I wouldn’t swing if my partner satisfied me enough. But! If i was very interested in what another person can do…then yeah, I would probably swing, assuming my partner would as well
Actually the way this often starts out, but the guy has a “the fantasy” about another girl with his wife. so she says “fine, but only if i get to be with a guy too – otherwise it’s not fair” – and it’s not. So that’s how it usually evolves from “just another girl” to “another couple”.
That having been said, this is DEFINITELY not for everyone… millions of people partake in some form or another, but never try it unless your relationship is very solid and not jealousy or ownership based.
This thing is for total perverts! I mean I understand the whole swinging thing but … It should be more organized! I can’t imagine people having sex with strangers…
It’s like L ‘Hi! Let’s have sex!’ And then they go speechless in to separate rooms …
Hey people … can’t you do the connection between your mouth and your brain?
Exactly – get to know someone before you get intimate with them!
The funny part here is that young singles are way, way more likely to have sex with someone they just met in a bar that night than the typically older crowd (30s+) that experiments as a couple with stuff like swinging. That couple is also usually way more conscious about safe sex, etc…
But yeah, know who you’re getting into bed with… be smart, be safe. — D&J
Ha! Fine. That’s a major can of worms, went back and forth about whether to even get into it here.
But yes, in our current society men are conditioned to be VERY homophobic. Right, wrong, whatever… That’s just the reality today.
Women have it great these days, when a girl finds another girl attractive, most guys just start drooling… but two guys even thinking about it and whoa, hold that though, that’s just wrong!!
So yeah, reality in our society today is most men are very phobic…
April 25th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
I wouldn’t swing if my partner satisfied me enough. But! If i was very interested in what another person can do…then yeah, I would probably swing, assuming my partner would as well
April 25th, 2009 at 5:17 pm
swinging…….is bad…fuck that, i’d never give my girl to some other guy
April 25th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
u mean u fuck another girl and fuck another?
April 25th, 2009 at 9:32 pm
well thats ur opinion, Everyone has diff fantasys, So its not Bad, Just not right for you
April 25th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
exactly not ur cup of tea lol
April 25th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
how about girl?
April 25th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
Actually the way this often starts out, but the guy has a “the fantasy” about another girl with his wife. so she says “fine, but only if i get to be with a guy too – otherwise it’s not fair” – and it’s not. So that’s how it usually evolves from “just another girl” to “another couple”.
That having been said, this is DEFINITELY not for everyone… millions of people partake in some form or another, but never try it unless your relationship is very solid and not jealousy or ownership based.
April 25th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
This thing is for total perverts! I mean I understand the whole swinging thing but … It should be more organized! I can’t imagine people having sex with strangers…
It’s like L ‘Hi! Let’s have sex!’ And then they go speechless in to separate rooms …
Hey people … can’t you do the connection between your mouth and your brain?
April 25th, 2009 at 11:06 pm
Exactly – get to know someone before you get intimate with them!
The funny part here is that young singles are way, way more likely to have sex with someone they just met in a bar that night than the typically older crowd (30s+) that experiments as a couple with stuff like swinging. That couple is also usually way more conscious about safe sex, etc…
But yeah, know who you’re getting into bed with… be smart, be safe. — D&J
April 25th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
Ha! Fine.
That’s a major can of worms, went back and forth about whether to even get into it here.
But yes, in our current society men are conditioned to be VERY homophobic. Right, wrong, whatever… That’s just the reality today.
Women have it great these days, when a girl finds another girl attractive, most guys just start drooling… but two guys even thinking about it and whoa, hold that though, that’s just wrong!!
So yeah, reality in our society today is most men are very phobic…