I think it’s important to realize that some people are just not cut out for swinging. They are who they are and no amount of talking about it will take away their inherent jealousy. But if you think may be cut out for it, I would recommend lots of talking between partners so both people clearly understand what they need from the experience and what their partners boundaries are. This may help head off problems.
This sounds odd, but I’m always prepared to lose my partner at any given moment. In a way, this helps me enjoy them IN the moment, and not obsess over having them for x amount of time, or losing them to x amount of people.
You have to understand that they can have fun with many people, but they just choose you to be happy with.
This means I trust her that much more; because if she were to ever do something to me that jealousy would have dreaded, then it’s “had a lot of fun, now I gotta run.”
I lost my girlfriend too a threesome, she went with the other girl. How bads that, not only did we end, she left me for a women! I wanted to get with the other women, so I think she did it to piss me off.
It depends…
As long as you grow and get taller, well… yow lil buddy can grow too…
it depends, some people stop at 17, some at 24…
so yeah… let’s hope for the best…
Dude that’s weird… so awkward…
sorry to hear…
but seriously… threesomes don’t work in a relationship…
When I’m single, sure, in a relationship no fuckin way…
February 5th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
I think it’s important to realize that some people are just not cut out for swinging. They are who they are and no amount of talking about it will take away their inherent jealousy. But if you think may be cut out for it, I would recommend lots of talking between partners so both people clearly understand what they need from the experience and what their partners boundaries are. This may help head off problems.
February 5th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
I’m one of those not cut out for it >.>
February 5th, 2009 at 4:20 pm
This sounds odd, but I’m always prepared to lose my partner at any given moment. In a way, this helps me enjoy them IN the moment, and not obsess over having them for x amount of time, or losing them to x amount of people.
You have to understand that they can have fun with many people, but they just choose you to be happy with.
This means I trust her that much more; because if she were to ever do something to me that jealousy would have dreaded, then it’s “had a lot of fun, now I gotta run.”
February 5th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
Oh yeah, we don’t swing, though I wouldn’t say never.
February 6th, 2009 at 2:29 am
my names aaron in wanted to know when does your penis stop growing couse my penis is 6in in im 16.
February 6th, 2009 at 3:40 am
Thats small mate. Are you worried about that? I don’t think it’ll grow anymore, I think you’re just an unlucky one.
February 6th, 2009 at 3:41 am
I lost my girlfriend too a threesome, she went with the other girl. How bads that, not only did we end, she left me for a women! I wanted to get with the other women, so I think she did it to piss me off.
February 6th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
it stops growing when you’re about 17
February 8th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
It depends…
As long as you grow and get taller, well… yow lil buddy can grow too…
it depends, some people stop at 17, some at 24…
so yeah… let’s hope for the best…
February 8th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
Dude that’s weird… so awkward…
sorry to hear…
but seriously… threesomes don’t work in a relationship…
When I’m single, sure, in a relationship no fuckin way…
March 17th, 2009 at 1:32 am
Good point! You are a very smart person!