Actually, photos can be just another way women screen you out. Women love mystery. I’ve found if I write a gorgeous poetic profile, and leave the photo off, I get much more interest than the same profile without the photo. Why? Because their imagination fills in the blanks. Even if you’re reasonably good looking, people immediatly draw stereotypical conclusions in their own mind if you are a good potential mate from your face and what emotion it invokes in them. We all do it.
August 15th, 2007 at 10:32 am
Actually, photos can be just another way women screen you out. Women love mystery. I’ve found if I write a gorgeous poetic profile, and leave the photo off, I get much more interest than the same profile without the photo. Why? Because their imagination fills in the blanks. Even if you’re reasonably good looking, people immediatly draw stereotypical conclusions in their own mind if you are a good potential mate from your face and what emotion it invokes in them. We all do it.
August 21st, 2007 at 6:21 am
…THAT’S the biggest mistake to avoid? Ugh…