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		<title>Can Seduction and Pick Up Tactics Work for You? (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2007 23:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
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These products&#160;are typically DVD or CD programs&#160;that claim to show you the art of seducing a woman by using subtle yet effective seduction techniques to easily approach&#160;any woman without getting rejected. 
While these techniques can be very [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">If you&#8217;re a guy, you&#8217;ve certainly heard of at least one &quot;<a title="Easily Meet The Hottest Women Anytime, Anywhere, and NEVER Worry About What To Say" href="/flirting-and-seduction/meet-women-with-confidence-never-worry-about-what-to-say/">How to Pick Up Any Woman</a>&quot; product. </span></p>
<p><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">These products&nbsp;are typically DVD or CD programs&nbsp;that claim to show you the <a title="Ross%u2019s Speed Seduction website" href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=545414" target="_blank">art of seducing</a> a woman by using subtle yet effective seduction techniques to easily approach&nbsp;any woman without getting rejected. </span></p>
<p>While these techniques can be very effective, will they work for you?</p>
<p><span style="background-color: #ffffff;"><strong><a title="Video - Can Seduction and Pick Up Tactics Work for You?" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hl00Sdl1Uk" target="_blank">Watch this short video</a></strong> to find out&#8230;</span></p>
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		<title>Leaving the Friend Zone &#8211; How to Actually Ask Her Out On a Date (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2007 13:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[At some point you&#8217;re going to have to make your move and depart the friend zone. Now, this may not&#160;be in the first minute or two, and maybe not even the first time you talk to her. The key here again is self confidence. You&#8217;ll also need a&#160;little patience.
Take your time and feel it out [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At some point you&#8217;re going to have to make your move and <i><a title="Is shyness keeping you from the girl of your dreams?" href="/dating-tips/is-shyness-keeping-you-from-the-girl-of-your-dreams/">depart the friend zone</a></i>. Now, this may not&nbsp;be in the first minute or two, and maybe not even the first time you talk to her. The key here again is self confidence. You&rsquo;ll also need a&nbsp;little patience.</p>
<p>Take your time and feel it out first. Don&rsquo;t make her choose until you know she&#8217;s comfortable enough with you to give you a chance and you&#8217;re comfortable enough to take the chance. </p>
<p><a title="Video - Leaving the Friend Zone - How to Actually Ask Her Out" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gh-pW3gAxR8" target="_blank"><strong>Watch this short video</strong></a> to find out how to move out of the &#8216;Friend Zone&#8217; and on to the next level.&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Easily Meet The Hottest Women Anytime, Anywhere, and NEVER Worry About What To Say</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2007 19:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan and Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve been around for a while, you know that we always suggest using extreme caution when applying seduction tactics. 
Remember, she will get to know the real you eventually.
But if you really get stuck in those first few minutes and find yourself fumbling&#160;around like an idiot&#160;when you see a hot girl, then certain seduction [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve been around for a while, you know that we always suggest using extreme caution when applying <a title="flirting and seduction tips and techniques" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/category/flirting-and-seduction/">seduction tactics</a>. </p>
<p>Remember, she will get to know the real you eventually.</p>
<p>But if you really get stuck in those first few minutes and find yourself fumbling&nbsp;around like an idiot&nbsp;when you see a hot girl, then certain <a title="seduction and flirting tips and advice" href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/category/flirting-and-seduction/">seduction techniques</a> can help you get your foot in the door so that she will actually take the time to get to know the real you.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to know exactly how to use the latest cutting edge seduction technology to make meeting even the hottest women, anytime, anywhere, as easy as hangin&#8217; out with the guys, then keep reading&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>This Is THE Breakthrough You&#8217;ve Been Waiting For!</strong></p>
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<p>By far <a title="How to easily meet women" href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=1909223" target="_blank"><strong>the most popular item that we&#8217;ve seen</strong></a> has been a&nbsp;DVD product that tells you exactly how to seduce a woman &#8211; from the opening approach&nbsp;to the first few minutes of real conversation.</p>
<p><a title="Gold walk up DVD" href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=1909223" target="_blank">This DVD</a> shows you EXACTLY what to say, and the 4 effective energetic &quot;vibes&quot;, or pathways that make any of her responses turn into a YES for you.</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s just some of what you&#8217;ll&nbsp;find out</strong>&nbsp;in this start to finish seduction road map:</p>
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<li>How to use the 4 different approach vibes in the proper combination and sequence, to ensure no matter WHAT your opening words are, the&nbsp;conversation will progress exactly as you want it. </li>
<li>How to get past all &quot;compliment resistance&quot; with the super-powered &quot;Implied Compliment&quot; method. </li>
<li>The exact different physical angles and approaches to use in different&nbsp;approach scenarios. </li>
<li>The &quot;step back&quot; principle; creating an interest &quot;vacuum&quot; to test her willingness, convey safety and power, and condition her from the very beginning to be the one coming after YOU! </li>
<li>Three magic words to make ANY opening lines 500% more effective. </li>
<li>Mastering the &quot;put-on&quot;: how to instantly convert any observed situation or condition into a hilarious, fun, mega-icebreaker that she can&#8217;t resist. </li>
<li>The 6 Gold-Walk Up beliefs you must master and command to ensure your absolute pick-up mastery! </li>
<li>3 steps you MUST take before you make any approach to triple or quadruple your walk-up success. </li>
<li>The 90% rule to eliminate almost any pre-approach jitters. </li>
<li>The strategic use of pacing and pauses to create hypnotic response potential within the first 10-15 seconds! </li>
<li>Structured assignments and drills to build your walk-up skills. </li>
<li>An amazing new &quot;boyfriend ignorer&quot;, the best I&#8217;ve ever used, that also includes word for word powerful hypnotic language that turns her &quot;boyfriend&quot; objection into a filter of desire, lust and need that she HAS to see you through! </li>
<li>The fabulous &quot;Snack Quiz&quot; and &quot;Twin Brother Scenarios&quot;: here&#8217;s how to get them to actually sit down and easily and smoothly move right into powerful patterning language! </li>
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<p><strong>You&#8217;ll never get stuck again</strong> on where to move things forward with Speed Seduction® language, and you&#8217;ll watch as Ross Jeffries demonstrates the power of these scenarios on lovely, young Joannie, who is visibly turned on by the whole thing.</p>
<p><strong>Listen&#8230;</strong> there&#8217;s an unlimited supply of incredible women waiting for you when you&#8217;ve learned these fantastic secrets that ensure you&#8217;ll never have to worry about what to say, ever, anymore, again! </p>
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<p>If you still have doubts, go check out Ross&#8217;s <a title="Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction Website" href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=545414" target="_blank">Speed Seduction website</a>,&nbsp;where he&#8217;ll answer all of your questions like, </p>
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<li>Does this stuff really work? </li>
<li>Will this work on older women? Younger women? Beautiful women? </li>
<li>Can I use this to get that one special girl I&#8217;ve always wanted? </li>
<li>Is this disrespectful to women? </li>
<li>Does get this course make me a loser? What are your typical students like? </li>
<li>I&#8217;m not very good at talking, how can I make sure this works for me. </li>
<li>Does this course require that I be mean / cruel / a jerk to women? I sure don&#8217;t want to do that. </li>
<li>Ross, what is your background for being able to train others in Speed Seduction. </li>
<li>Isn&#8217;t this course really expensive? </li>
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<p>While you&#8217;re there, check out the <a title="You can have Unstoppable Confidence" href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=1905665" target="_blank"><strong>Unstoppable Confidence Course</strong></a>, where you&#8217;ll discover&nbsp;How To Have Unstoppable Confidence and Power With Women. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what you&#8217;ll learn from this amazing course in just one week:</p>
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<li><strong>Day One:</strong> The Key To Changing Anything You Want, The Power Attitudes For Success With Women, Super-Affirmations To Super-Charge Yourself. (Hey, the power attitudes, BY THEMSELVES, are so incredible that if all you do is listen to this one side, you&#8217;ll at least triple your success with women!! But do yourself a favor, and listen to the rest of the tapes too!) </li>
<li><strong>Day Two:</strong> Building A Thunderously Powerful Self Image: Staying Laid Back To Get You Laid Like Crazy </li>
<li><strong>Day Three:</strong> Automatic Pick-Up And Seduction Programming! </li>
<li><strong>Day Four:</strong> Cleaning Up Your Past: Changing Your Flub-Ups, Mistakes, and Snafus Into Powerful Guarantees Of Success! </li>
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		<title>Is Shyness Keeping You From the Girl of Your Dreams?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Feb 2007 16:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Question: 

