If she is not satisfied, then he probably isn’t either. She should sit with him and talk about their sex life. I think we can be mature enough. The husband is probably not ever dominant. Thats a bummer, so she should talk about it w him. Talk about it in a fantasy discussion, not a “doing it wrong” way. Maybe hes afraid of his own dominance & that he will hurt her. Who knows, but be honest. The sex will get better as soon as you do!
me too! is it my fault she’s amazing to look at? no
am i gonna do anything about it? no im straight in life, but i think my brain is still trying things, lol
If it’s JUST a prostitute fantasy and he doesn’t want to dom, that’s easy: he hires you to dominate him.
If you wanted to get more elaborate: you’re a pimp, and of course you have to try out the new boy before sending him out to work for you.
But the straightforward hooker fantasy can be fun. Pretend you’re in a line-up, he walks up and down the room before “picking you out,” you discuss price and go at it.
I guess for legal reasons you’d have to make sure no money actually is exchanged. @_@
There’s an easy solution to this. Ask him for an expensive gift. Not too expensive: you don’t want money to actually become an issue, but just expensive enough to make him pause. When he starts to hesitate, say that you can make it worth his while and then parlay the conversation into whatever sort of seductive approach you want. Be original & flirtatious. This could be a lot easier than just saying you want to make believe you’re a prostitute.
As my father says when he donates blood and is asked, “Have you ever given money for sex?” He answers, “Every 2 weeks when I bring home my check to my wife.” This isn’t a hard scenario for a sexually liberal couple…my gf has done this one in person and with other friends. Thanks Jennifer and Dan for this amazing website Nice to see other Texas liberals outside of Austin
December 30th, 2008 at 12:53 pm
If she is not satisfied, then he probably isn’t either. She should sit with him and talk about their sex life. I think we can be mature enough. The husband is probably not ever dominant. Thats a bummer, so she should talk about it w him. Talk about it in a fantasy discussion, not a “doing it wrong” way. Maybe hes afraid of his own dominance & that he will hurt her. Who knows, but be honest. The sex will get better as soon as you do!
December 30th, 2008 at 1:29 pm
to sub’s dont make a porno but two dom’s make a hell of a bitch fight
December 30th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
the fantasie box idea is GREAT!!!
December 30th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
what do you mean break?
December 31st, 2008 at 8:32 am
rofl:P
January 2nd, 2009 at 9:55 am
me too! is it my fault she’s amazing to look at? no
am i gonna do anything about it? no im straight in life, but i think my brain is still trying things, lol
January 2nd, 2009 at 10:17 am
If it’s JUST a prostitute fantasy and he doesn’t want to dom, that’s easy: he hires you to dominate him.
If you wanted to get more elaborate: you’re a pimp, and of course you have to try out the new boy before sending him out to work for you.
But the straightforward hooker fantasy can be fun. Pretend you’re in a line-up, he walks up and down the room before “picking you out,” you discuss price and go at it.
I guess for legal reasons you’d have to make sure no money actually is exchanged. @_@
January 3rd, 2009 at 1:03 am
There’s an easy solution to this. Ask him for an expensive gift. Not too expensive: you don’t want money to actually become an issue, but just expensive enough to make him pause. When he starts to hesitate, say that you can make it worth his while and then parlay the conversation into whatever sort of seductive approach you want. Be original & flirtatious. This could be a lot easier than just saying you want to make believe you’re a prostitute.
January 11th, 2009 at 2:26 am
Nice! I wish hot for words would investigate this stuff.!
January 14th, 2009 at 3:12 am
As my father says when he donates blood and is asked, “Have you ever given money for sex?” He answers, “Every 2 weeks when I bring home my check to my wife.” This isn’t a hard scenario for a sexually liberal couple…my gf has done this one in person and with other friends. Thanks Jennifer and Dan for this amazing website
Nice to see other Texas liberals outside of Austin