let go, never letting your hand leave skin contact.</p>
<p><em>The Pulsing Pelvis</em></p>
<p>Begin touching yourself with your fingers how you like it the best. Start to softly contract your leg muscles in order for your pelvis to gently pulse in a rhythm reminiscent of lovemaking with a partner. Rock up and down, up and down, until you come.</p>
<h3>Take a Dip</h3>
<p><em>In the Pool</em></p>
<p>Spread your legs as far as you can while positioning yourself in front of one of the jets in your pool or hot tub. Stand far enough away from the jet so it is not uncomfortable for you, then move closer and closer until the stimulation is just the right amount to jet you into orgasm.</p>
<p><em>With Your Shower Head</em></p>
<p>Use your handheld shower head to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/why-is-masturbation-so-taboo-video/">masturbate</a>. Actually take the shower head off of its hook and press it on your clitoris. Rub softly. Rub firmly. Alternate between the two extremes, or find a middle ground. Always synchronize your motions to escalate the masturbation experience.</p>
<p><em>In Your Bathtub</em></p>
<p>Get into your dry bathtub and sit directly underneath the faucet. Make sure the faucet is aimed directly at your clitoris. Turn the water on warm and let the flow of water hit your clitoris. Use your elbows to hold up your upper body and stick your hands underneath your butt. Right before your orgasm, turn the water temperature to hot &#8230; a comfortable hot &#8230; and let yourself come.</p>
<h3>Common Toys</h3>
<p><em>Dig the Shovel</em></p>
<p>You can use whatever object turns you on. <a title="Sex Toys &amp; Vibrators: Videos and Reviews " href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-toys-vibrators/">Pick out a vibrator</a> or anything you like. Mimicking a gently digging motion, use the toy to play with your clitoris. Slide your toy down your clitoris, across your clitoris, and upward, removing the object entirely from your body. Repeat until you reach orgasm.</p>
<p><em>It&#8217;s Electric</em></p>
<p>When using an electric toothbrush to stimulate your clitoris, simply use it as if it were a vibrator. Touch softly at first, and then as you get more excited, get into a rhythm of hard, soft, or medium pressure. Go up, down, all around, in little circles. Find the motion that suits you the best.</p>
<p><em>A Play Station</em></p>
<p>Use a Metal Gear Solid CD on your Sony Playstation, and grab the vibrating controller. Follow the same instructions for the electric toothbrush and the rest is easy. Find yourself. You&#8217;ll figure out what to do.</p>
<p>If you have already tried all of the above <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/censorship-sexual-repression/will-daily-masturbation-affect-puberty-video/">masturbation tips for women</a>, try adding your own personalized touch on variations to these techniques. If this still isn&#8217;t doing it for you, stay tuned for the next set of tips from the professionals.</p>
<p>If you follow the previous tips, you too will experience the self-satisfying beauty of climactic joy through masturbation. When you find something new that works for you, you can share your little secret with your partner.</p>
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<p>Some men can only achieve orgasms with intercourse, which can be frustrating to their partners who are trying to please them with oral sex or genital massage.</p>
<p>If you can only achieve orgasm through intercourse, you&#8217;re not alone, but what can you do about it?</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Dan and Jennifer,</p>
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<p>I have trouble reaching orgasm except through intercourse. I want to find other ways to share my orgasms with my partner. How can I do that?</p>
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<p>&#8211;Nikki, West Virginia</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Inner Emotions</h3>
<p>Older generations of men had much more societal pressure not to masturbate or touch themselves in any sexual way than more current generations of men. Especially in very religious cultures, masturbation and even oral sex is considered &#8220;wrong&#8221; or &#8220;dirty.&#8221;</p>
<p>Men that would get caught masturbating or even <a title="Sex Tips &amp; Advice" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-tips-advice/">receiving oral sex</a> or genital massage became socially outcast, even by their mothers, fathers and other family members. The school of thought at the time was that sexual pleasure was reserved for intercourse between a man and a woman after marriage.</p>
<p>Anything outside those boundaries were considered &#8220;bad,&#8221; even though scientifically, masturbation and other forms of sexual pleasure are perfectly normal.</p>
<p>Men from older generations and even some younger men who come from strong religious backgrounds may feel inwardly that these types of sexual acts are, in fact, &#8220;wrong,&#8221; even if they don&#8217;t realize it.</p>
<p>This can actually prohibit him from feeling sexual pleasure during these types of activities, making it impossible for him to have an orgasm that way.</p>
<p>If you find yourself in this situation, it&#8217;s not a permanent problem. You can get the help of an unbiased counselor or sex therapist to help you obtain the tools you need to let go of any inner emotions that could be making it difficult or <a title="Medications and Orgasm - Help! My Wife Thinks She’s the Reason I Can’t Orgasm (Video)" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/medications-and-orgasm-1006-dan-and-jennifer/">impossible for you to orgasm</a> through any means but intercourse.</p>
