Why is it creepy to call them back within 2 hours of getting their number, but them returning YOUR phone call within 2 hours to mirror your excitement is perfectly acceptable?
Attracting women is ALL about head games, whether you like it or not. I don’t believe in having to fool people to get them to become attracted to you either, and I’m getting nothing. Meanwhile PUAs are repulsing every woman they meet, yet somehow conning them into falling into bed with them on a nightly basis.
I am a girl and let me tell you what every woman looks for are intelligence, smartness and genuineness – I find it much smart to meet a person via Bluepont on cell – better to use something like Bluepont…I get to know if a guy is nearby and looking and we exchange texts and meet up!…SIMPLE
Uhh, “How do I know if its a date”. Well, it depends how the guy verbally asks you. Example, if he says “Wanna hang out sometime and get a cup of coffee” that would be not a date. Cause the “hanging out” clearly hints it to be just friends. Cause hanging out = just friends. There is about only one REALLY solid way to say it and its for sure a date. That is “Will you go out with me”. Example: “Will you go out with me sometimes and get a cup of coffee” Now that’s a date.
Also guys you don’t want to be verbally asking it wrong either. Cause, if you do, the whole time you might be thinking its a date but in fact its not and the girl think its not. And you just end up wasting your time, and stumbling in the “Friend Zone”. Be careful, how you ask the girl out. Easiest way; is to say “Will you go out with me __________?”. Simple, Solid, and there’s no way that can be mistaken for anything else.
Uhh Dan, I somewhat agree with you. On the “When should I call back”. You don’t want to be too early, and you don’t want it to be too late. Too early, well its obvious, that would be creepy, and your showing your desperate. What you gotta do is play it cool you know. Wait 1-2 days. Don’t wait a week, like Dan said she might forget you, or probably meet other guys that got to her for a date. UNLESS, she really really was into you when she saw you.
August 6th, 2008 at 4:35 am
Why is it creepy to call them back within 2 hours of getting their number, but them returning YOUR phone call within 2 hours to mirror your excitement is perfectly acceptable?
Attracting women is ALL about head games, whether you like it or not. I don’t believe in having to fool people to get them to become attracted to you either, and I’m getting nothing. Meanwhile PUAs are repulsing every woman they meet, yet somehow conning them into falling into bed with them on a nightly basis.
August 7th, 2008 at 3:55 am
ya dan the mic is still on lol, u guys are awesome at answering questions, i know almost all i need to know now lol thx
October 8th, 2008 at 7:12 pm
does anyone want to chat?
October 9th, 2008 at 3:33 pm
I am a girl and let me tell you what every woman looks for are intelligence, smartness and genuineness – I find it much smart to meet a person via Bluepont on cell – better to use something like Bluepont…I get to know if a guy is nearby and looking and we exchange texts and meet up!…SIMPLE
October 19th, 2008 at 5:11 am
sounds like cool Jen – does Bluepont work for men too? let me google…thanks
October 19th, 2008 at 2:57 pm
any guys have a cam? i have mine in my profile 6
December 30th, 2008 at 4:14 am
Sounds ideal but your emotions differ from what you “think” you want.
December 31st, 2008 at 2:08 am
Uhh, “How do I know if its a date”. Well, it depends how the guy verbally asks you. Example, if he says “Wanna hang out sometime and get a cup of coffee” that would be not a date. Cause the “hanging out” clearly hints it to be just friends. Cause hanging out = just friends. There is about only one REALLY solid way to say it and its for sure a date. That is “Will you go out with me”. Example: “Will you go out with me sometimes and get a cup of coffee” Now that’s a date.
December 31st, 2008 at 2:18 am
Also guys you don’t want to be verbally asking it wrong either. Cause, if you do, the whole time you might be thinking its a date but in fact its not and the girl think its not. And you just end up wasting your time, and stumbling in the “Friend Zone”. Be careful, how you ask the girl out. Easiest way; is to say “Will you go out with me __________?”. Simple, Solid, and there’s no way that can be mistaken for anything else.
December 31st, 2008 at 2:41 am
Uhh Dan, I somewhat agree with you. On the “When should I call back”. You don’t want to be too early, and you don’t want it to be too late. Too early, well its obvious, that would be creepy, and your showing your desperate. What you gotta do is play it cool you know. Wait 1-2 days. Don’t wait a week, like Dan said she might forget you, or probably meet other guys that got to her for a date. UNLESS, she really really was into you when she saw you.