Even I agree with him when he says “You’re not going to find anyone whose 100% insync with you, it’s just unrealistic”. We all have our opinions, flaws, etc. This doesn’t just go with relationships too. If the people would be more loving, & less judging, we’d live in a much better place.
SO TRUE! Yes… I’d also say it’s awesome, and something that everyone should serious consider before they destroy what could be a happy, lasting relationship.
A foolish piece of advice. Getting married out of love is exactly what the average person does. The divorce rates speak for themselves, i think. Yes, you can’t find a 100% exact replica of yourself. But if you search for that 90% instead of settling with a lousy 20% then you just might have a successful marriage.
I believe that the key to any happy relationship is to be thankful. I mean there will always be that little habits that WILL tick you off but try to focus on the bigger picture of the relationship and be thankful. At times when I feel that his bad points are really bringing me down, I try to get over it but taking a different angle and be thankful for the fact he’s (e.g.) a good provider.
I absolutely agree with this. I have a gratitude journal and when I’m feeling down about something, each day I write at least 5 things that I grateful for. It may sound corny, but it really works, after a few days, I stop noticing the little things that bother me…
–jennifer
I totally agree with the doctor, so much. When you have to two people together there is two difference personality so no matter what there will be conflicts it just matters how you deal with the conflict that matters. What is most important in a relationship how well you deal with everything that goes on in and around your relationship. And how well you talk about everything.
June 3rd, 2008 at 5:02 am
Awesome! Smart man! 10/10 Well done!
June 29th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
i love that old man hehe hes 100% right
July 24th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Even I agree with him when he says “You’re not going to find anyone whose 100% insync with you, it’s just unrealistic”. We all have our opinions, flaws, etc. This doesn’t just go with relationships too. If the people would be more loving, & less judging, we’d live in a much better place.
July 24th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Sorry. I meant to say “If people would be more loving..”
November 4th, 2008 at 5:20 am
AWSOME
November 5th, 2008 at 10:15 pm
Yeah I think he stated the obvious, He did not answer the question properly.
November 9th, 2008 at 6:13 pm
SO TRUE! Yes… I’d also say it’s awesome, and something that everyone should serious consider before they destroy what could be a happy, lasting relationship.
November 9th, 2008 at 7:52 pm
A foolish piece of advice. Getting married out of love is exactly what the average person does. The divorce rates speak for themselves, i think. Yes, you can’t find a 100% exact replica of yourself. But if you search for that 90% instead of settling with a lousy 20% then you just might have a successful marriage.
November 11th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
I believe that the key to any happy relationship is to be thankful. I mean there will always be that little habits that WILL tick you off but try to focus on the bigger picture of the relationship and be thankful. At times when I feel that his bad points are really bringing me down, I try to get over it but taking a different angle and be thankful for the fact he’s (e.g.) a good provider.
November 12th, 2008 at 11:38 am
I absolutely agree with this. I have a gratitude journal and when I’m feeling down about something, each day I write at least 5 things that I grateful for. It may sound corny, but it really works, after a few days, I stop noticing the little things that bother me…
–jennifer
July 5th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I totally agree with the doctor, so much. When you have to two people together there is two difference personality so no matter what there will be conflicts it just matters how you deal with the conflict that matters. What is most important in a relationship how well you deal with everything that goes on in and around your relationship. And how well you talk about everything.