Comments on: Pointless Arguing & Fighting: Why We Yell At Those We Love

By: invista360

invista360 — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 06:08:39 +0000

No, No, No.

Women subconsciously intiate these arguments.
Its basis is:

1. Sexual tension.

2. She wants him to put his foot down so he doesnt turn into a mommas boy (every womans worst fear). He needs to work the word NO into his vocabulary.

This was a control test. Do the dishes, do this, do that. He does. She gets pissed and he cant figure out why.

By: DanAndJenn

DanAndJenn — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 22:34:25 +0000

Wow… great comments!

mashamoon – You are absolutely right! If we could just tell our partners what we expect, they may have a chance at living up to those expectations. Otherwise they’re doomed to fail and never know why…

By: mashamoon

mashamoon — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:41:04 +0000

everyone has EXPECTATIONS in the relationship and EXPECTS the other person to know and understand them without ever telling them

By: mashamoon

mashamoon — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:40:28 +0000

I truly think that this lady does not feel worthy of her partner in some way so she has to belittle him. she can’t communicate to him what problem she has with him or the relationship or herself and feels frustrated. The dishes thing seems like she does not feel appreciated in the right ways for her. Still no excuse for the yelling. they should talk in a place pleasant to both of them and not in the house.