first thing is out of order it can be women of all ages and can be quite serious about it especially specific chat sites
but i agree with the definition of cheating , some guys jsut like to get away perhaps even to save a relationship, then get accused of cheating its absurd!
YES it is…like you said if you are sneaking behind your spouses back then obviously you are doing something that will hurt them emotionally.I really wish guys would get their act together & realize that even though they cant touch these women these are real women they r looking at. We are the most vunerable when we are naked with our lover they (men) cheapen it when they look and fantasize of other naked woman in porn mags and videos.
If my boyfriend/husband cheated on me, disregarding the situation, why do I have to think about his feelings when my heart was just broke? So I have to be nice and not to attack him and think about his feelings, when he obviously didn’t think of mine. Men don’t live in a bubble and are not vulnerable, they can handle the truth without women always having to glitter up the truth so it would seem more acceptable.
I really appreciate your perspective, my girlfriend and I have a very similar set of rules. I think it all comes down to communication and ground rules. If one is allowed porn and certain kinds of play with others that’s ok. Cheating is covert and deceptive, and intended to be private. However, I’ve heard of case of friends who have had phone sex with others or carried on ‘relationships’ (non sexual) via world of warcraft and their partner accused them of cheating, I’m not sure that is at all.
December 9th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
i luv jens hair!!!!!!! shes so pretty! =)
December 9th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
first thing is out of order it can be women of all ages and can be quite serious about it especially specific chat sites
but i agree with the definition of cheating , some guys jsut like to get away perhaps even to save a relationship, then get accused of cheating its absurd!
December 12th, 2008 at 9:30 pm
happened to me!
i believe it is !! we still dating each other!
December 17th, 2008 at 9:06 pm
YES it is…like you said if you are sneaking behind your spouses back then obviously you are doing something that will hurt them emotionally.I really wish guys would get their act together & realize that even though they cant touch these women these are real women they r looking at. We are the most vunerable when we are naked with our lover they (men) cheapen it when they look and fantasize of other naked woman in porn mags and videos.
December 20th, 2008 at 10:52 am
ANY GUYS UP?
im on cam and bored mw
December 23rd, 2008 at 8:19 pm
yeah it’s cheating. this happened to my friend.
it’s still a form of ‘dirty’ interraction with someone else. similar to phone sex. if it’s not cheating then what is it?
December 28th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
Yup. You’re being unfaithful emotionally and becoming sexually aroused and more than likely reaching orgasm with another. Even if it’s only online.
January 6th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
ok yeh its cheatin in the sens that u have lost trust and if thares no trust thares nothing any more am 14
January 12th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
If my boyfriend/husband cheated on me, disregarding the situation, why do I have to think about his feelings when my heart was just broke? So I have to be nice and not to attack him and think about his feelings, when he obviously didn’t think of mine. Men don’t live in a bubble and are not vulnerable, they can handle the truth without women always having to glitter up the truth so it would seem more acceptable.
January 14th, 2009 at 3:34 am
I really appreciate your perspective, my girlfriend and I have a very similar set of rules. I think it all comes down to communication and ground rules. If one is allowed porn and certain kinds of play with others that’s ok. Cheating is covert and deceptive, and intended to be private. However, I’ve heard of case of friends who have had phone sex with others or carried on ‘relationships’ (non sexual) via world of warcraft and their partner accused them of cheating, I’m not sure that is at all.