Comments on: Online Sex Chat! Is It Cheating Or Not?

By: robmckenna11

robmckenna11 — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 09:34:19 +0000

I really appreciate your perspective, my girlfriend and I have a very similar set of rules. I think it all comes down to communication and ground rules. If one is allowed porn and certain kinds of play with others that’s ok. Cheating is covert and deceptive, and intended to be private. However, I’ve heard of case of friends who have had phone sex with others or carried on ‘relationships’ (non sexual) via world of warcraft and their partner accused them of cheating, I’m not sure that is at all.

By: CoffeeTreeKiller

CoffeeTreeKiller — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 23:27:53 +0000

If my boyfriend/husband cheated on me, disregarding the situation, why do I have to think about his feelings when my heart was just broke? So I have to be nice and not to attack him and think about his feelings, when he obviously didn’t think of mine. Men don’t live in a bubble and are not vulnerable, they can handle the truth without women always having to glitter up the truth so it would seem more acceptable.

By: ruifiewrfhrwiuhfiu

ruifiewrfhrwiuhfiu — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:48:45 +0000

ok yeh its cheatin in the sens that u have lost trust and if thares no trust thares nothing any more am 14

By: CheckerBoardPants

CheckerBoardPants — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 19:07:01 +0000

Yup. You’re being unfaithful emotionally and becoming sexually aroused and more than likely reaching orgasm with another. Even if it’s only online.

By: iheartjacobblackx3

iheartjacobblackx3 — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 02:19:25 +0000

yeah it’s cheating. this happened to my friend.

it’s still a form of ‘dirty’ interraction with someone else. similar to phone sex. if it’s not cheating then what is it?

By: 55555hands

55555hands — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 16:52:36 +0000

ANY GUYS UP?

im on cam and bored mw

By: nettieb08

nettieb08 — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 03:06:02 +0000

YES it is…like you said if you are sneaking behind your spouses back then obviously you are doing something that will hurt them emotionally.I really wish guys would get their act together & realize that even though they cant touch these women these are real women they r looking at. We are the most vunerable when we are naked with our lover they (men) cheapen it when they look and fantasize of other naked woman in porn mags and videos.

By: bhishampratap

bhishampratap — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 03:30:25 +0000

happened to me! i believe it is !! we still dating each other!

By: xxxsxcdazzaxxx

xxxsxcdazzaxxx — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 02:43:31 +0000

first thing is out of order it can be women of all ages and can be quite serious about it especially specific chat sites

but i agree with the definition of cheating , some guys jsut like to get away perhaps even to save a relationship, then get accused of cheating its absurd!

By: hloser21f

hloser21f — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 01:58:09 +0000

i luv jens hair!!!!!!! shes so pretty! =)