I don’t envy your situation, because I’ve been there. There’s all kinds of conflicting advice that’s confusing. Fact is, it’s probably not the speed of reply that caused her to stop messaging you. The only way I could figure it out, is if you were to cut and paste the whole set of emails from that interaction, then I could tell where it went wrong. Feel free to email me on here if you want, and I’ll try and help you out.
That’s the thing though; I’m not doing anything wrong at all. On occassion, I’ll get hit up by some chick who lives ridiculously far from me, and aside from writing the lamentation of how far away they are, I don’t talk to them any differently than I do someone closer to home. Somehow I’m able to establish long-lasting friendships with these far-away women, while the women close by fear me like the plague. Why does it work for the one, but not the other?
Hmm, this is a tricky one, without being able to see the emails. All I can say is there is one common denominator here. If you consistently get on well with chicks far away, but not close by, it figures that maybe there is a subtle difference in your communication. Are you too eager to meet perhaps, or find commonalities? Maybe you lameting them for being far away helps you be more appealing (it shows you’re not some pushover who will agree with every word they say). Who knows…
I already know that expressing the want to meet in the first few e-mails screams nothing but stalker, so I keep any such notions to myself. I make it no secret if I disagree with someone (just ask all the self-proclaimed love gurus who talk to me).
I carefully observe others who behave around women like I do, and so far I can only see one fundamental difference between what I do and what they do; they succeed and I fail. Why? Not even my marginally more successful friends can tell.
All I can say is cut and paste an email of yours that you’ve had with a girl where she’s stopped responding and email me with it.
If I can’t give you specific help to fix the problem, then you can happily write off all my advice as a waste of time.
I’m willing to bet that there’s probably one or two subtle things that wouldn’t take a massive effort to fix.
But I need more information to go on. Understand if you don’t have this available, or don’t want to go through the hassle of getting it.
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December 29th, 2008 at 5:27 am
I don’t envy your situation, because I’ve been there. There’s all kinds of conflicting advice that’s confusing. Fact is, it’s probably not the speed of reply that caused her to stop messaging you. The only way I could figure it out, is if you were to cut and paste the whole set of emails from that interaction, then I could tell where it went wrong. Feel free to email me on here if you want, and I’ll try and help you out.
December 29th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
That’s the thing though; I’m not doing anything wrong at all. On occassion, I’ll get hit up by some chick who lives ridiculously far from me, and aside from writing the lamentation of how far away they are, I don’t talk to them any differently than I do someone closer to home. Somehow I’m able to establish long-lasting friendships with these far-away women, while the women close by fear me like the plague. Why does it work for the one, but not the other?
December 30th, 2008 at 2:22 pm
Hmm, this is a tricky one, without being able to see the emails. All I can say is there is one common denominator here. If you consistently get on well with chicks far away, but not close by, it figures that maybe there is a subtle difference in your communication. Are you too eager to meet perhaps, or find commonalities? Maybe you lameting them for being far away helps you be more appealing (it shows you’re not some pushover who will agree with every word they say). Who knows…
December 30th, 2008 at 3:40 pm
I already know that expressing the want to meet in the first few e-mails screams nothing but stalker, so I keep any such notions to myself. I make it no secret if I disagree with someone (just ask all the self-proclaimed love gurus who talk to me).
I carefully observe others who behave around women like I do, and so far I can only see one fundamental difference between what I do and what they do; they succeed and I fail. Why? Not even my marginally more successful friends can tell.
December 30th, 2008 at 5:36 pm
All I can say is cut and paste an email of yours that you’ve had with a girl where she’s stopped responding and email me with it.
If I can’t give you specific help to fix the problem, then you can happily write off all my advice as a waste of time.
I’m willing to bet that there’s probably one or two subtle things that wouldn’t take a massive effort to fix.
But I need more information to go on. Understand if you don’t have this available, or don’t want to go through the hassle of getting it.
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