You have a great connection and things look great.

So when is it okay to have sex for the first time?

There are those who believe it’s okay to have sex on the first date. Others think the third date is the right time, but still others believe you should wait much longer. Perhaps as long until after the wedding. 

Dear Dan and Jennifer,   

How long should I date a man morally speaking before we have sex?? 

And so it will be a better relationship if that’s what is meant to be…

–Erica, California

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The morality of sex

Morally speaking, there is no right or wrong answer to this question – which is what makes it such a great question.  People who are uncertain about what boundaries they have when making the decision to have sex with the person they’re dating might be a little surprised to learn that the only boundaries they have are the ones they set for themselves…

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