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 Posted On: September 25, 2008
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10 Responses to “Should I Act On My Threesome Fantasy?”

  1. DanAndJenn Says:
    November 12th, 2008 at 11:35 am

    Hi there. What would you advise in this situation?

    You don’t have to agree with us, but please provide something constructive to the conversation…

  2. tmf1977 Says:
    November 12th, 2008 at 7:33 pm

    It would greatly depend on the views of this girl’s two friends. I would drop hints and joke around to feel things out to see how the two friends would react. However not everyone takes sex with a grain of salt so to speak. I know some people who have engaged in threesomes and were able to remain as friends and others who have not spoken to each other since. As long as all three people are open minded and its a fling, just sexual, no harm can really be done.

  3. Jayjen35 Says:
    November 14th, 2008 at 4:01 am

    Bad idea. Very bad idea.

    Has your friend ever mentioned to you that she would like to have a threesome? Has she ever said that she would want an open or polyamorous relationship?

    If not, both you AND and her husband/boyfriend bringing it up might well seem as though the two of you already have at least a very serious flirtation going on. And if she says no, will she really be able to see you as her friend? Or will she see you as the woman that is so desperate for her man that she’d

  4. Jayjen35 Says:
    November 14th, 2008 at 4:06 am

    even take a threesome with her thrown in on the side?!

    And what if she agrees only because she feels that the two of you have sort of “ganged up” on her? Or what if she does it because she’s afraid of what her man will do if she turns it down?

    Bottom line, its an intrusion on their relationship. Why not try talking with a single friend that has a male friend who would like the idea? It is far less likely to be awkward than involving yourself in your friend’s relationship. My 2 cents!

  5. Brilyantee Says:
    November 14th, 2008 at 10:43 am

    I would say if all adults consent, then go for it but it s should be a voluntary choice. Some people believe in monogamy but not everyone does, it is up to those people involved and their consesus!

  6. Rubberbandmoviesinc Says:
    November 15th, 2008 at 7:38 am

    now i’m trying this. :D

  7. nmelocolombia Says:
    November 16th, 2008 at 5:56 pm

    Then by all means, please do. What would YOU suggest?

  8. jeannie0007 Says:
    November 16th, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    he’s funnuy

  9. ts70732 Says:
    November 22nd, 2008 at 1:47 am

    actually, that did happen. And it was awesome. We had ablast. We weren’t drunk,high, anything and it was a great time. I guess you have to be comfortable and not prone to jealousy? We are still best friends and I’m still married to the same woman. It is possible if you are able to be open and honest about the situation.

  10. riftalope Says:
    December 17th, 2008 at 10:46 pm

    As long as the bi or not bi question is talked about before anything happens, you should be fine. I’ve had a straight threesome and found out later the other guy was bi. He said he didn’t try me cause he knew I’m not bisexual. I thanked him for that.

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