There is this girl at my church that I think might like me. Every time I get a chance to say something to her I don't because I'm really shy. What can I say or do to break the ice?

The Answer: 

The challenge here is that you really like her and really want her to like you. And that's the problem. That wanting translates into fear - fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of being alone. 

STOP! Let's go through this together so you will be able to approach her with ease the next time you see her.



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Question</strong>: </p>
<p>There is this girl at my church that&nbsp;I think might like me. Every time&nbsp;I get a chance to say something to her I don&#8217;t because I&#8217;m really shy. <a href="http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/dating-tips/first-date-question-how-can-i-avoid-the-conversation-dead-zone-and-keep-from-striking-out/">What can&nbsp;I say or do to break the ice?</a></p>
<p><strong>The Answer</strong>: </p>
<p>The challenge here is that you really like her and really want her to like you. And that&#8217;s the problem. That <em>wanting</em> translates into <em>fear</em> &#8211; fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of being alone. </p>
<p><strong>STOP!</strong> Let&#8217;s go through this together so you will be able to approach her with ease the next time you see her.</p>
<p><strong>She&#8217;s a regular person, just like you</strong></p>
<p>Don&#8217;t put her on a pedestal just because you like her. This is one of the biggest mistakes men make with women, which is why they strike out so often. </p>
<p>Remember, she&#8217;s a regular person, just&nbsp;like you. So, treat her that way. Be nice, friendly, and most of all, confident in yourself. You wouldn&#8217;t be shy talking to one of your guy friends or a girl that you have no interest in, right? </p>
<p>So treat her like that &#8211; just one of your friends. </p>
<p>Men and women aren&#8217;t nearly as different as we all like to believe. At the end of the day we&#8217;re all people with needs, feelings, hopes, dreams, etc. We all need friends, companionship, and so on.</p>
<p><strong>How can you tell if she likes you?</strong></p>
<p>When you talk with her, notice how you feel. Do you feel like you <strong>WANT</strong> her to like you, or do you feel that she <strong>DOES</strong> like you? Is there a strong surge of energy, a magical spark between the two of you? Down deep, you&#8217;ll know&nbsp;if she really&nbsp;likes you. </p>
<p>You can feel it. Trust your gut. </p>
<p><strong>Warning.</strong> Many guys make a big deal about asking a girl if she likes them. Don&#8217;t ever do that. You&#8217;ll put her on the spot and she&#8217;ll have to choose without getting to know you first. It&#8217;s like deciding if you want to buy a car without ever sitting in it. </p>
<p>The key here is confidence and belief in you. Listen for what&#8217;s in your heart, not for what you want to be there. If you&#8217;re too nervous to even talk without stuttering, then you won&#8217;t be able to read your gut feelings.&nbsp; So it&#8217;s very important to get a grip on yourself and just relax. </p>
<p><strong>What if she turns you down?</strong>&#8230;</p>


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