I actually tell my guy and steer him in the right direction. I tell him what works best, directely. When he’s doing it right…well he can see the result. Sometimes after sex I’ll tell him how the way he did ____ was so hot and stuff frommy fantasies. That motivates him to surpass himself every time. I’m a very fullfilled woman. He is less direct than me, but I ask.
So you pretty much make it a game, like a better luck next time? Personally I would be like wtf? you want to do it or let me?Guide him with a quick word or two. But dont emasculate him. He is doing you a favor as much as you are.
July 26th, 2009 at 9:47 am
Awesome. and thank you, that’s what we aim for. — D&J
July 26th, 2009 at 11:17 am
We write notes, post its under our bed, we just take them out and use a pink fuzzy pen, it works great ;D
July 26th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
we hold hands and squeeze if it’s going hunky-dori.
July 26th, 2009 at 3:46 pm
Awesome!!!
July 26th, 2009 at 3:46 pm
Sweet.
July 26th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
44/48 WINNAR!
July 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
I actually tell my guy and steer him in the right direction. I tell him what works best, directely. When he’s doing it right…well he can see the result. Sometimes after sex I’ll tell him how the way he did ____ was so hot and stuff frommy fantasies. That motivates him to surpass himself every time. I’m a very fullfilled woman. He is less direct than me, but I ask.
July 26th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
47/48
July 27th, 2009 at 1:09 am
pause at 0:07 haha
July 27th, 2009 at 2:20 am
So you pretty much make it a game, like a better luck next time? Personally I would be like wtf? you want to do it or let me?Guide him with a quick word or two. But dont emasculate him. He is doing you a favor as much as you are.
September 9th, 2009 at 3:10 am
Why is it frightening to hear a woman scream? Close the windows and enjoy.