10 Responses to “Online Dating – How to Get Her to Actually Respond to You”

  1. IcannotBelieveYou Says:
    August 29th, 2008 at 2:08 pm

    Dripp, that’s because you sent her an email saying only:
    hi, how are you doing?

    are you that boring in person, too?

  2. brien6 Says:
    October 8th, 2008 at 8:08 pm

    naughty fun. visit my profile.

  3. honestygetsthegirl Says:
    December 29th, 2008 at 5:20 am

    You’re not gonna get a response to every message you send, but it is possible to meet high quality women online. The problem with these videos is that although they are well-intentioned and the advice is solid, it’s too non-specific for most guys to be able to make any use of.

  4. honestygetsthegirl Says:
    December 29th, 2008 at 5:22 am

    The problem is there are 10x as many guys on these sites as women. It’s not uncommon for a woman to get 50+ new emails every day. 40 of them say ‘hi, how are you doing’, 9 say ‘wanna see me on cam’ and maybe one might stand out and catch her attention.
    You have to do something that creates an emotional spark in her that causes her to respond (which is outside the scope of this comment, sadly).

  5. jakelong2000 Says:
    January 3rd, 2009 at 8:12 pm

    why well they are stuck up or just not in to you but i think more stuck up it happened to me a lot

  6. DRiPPz6800 Says:
    January 4th, 2009 at 9:35 am

    lol at least i’m not alone

  7. Playitalready Says:
    January 10th, 2009 at 3:29 am

    every message? more like 2/10 (my “successful” friend says 3/10, which is true but when we made an account together so he can “Show me how its done” he also eventually couldnt finish with the 3/10) heck i found a bot that can send up to girls, filtered by age/local/single/body type/race/here to date etc. and STILL its the same stuff. possible, yes. i can win the lottery or become an actor. but in the end if your good (mostly looks) n lucky, its ez, but 4 average people its not goona happen…

  8. Playitalready Says:
    January 10th, 2009 at 3:29 am

    …thats why they call it finding the ONE. but i agree with the other things you said about the poster.

  9. honestygetsthegirl Says:
    January 10th, 2009 at 3:40 am

    What’s wrong with 2/10?

    If you email 10 quality women, and you only end up meeting 1 of them, is that a bad thing?

    The aim is not to attract every woman you can, but to find quality women who you actually like.

    It doesn’t take long to send out 10 messages – you can do it in half an hour, easily. So if you spend half an hour finding quality women and sending emails, then end up meeting one of them, that’s a pretty good return in my opinion.

  10. AlphaWithin Says:
    January 10th, 2009 at 12:52 pm

    For online dating, this video has some pretty nice pointers. And yes, you can find some very attractive women with great personalities online.

    However, if this type of thing isn’t working for you, you might just have to resort to field dating.

    If you don’t want to head out to any potentially volatile places like bars, you could always head out to a local Borders, a library, of a coffee shop. These places tend to be laid back, making it easy to approach a woman.

    Good luck guys,

    Bruce Min

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