<h3>Trying New Techniques&#8230;.</h3>
<p>You can also have your partner <a title="3-Before-Me: A Proven Guideline For Great Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-3-before-me-a-proven-guideline-for-great-sex/">try new and different techniques</a> and you can be open with your partner and let them know what feels good and what doesn’t. While this is an approach that works well in conjunction with therapy or counseling, trying this alone likely won&#8217;t help you achieve an orgasm through oral sex or genital massage if you&#8217;ve previously been unable to do so.</p>
<p>If you and your therapist are beginning to work through some of your inner issues, you can work with your partner to find the type of stimulation that really gets you turned on and keeps you turned on. If you like stimulation a certain way, don&#8217;t be afraid to tell your partner what you like and don&#8217;t like!</p>
<p>It can be frustrating not to <a title="Can Men Really Have multiple=" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/can-men-really-have-multiple-orgasms-video/">be able to reach orgasm</a> in any way other than intercourse, but it&#8217;s usually not something that lasts forever, especially if you get help in understanding what is causing the problem and how to get through it.</p>
<p>Shed the thoughts that oral sex and genital massage is &#8220;bad&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; and learn to accept sexual pleasure as a whole as normal. Mammals of all kinds seek sexual pleasure in a variety of ways, and it&#8217;s normal that you would too!</p>
<p>Your therapist can help you to work through your issues and your partner can help you <a title="The Lazy Man’s Guide to Great Sex" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/lazy-mans-guide-to-great-sex/">find out what you like best sexually</a>, so when you&#8217;re ready, you can have a great orgasm a number of different ways &#8211; not just intercourse!</p>


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		<title>The Elusive G-Spot &#8211; How To Find It And What To Do With It When You Do</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Orgasms by themselves are often difficult for many women to achieve, let alone the mystical G-Spot orgasm. Learning how to find the G-Spot and achieve orgasm solely through penetration is an incredible way to strengthen the sexual bond you have with your partner and enrich your sex life.
The trick is, how tricky is it?
Dear Dan [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Orgasms by themselves are often difficult for many women to achieve, let alone the mystical G-Spot orgasm. Learning how to find the G-Spot and achieve orgasm solely through penetration is an incredible way to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/">strengthen the sexual bond</a> you have with your partner and enrich your sex life.</p>
<p>The trick is, how tricky is it?</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Dan and Jennifer,</p>
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<p>My girlfriend can only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation.  I want to pleasure her more &#8211; how can I find the G-spot everyone is talking about and make sex with her last longer?</p>
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<p>&#8211;Sean, Oklahoma</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Needing Clitoral Stimulation</h3>
<p><em></em>If your partner needs clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm every time, don’t worry &#8211; it’s perfectly normal. In fact, that’s why the clitoris is there &#8211; providing pleasure and orgasm is it’s only job. That doesn’t mean that you should give up on <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/g-spot-amplification-what-everybody-ought-to-know-about-the-g-shot/">the elusive G-Spot</a> though.</p>
<p>Learning how to pleasure your partner through both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation can help make your sex life incredibly satisfying for both you and your partner. Did you know that a woman can even have a clitoral orgasm and a G-Spot orgasm at the same time?</p>
<p>In fact, clitoral stimulation will often help a G-Spot orgasm along and vice versa. If you’re interested in finding a woman’s G-Spot, there is a ton of literature that will give you some great information on how to find it and what to do with it when you do.</p>
<h3>Practice Makes Perfect</h3>
<p><em></em>When you begin learning the techniques you need to use to bring your partner to <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/female-orgasm-3-before-me-a-proven-guideline-for-great-sex/">orgasm through G-Spot stimulation</a>, you may not be very good at it right away. It takes time to learn what your partner likes and what they don’t like and even the best techniques may need to be modified according to your partner’s specific likes and dislikes.</p>
<p>Take some time to practice with your partner and try different techniques until you find the ones that work the best. You can also try looking online for forums or message boards where other people have talked about the techniques they like to use. Don’t be afraid to add your input &#8211; you might get some tips from other people that can really help you out.</p>
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