How Do I Introduce BDSM To My Boyfriend? (Video)
Everyone has their fantasy or fetish, and everyone likes different things. It’s part of what makes us such a sexually diverse culture! Many people are into BDSM, or bondage, whether it’s soft...
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Asexual Wanting BDSM But Not Sex – Is It The Medication? (Video)
A self-proclaimed asexual begins taking medication and now finds herself having a strong sex drive – not only wanting sex, but BDSM as well! Is this normal? Is she falling out of the asexual orientation,...
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BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex
A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put his hand over her face.
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How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM
A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt while we’re having sex.”
He...
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The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist
It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited!
Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out.
For each question assign a number based on this scale:
5 = This is something...
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What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM
That’s right, acronyms aren’t just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too.
I’m talking about BDSM – the ultimate antidote to vanilla sex.
Sure...
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Is it Possible to be a Shy Dominatrix? (Video)
Those are two words that you don’t normally see in the same sentence: shy and dominatrix.
Is it possible to be both?
Here’s a question from Melissa who is a little confused.
She always considered...
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